Weird Post in FB that I Have Read
COMPLAINING and being NOT CONTENTED is really part of HUMAN NATURE.
It was another boring rest day and I just decided to lay in bed and waste my time scrolling in Facebook. For days I have never been active in FB so I want to check what is going on in my friends and news feed. Just maybe I could find something interesting.
Well, I realized it is just almost the same. When I say "the same" is like some are still pretending to be happy while others are trying to portray being sad like sharing sad memes or qoutes that would look like someone hurt them or broke up with them when I know for a fact that they are just trying to confuse others I just react "haha" to their posts. The rest are those people who makes me smile by posting their trips with their fam, success, earnings.
There is this post from a certain page that I have been following which made me frown. The thought of the post is really weird that I do not know how to comprehend. Anyway, this page is mostly about sharing achievements in savings, investments so that is why I decided to follow. Though another reason why it is weird is because the post itself is out of the usual topic of the page. Anyway, here's the post below. This is in Filipino language by the way so I will just write down a summary in English form right after.
WIFEY NA WALANG SOCIAL LIFE
First time ko po magpost and im using dummy account. Gusto ko lang po malaman kung meron dito nakakarelate sa wife ko.
Magkaiba kami ng wife ko, extrovert ako while sya ay introvert. Mahilig ako gumala, mamasyal kasama mga co work at friends ko, maki pag bonding kahit kanino. Kahit saan mo ko ilagay go ako at hindi ako namimili ng makakasalamuha na tao, outgoing sociable.
Ang wife ko naman ay introvert, mas gusto lang sa bahay, lalabas man mabilis lang, wala man lang syang friends na nakakasalamuha, o nkakakwentuhan. Sa bahay man mag aalaga sya ng bata, maglilinis ng bahay, magluluto, maghuhugas, maglalaba, her free time is mag basa ng anime manga, manhwa o kaya novel.
Nagswimming din kaming mag family pero halos 2 hours lang kami kasi lalamigin daw si baby, sa mall naman pag grocery lang tapos uuwi agad. Pag inaaya ko syang kumain sa resto o fastfood mas gusto nya sa foodcourt. Pag sinabi ko na mamili sya ng damit na bago or shoes sasabihin nya wala syang matipuhan so ang ending kami lang ng anak ko may bagong gamit. Pag kumakain naman nahuhuli sya palagi kasi yung tira ko sa plato pati tira ng anak namin kinakain nya.
5am ang usual ko na pasok sa work at 2am pa lang gising na sya para magprepare ng breakfast ko pati susuutin at baon ko, nka meal plan sya for a week. Pag day off sya din nag cacarwash ng sasakyan ko pati motor, ayaw nya ko magpa carwash sa labas mahal daw ang bayad. Pag day off ko matutulog lang ako at manonood ng movie. Sya same routine everyday. Hindi rin sya maghilig magpost at magpapicture, madalas kami lang ng anak ko pinipicturan nya.
Minsan nagising ako ng 6am, umiiyak anak, hinahanap mama nya, pagbaba namin nagluluto si wifey while namamalantsa tapos na din sya mag saing, then paglabas ko nakapaglaba na din pala sya kasi tumutulo pa sinampay sa labas. Sinabihan ko sya na buksan ang aircon kasi tagatak na pawis nya while nagpaplantsa sagot nya wag na daw sayang kuryente. Even sa paglalaba kahit may automatic kami na washing machine nagkakamay pa din sya ang reason nya? Hindi daw malinis mas prefer nyang maghandwash.
Minsan di ko ma gets si wifey, kumpleto naman kami sa gamit pero pinapahirapan nya sarili nya. Ang dami din diaper for our baby pero cloth diaper ang gamit nya.
Sinabihan ko sya na lumabas sya gumala magliwaliw pero pano daw si baby, kaya sinabi ko na ako na bahala at guess what?! Wala pa po 1 hour umuwi nya hindi daw sya mag eenjoy kasi inaalala nya anak namin, breastfeed kasi si baby. Naaawa ako sa wife ko pero hindi sya masabihan, sinama ko sya before para makahalubilo nga tropa ko pero hindi sya nakipag kwentuhan kasi nakikipaglaro sya sa anak namin.
Minsan nacocompare ko sya sa ibang wife kasi magkaiba kami ng interes, swerte po ako sa wife ko kaso hindi sya yung tipo na fun kasama sa galaan. Yung huling outing namin nung nagsubic kami kasama side ko, inaya ko sya mag disco kaso lumabas din kami agad kasi masakit daw sa mata yung lights, tsaka hindi sya mapakali kasi si baby daw baka hinahanap sya, baka umiiyak na daw hindi dw makatulog pag hindi sya katabi.
Nag order ako ng buttered shrimp at pinilit ko syang kumain dko alam na may allergy pala sya sa hipon, sa bahay nagluluto sya ng shrimp pero hindi ko alam na hindi pala sya kumakain basta pinagluluto nya lang ako favorite ko kasi yun, buti na lang 1 lang nakain nya kaya konti lang pantal nya.
Di ko naenjoy bakasyon namin kasi tinitignan ko pa lang sya ang dami nyang ginagawa. Gusto ko ituro sa kanya yung mga bagay na madaling gawin para hindi sya ganun ka pagod pero ang reason nya sayang daw ang kuryente.
Mga kapeso tingin nyo sino ba sa amin ang may mali.
Source: Facebook Post
So the sender of this post is the husband trying to ask advise about his wife being an introvert. His wife would prepare his breakfast and uniform to wear at 2am since his shift is at 5am. She would then take care of the baby. She is not that sociable and when he brought her to bond with her friends or relatives it would end up her playing with their baby instead.
Everytime they go to the mall he would ask her to buy something for herself but she won't, so it ends up the baby and him having to buy something new while the wife won't have any for her.
She often observe her doing household chores and she would usually do the chores in a difficult way than to do it in a snap using their appliances like example washing their clothes. His wife won't use washing machine stating that it would only cost too much electricity and would increase their bill plus the result is not that clean so she ends up washing it through hands.
He was asking how can he make his wife realize that he wanted her to enjoy, socialize because whenever he ask her to go somewhere and enjoy she would end up going home before an hour because stating she is so worried about their baby who is in breast feeding.
Well ♡ there is really nothing wrong with his wife for me. He just do not get it that there are women who are happy simply stsying at home taking care of their family than to go somwhere to enjoy. She is very wife material though the husband does not have a bad intention but there is this part of his post where he compared his wife to other wives which is a very very bad idea.
Comparing is like not accepting who she is and trying to think of someone else instead. It is like you want the other wives to be her when she is trying to show you her love in a way that she knows.
Minsan talaga may saltik tong mga lalaki eh no? Lol!
Anyway, this can be nonsense but I appreciate you dropping by. (●´з`)♡
Article: XV as of 06.05.2022
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