Work on yourself.

Good day everyone.

“How I wish I had a man like yours for a husband”

Often than not we have heard of this statement either from married women themselves (shocking) or from single ladies (very common). I have some three simple questions for you all who say this;

1. If this man you wished for were to be given to you in his “raw” state would you have still wished for his type?

2. If this man is the replica of the person you are right now, would you still wish to have him for a husband?

3. Are you truly sure that you can cope with who this man really is than his physical being that you see?

See, there is no way you will attract something different from who you truly are. Work on yourself and I can tell you that VIRTUE does not hide. A woman with VALUE does not need to carry a placard to portray that rather everywhere she goes, it smells like sweet perfume on her body. Do not envy when you see others in the physical looking astonishing because if the inside is exposed to you, you might not be able to handle it. It is ok to be happy for someone, but to think of wanting to have what they have or be in their shoes, hmmm……. Proverbs 1:5 Let the wise listen to these proverbs and become even wiser. Let those with understanding receive guidance

Any married man you see out there worth admiring and wishing for, is the product of a hardworking wife. Another woman has dedicated her life to work tirelessly, praying for him constantly, advising him always, forgiving and forgetting all his mess, tolerating his “nasty” behaviours, compromising his daily nerving habits, working hand in hand with him to see that things get better, accepting his weaknesses and choosing him no matter the odds.

Work on yourself and keep asking God to help you out always. Some people have gotten what they have today by GRACE. And this GRACE is abundant that you too can get yours. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and Lean not on your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Married women appreciate the ones you have as husbands. Let no one make you feel that their marriage and relationship is better than yours. Do not read a book by its covers but let the content motivate you to do better. There is no one better than the man you have right there with you who can understand and tolerate you the way he does. Like you see in the picture, to get to a happy ending there is a journey you need to undertake.

Thanks for reading, i hope you learn one or two.