Here are the five avoidable occurrences leading to sexual defilement in marriage:
👉🏾 Covetousness
This is a great weapon used by the devil to destroy homes and marriages today. When a wife or husband isn't satisfied or contented with their STATUS, STATURE, POSITION & SITUATION - there's a great tendency that either of them will GO OUTSIDE the marriage to fulfill their expectations and demands.
Covetousness covers almost every area and sector of life.. Ranging from coveting other people's beauty, body endowments, sexual appeal and attraction, wealth, fortunes, assets, positions, title, gifts, talents, grace, anointing, knowledge, intellect, etc.
Many are DEFILING THEIR BEDS, just to get what they want AT WHATEVER COST. Many homes are experiencing crisis, conflicts and chaos because of the LACK OF CONTENTMENT among couples.
Many men aren't SATISFIED with their wife's beauty, body endowment, food, sexual appeal, etc. - and therefore, won't mind going out to meet their needs.
Many woman aren't CONTENTED with their husband's body physique, sexual appeal, financial status, etc. - and won't mind engaging in extramarital affairs to fulfill their expectations and needs.
*Other reasons responsible for defilement in marriage are:*
👉🏾 Prioritizing ministerial, career and professional pursuit, at the expense of SEXUAL INTIMACY.
👉🏾 Low sex drive and life among couples, due to "too much schedules and programs", at the expense of the marriage.
👉🏾 Lack of discipline in friendship or relationship with the opposite sex - especially colleagues at work, church, school, business; female or male friends in the neighborhood; suitors and admirers; former relationships or courtships, etc.
👉🏾 Spiritual attack form the pit of hell - which is the main reason behind most spouses engaging in extramarital affairs, and practicing adultery.
Finally, when a home doesn't take JESUS CHRIST to be the anchor and captain of their marriage ship, the home is bound to suffer immeasurable and countless attacks from the kingdom of darkness - and nothing destroys a home faster and quicker than husbands and wives engaging in ADULTERY & IMMORALITY.