@Eybyoung
No guts no Glory
***Have you encountered a person who complains a lot, yet cannot raise their voice to the person or certain situations they are complaining?*** From the title itself it talks about guts, guts to raise your voice, guts to step up guts to do the things with confidence in yourself. Some people are gutless and cowardice, especially to those direct people around them. They cannot tell them directly what they thought or what they feel. Maybe there were afraid that a person will be mad or have some violent reaction or whatsoever. I think it is better to tell people directly what you feel or what are your thoughts especially when it comes to a personal relationship, being frank will not lead you astray. Frankly speaking, will avoid unnecessary thoughts and assumptions as you are both changing ideas and come up with a solution to compromise and aid the complaints. Some people tend to vent their complaints to other people instead of the person they were complaining, this somehow forms a "**gossip**" as both are changing assumptions without clarifications to the second party. This is one of the worst attitudes of a person, making gossip instead of speaking frankly and being straightforward. This is an act of cowardice, that sometimes leads to conflict. *Personally, I am a straight forward person I always talk frankly. When I don't like certain things I always have a word without hesitation, being coward is not on my vocabulary but I always make sure I speak it pleasantly, without insult and unpleasant words. It's always better to talk frankly than backstabbing that person. It annoys me hearing complaints from a person who doesn't even have the guts to speak frankly, because for me if you can't speak it then you don't have much right to complain a lot.* Only those people who have guts will have glory, for example, if you have guts to risk on a certain investment then you will rip glory so as failures it always sticks together and you will have it either gains or the failures. In taking every step only those who have guts will step up. So as to personal issues, only those who have guts will rip the truth out from nonsense assumptions.
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Yes i agree with you..Its better to be speaking frankly in person than backbiting😑
Yeah, it's a bad habit to backstab other people than to talk to them frankly.
So true, @Eybyoung. I also don't like those people who cannot tell their complaints to that specific person. It's so easy for me and less complicated. It can easily solve the problem without involving the people around you.
Exactly, I find it annoying when some people tell me their complaints to me but cannot tell the people directly they are complaining to. Like, is it really hard to speak frankly? how come I do it easily. Just like that lol.
Same. 😂 But, maybe they're not that brave just like us. 🤭 They're just brave doing the gossip thing. But when it comes to facing the real person, they're too coward and cannot handle the situation. 😂
Yeah, I have some people around me like that. Instead of telling the person directly, they tend to tell the other people and that made them gossipers. I don't like those attitudes, good to know people like you who have guts like me, cheers!😁
I was surrounded by those people too. That's why I can really relate to your article. 😂
It's really annoying right? 😂😂 my gosh lol.
😂 So funny that you really got annoyed because of that. I think it just happened recently on your part? 😅
I get annoyed because, it happens everyday 😂 and that person seems cannot appropriate what is around and loves to complain a lot tsk tsk. Like they have negative thoughts about everything 😂
Lol. That's too annoying then. 😂 He didn't even realize how annoying he is. 😂
Yeah, they don't realize because it's their nature 😂😂😂
Is this for me? hahahaha. Wishing I have a guts to speak frankly 😐
hahaha no! why is that. I just have some people around me who keep complaining a lot and yet don't have the courage to speak up. Hmmm, try to speak a little, little by little and you will develop the habit of speaking frankly of course with some limitations to your words as long as you have passed your point of views in that certain person or situation.
In my personal life I said words frankly as I dont want gossips. I mean here in Readcash hahaha.. Baka mamention na naman ako sa article e haha
HAHAAHAHA! never mind those people, just let it pass. Di nmn tayo pa victims lol.
Guts guts guts ahwww. By Sexbomb
hahahhaha may kanta ba yung sexbomb na ganyan?? di ko alam haha
Ahy wala ewan. Haha basta yung get get ahw kanino ba yun? 😂 haha
get get aw, kase yun hindi guts guts aw 😂😂😂😂😂🤩
Hahahha joke po kasi yun. 😂
ay hala di ko na gets, obobs lang 😂😂
Until you confront your situation squarely, no glory will be accorded to you
very true..one has to believe in self instincts and act accordingly..that helps a lot.
Yeah, I think so too.
That is a very good habit you follow. Generally people become rude when they hear straight talk.
Yeah, maybe because they prefer fake than the truth.