This is not a feminist article this is based on some facts and observations, if you find some information mythical corrections are welcome, have a blast reading...
Today's generation is far from the past generation wherein the worth and strength of a woman aren't recognized at all. The past generation of women are being devalued, in our country women before is not being prioritized to send in school because their parents will tell them "You will marry soon, took care of your family and your husband will provide financial need, studying would be a waste since you can't used your profession because you will be left in the house." Even if their daughters have more potential than their sons because men will be the ones to work for the family.
Because of this, the majority of women are being abused. It is believed that the one who brings financial income or higher financial contributions in the house is the 'boss', though not literally but somewhat like that. Women are being undervalued, beaten, treated like a maid instead of wife, insulted, abused physically, emotionally, and mentally. Although not all but majority this is the case why some women suffer a lot in their marriage, having a narrow-minded husband.
But today, women are competent some risky professions are being taken by some empowered women. Although in terms of competency men are still superior, the society and industry are now embracing the women's ability unlike before.
Women nowadays are starting to develop or have a backbone, damsel in distress is an old fashioned, old school and out of style who only depend on her prince or knight in shining armor. Women had awakened from their illusions, the reality is harsh, and only in fantasy those prince and knights exist. Women have learned to fight for their rights, showing their ability that they are capable enough to a given value and they are worth it. Thanks for those wonderful women who bring awareness about women empowerment,
I also believe in the point of view of sir ErdoganTalk in his articles "Alone in the Universe", it is applicable to all especially in women that we can expect love and respect from our family, friends, and husband but we can't demand it. So as for women, we should learn how to be independent emotionally and financially, we are solely responsible for ourselves as if we are alone in this universe.
To all women out there reading this, if you are still playing the damsel in distress role then over it, learn to fight for your right especially if you are a wife, learn to raise your voice, learn to acknowledge your right as a wife. In marriage, husband and wife must have equal rights, it is biblical that the wife should submit to her husband only if it is the right thing or decision. It is also biblical that the husband should love and cherishes his wife by considering her opinions in every decision of the house regardless of the number of financial contributions.
To all empowered women who do multitasking from working, mother, and a wife, congratulations and keep it up, salute for discovering the strength you thought you never had.
To all men who love and respect their spouses, my salute goes to you!
I believe not all men are abusive and I have great respect for them, just that there are some who really are, narrow-minded creatures.
If you like to read sir ErdoganTalk's article about "Alone in the Universe" you can check the link below. You will learn a lot from it.
https://read.cash/@ErdoganTalk/alone-in-the-universe-954ddc3d
P.S this article is dedicated and inspired by my mother inlaws, it's too late for her to apply women empowerment, although not literally late, just that she had enough sufferings and is old already, she is not beaten physically but being abused emotionally and mentally because she is naive. ๐๐ Women should be tough so that we won't be taken advantage of.
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Thanks for your referencing of my article.
In the case of the division between men and women, I think there should be focus on the individual, every individual is different from all others, and everybody can and should do what he or she wants.
So there is no war between the sexes. It is an illusion created by people who like to incite chaos.