Haters gonna hate

What's up? I am new here and I'm going to be talking about how to deal with haters. If you're working hard in life and you're working towards success or you're living the alpha life, you're gonna have haters. Don't wonder why if you have haters in your life, it's because you're doing something right. Haters are a sign of success.

What is hate?

Hate is an intense dislike for someone. It comes from a place of envy, it comes from a place of insecurity. The hater sees you prospering and succeeding in life and he wants what you have. He wants your success. The hater could be envious about your looks, could be envious about your success with women, could be envious about your career, could be envious about your success in life, could be envious about your financial success, could be envious about your status in society and even could be envious about your happiness. They want what you have at the cost of you not having it. It's not good enough for them that you both have it and they want to be the only ones to have it.

A hater's mentality is "if I'm not going to make it, you're not going to make it." Their mentality is "if i'm going to hell, I'm dragging you to hell with me." A hater is not a friend, a hater is an enemy. They're envious of what you have. They want to be in your position, they are your enemy. Your hater is going to set you up, is going to stab you in the back, eben kill you. Best believe that if you did die, he would be happy and relieved because your success intimidates him and threatens him. This is the level of hate we are dealing with.

When it comes to haters, the sad truth is that most of the time, these haters are the people that are close to you - your friends, your work colleagues and sometimes even family members. They want to derail you and destroy your success. So how do we deal with haters?

First of all give yourself a pat on the back because if you weren't doing something right you wouldn't have haters. So well done and congratulations for having haters. You got to develop thicker skin. What I usually do is use their negative criticism as fuel to work harder. I remember when one of my friend told me to stop my growing business. Instead of celebrating the fact and congratulating me and encouraging me to do more, he tried to downplay my success and discourage me.

One of the biggest signs of a hater is that they will not celebrate your success. Keep an eye out, smile at their criticism and use it as fuel to work harder. If you really want to make your hater suffer, what you need to do is become more successful. Focus more on yourself, focus more on your success and see how that's going to make them feel. If you kind of making an effort to succeed has made them feel like this, then just imagine you putting all your energy into developing yourself and into succeeding how that's going to make them feel?

So deal with your haters by making them hate you more by being successful.