You have to ask Allah to give your wife the right understanding. Even if He is steadfast in her position, you will not move away from your position. This is the question of Paradise-Hell. If the situation is strange, if she wants separation, that should be it. Surely, Allah will give you a good wife who will compete with you in deeds.]
The fifth thing is patience. Nothing happens without patience. Patience and faith are related to each other. The more you believe in Allah, the more you will have patience. The more you pray, the more you will not be accepted. Satan whispers to us, If you do, how many more will you call? Allah will not respond to your call even in life! By teaching such a mantra, Satan will want to trap you in the end. Then you will understand that this is your difficult test! A believer still starts praying with full faith; Allah will accept, He will not give back.
This is the burning proof of how hopeful you are for Allah. Most Muslims accept the rate before giving this proof to Allah. The question may be when will Allah's help come? 10 years, 20 years? How many times should this test be given?
In most cases, Allah's help comes after the end of patience. You would be surprised to hear that even the prophets were disappointed with Allah's help. They thought that Allah may be displeased with them. There are very few prophets who did not have to read in such a situation. It is not a fabrication, but Allah Himself has said, "Finally, when the Messengers despaired and the people thought that the Messengers had been given false assurances, My help came to them. In this way, whomever I want is saved. To avert my punishment from the criminals." Can't go "[Surah Yusuf - 110]
To say this in the Qur'an may mean that many of us may think that no prophet has been given as much sorrow as Allah has given me in life.
No, no human being has ever been tested in the way that the prophets did. Imagine who could have more faith in God than the prophets? Even the prophets were disappointed in God's test. Assured. Where is the limit of tolerance when people can think about Allah? But in this verse Allah says, "When they despair, my help came."
We pray and think God has to solve it now. Brother, are you a VIP? Who are you pushing so hard to solve? Do you have any qualifications? The words may sound harsh, but if I say it, I have to say Alhamdulillah once instead of every breath. Is it possible for any human being? Excluding the rest of the blessings, we are unable to give thanks for one breath per second! Yet against whom do we raise our fingers? Who is sitting with His mercy even as He sees us floating in the sea of innumerable sins.
Yes, we humans also have a limit to our patience. But to what extent will we test? Not a single son of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was alive. People started making fun of him. Even after becoming a prophet, did his son pick up the God that he preaches the call of Allah? What could be more sad for a childless father to be on earth. Can the infidels make fun of the pain of losing a child?
Yet God did not give him a son until the last moment of his life. "Allah" who sent Jesus (pbuh) without a father, why did not Muhammad (pbuh) put a bridle in the mouths of infidels with a son? He was dearer to us than us. In fact, these are the decisions of God. His decision is the best decision. His decision does not depend on anyone's will. Accepting it is the identity of a believer.
So, I was talking about patience. Danger will come in life but it will not work if it breaks down. Every sorrow in this world will increase our dignity in the hereafter. He would not have accepted any prayer in this world and would have saved it for the Hereafter, but how much better it would have been. "
Suppose you made du'a in this world but did not get any response. It may be that on the Day of Resurrection, Allah will give you a chance to make du'a in the Hereafter in return for not giving du'a in this world, so do not give up du'a. Stick to the du'a. You have made the du'a, but rest assured that the du'a of the believer never fails. If you do not get anything in this world, you will get its reward in the Hereafter.
To be continued..
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