Should we listen to ourselves or others?

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Today I want to discuss briefly on a simple topic that everyone will contribute their own views and suggestions as well. People have different ways of thinking and different perspective. What I'm thinking might not really be exactly what you are thinking. And what I like might not really be what you like. People have different taste, all men on their own way.

Should we listen to ourselves or should we listen to other people?

Like I have said earlier, we all have our own choice but I wouldn't like to listen to people than listening to my own self. I Know from the beginning the heart of men wasn't good at all. The heart of men are full of evil thought , so everything that comes out from the evil heart always sounds evil and frustrated. I will love myself than loving any other person. Let me fall in love with myself so that if I hurt myself I will know that I am the one who hurt myself than feeling pains cause by other person.

I had a story of a man some days ago, when I attained a church seminar on Sunday morning in my church. The story was narrated by a presenter who is so smart and vibrant. Though he is an adult but he has been in the teaching field for about thirty one years and counting. I really enjoyed his teaching. He narrated this story at some point when he saw that people were somehow tired, that is where he brought in the story.

He was talking on how people should listen to themselves rather than listening to what other people are saying. He said that a doctor was treating an adult sick person and the sick person told the doctor not to waste his time on treating him that he knows that he will die. He said the doctor asked the sick man why he said that he's going to die, and the man said that it's time to leave this frustrating life and go to rest. The sick man started telling the doctor his story from his early stage.

He said when he was four years of age he was trying to see how he could grow up. When at his fourteen years he was already thinking of how he could become rich and turn his world to his taste. He said the sick man vision was to study zoology but people told him to go and study engineering, which he listened to their opinion and went and studied engineering in the university and while he was still struggling doing what he didn't like because that is not what he planned for himself.

When he was 28 years of age the same people that advice him on what to study in school also came to him and advice him to marry a wife when he wasn't ready. But according to their advice he went into marriage that he wasn't prepared. One day when he returned from work he noticed that his wife has been sleeping with his neighbor and he cautioned the wife before he could return back from work the following day. He learnt that his wife has run away with all his children that since then he hasn't seen them in his eye.

He concluded that all those people that he listened to have all stay away from him after they have frustrated his life. That he's now left alone with just his self alone, that had it been he had listened to his self that he wouldn't gotten to such mess that he is into. Now I learned a lesson from the story that it's not good to listen or work towards the advice that most people will give me, it is better I listen to myself and follow the direction that my thoughts will direct me than to allow people to control my future for me.

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