Love

LOVE!! LOVE!! LOVE!!

I love you, do you love me??,how much do you love me??you are the love of my life, I don't know where I would have been without your love...These are just mare statements if the word LOVE is not adequately understood...

First of all...what is LOVE??

LOVE has numerous meanings but I will define LOVE as the most spectacular, indescribable, deep, euphoric feeling for someone, LOVE encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states.

The word LOVE has been abused by countless number of persons in out society today...

You see a case whereby a lady is bitterly bruised by her husband or fiancee who claims to love and care for her. Do u call that love???NO!!!

These four Letter words LOVE is a very Gigantic word...now let's see four different meanings of the acronym love!!!

1)L-life

O-offers

V-valuable

E-experience

2)L-listen

O-observe

V-visualise

E-express

3)L-living

O-outside

V- various

E- experience

4)L-lots

O-of

V-violent

E-emotions

As we can see from the above meaning of love, that we live out our various experience, they say experience is the best teacher...

Listen,observe, visualize and express our feelings.

LOVE is a very sweet experience and at the same time a bitter one.

When you love someone and later on that person hurts you, you find it difficult to let go...

Do you Know that you find it easier to forgive a random person than someone you love??this is so because you have nurtured the feeling of love towards them and anything they do hurts you deeply.

The two basic types of love are; parental and Romantic feeling of love.

The parental love is a type of love shown by parents towards their children, parents provide care for and protect their children because they love them likewise, children become Fond of their parents because they have grown to love them as well.

That takes us further to the romantic love which indeed is very broad...It is an intense feeling of deep affection and an enacted emotion..most times people claim to love someone just because of the bodily benefit and pleasure which is that love is more that just sex.

We all know that sex has allot of benefits to human but that shouldn't be the basis for any relationship!!!

We seem to forget that trust,understanding, commitment,love, attention are very Paramount in a relationship because these virtues makes relationship stand firm and last longer.

Relationship is not just something you rush into, it is nurtured, built,grown overtime.

Yes they say love at first sight exist and it's real, I don't argue with that fact but you shouldn't just fall in love with someone based on their looks because the outward appearance can deceive us into making wrong choices and decisions, therefore, we should get to know the person better, his/her characters, if you will be able to cope with it or not...

Yes I know that as humans we are not perfect but there should be a good virtue found in you that attracts your partner towards you.

There are times when argument,fights arise but this is just to build up the relationship because no relationship is 100%perfect, every relationship has it's flaws. But the most important things are understanding and trust.

Yes,appearance does Matter Allot.but, how do you feel when you have a beautiful wife or fiancee who cannot cook, wash your clothes or perform her duties as a woman.

Conclusively I urge the youths and all others not to be deceived by appearance but should look for a virtuous partner who is capable and able.

Love does conquer all...