Little things that really counts

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There are things we do or say that we think it's just little but it really has great effect on the other person be it good or bad, sometimes we say things based on how we feel at a particular moment and most times we just say exactly is what on our mind out loud and sometimes it makes one happy and sometimes it breaks one more than we can even imagine.

I'll be listing out some things we say or do that we just think it's normal but trust me it's not, although it's good to say the truth and always let someone know if their opinion is not ideal but there are ways we can say it that won't be so hurtful.

There are times we compliment people with beautiful words that we think it's just normal unknowing to us, we've actually put a big smile on someone's face for the day, whenever someone sends us a picture, and we give them some really nice words on the picture, it brings comfort and joy to them and by nice words, it's not just "beautiful, dope, nice" we should learn to complement everything also by admiring their clothes and shoes and everything on them, that way you might remind a soul that they're actually beautiful and make them smile for that moment.

And there are times we also say things that are hurtful that it does not only hurt but it breaks the person soul and we think it's just minor and we laugh about it.

I for one hate comparison between two humans, when you're telling someone they're not as good as another person that they should learn from that person, especially if they personally know the other person, this does not only bring hurt but cultivates envy between two people. For instance, comparing your lover with your best friend, automatically, your lover begins to hate your best friend and of course they're both female.

We laugh at people's dressing and their method of speaking and maybe one deformity, they might laugh alongside you even when you're making jest of them, but deep down they might be in tears, this thing is rampant, we do it all in the name of cruise but it's not proper.

We say word like shut up, go to hell and all other words that are somewhat abusive and all not knowing it's damaging someone.

Author's message

Let's try to caution what we say and correct people with calmness. If their idea isn't making sense, let's tell them politely and not make fun of them, compliment people and try to put smile on other's face, stop comparing people, it's not proper. This will help create a wonderful relationship between all humans and the world might start to become a better place. Thank you