Recipe for a peaceful Life
1.You alone decide who you are
We all have something great, something incredible, something magical, something special in us which no one can find out except us so open the eyes of your heart and accept yourself wholeheartedly. No one knows what you're carrying inside you except yourself so Stop listening to others who knows absolutely nothing about you.
We are the one who can decide and find out 'what' and 'who' we are in real So stop giving priorities to other's opinion, stop making fake comparisions with others as there is absolutely nothing same in each of us with which we can compare ourselves. We all have something unique and great in us so instead of following others, make your own identity, bring all the possibilities which you have for years, polish and cherish all the capabilities you are carrying for years. The only one who gets to decide your worth is only you. You can rise up from anything, you can reinvent and recreate your identity a millions times , you just need to believe on yourself.
2.Surround yourself with people who make your life better
Surround yourself with people who make your life a thousands times better. Surround yourself with people who feed your soul, not eat it. Surround yourself with people who have the habits you want to have in yourself. Surround yourself with people who push you to improve yourself, to do and be better everyday. Surround yourself with people who believe on you, who believe on your dreams. Surround yourself with people who bring the best, the goodness in you. Surround yourself with people who talk about dreams, vision, humanity, love, ideas , not about the people. Surround yourself with people who make not only your heart but also your heart smile. Surround yourself with people who nourish your soul, who rejuvenate your heart. Stop chasing people. Stop following people. It will give you nothing but sadness, hopelessness.
3.Focus on your path
We all have some pre destined destination which we we need to find out ,which we need to walk so don't get lost easily in other people. Focus on yourself, on your dreams, on your path insted of people.
We all are walking our own unique and special path So don't make compare your unique journey with others. Rather than following other's path, it will be much better and appreciated if we create our own path an follow it.
People will doubt on you, on your dreams but you should not worry about what people think or say, you need to focus on yourself, on your dreams, on your path only. Some people are always negetive, bitter so don't waste your time on them and don't let them bother you.
5.You are allowed to cut off toxic people and situations
Dare to draw the bounderies between you and toxic people which you need badly. Don't be afraid to cut them off from your life because cutting contact with toxic people will transform your life positively and beautifully, will give you endless happiness and peace.
It will be hard to cut off from toxic people at first but as time goes on each passing day will bring you unexpected blessings. Toxic people are like dark stormy clouds when they disappear always brings a shiny, beautiful and clear day. You don't have to feel guilty about those toxic people as you are hurting them by cutting them off from your life ,you are just simply performing the duty you should perform towards you.
Be strong enough to raise your voice for the sake of your own self. Life is always better and beautiful without those toxic people, so be courageous even for once as you're the one who will enjoy this beautiful happy ending.
Wishing you a great day ahead. Be strong. Be happy. Be positive. Stay safe.
Evelyn___4.43pm___21.06.22
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Thanks for these positive advise.. Yes, we need to surround ourselves with people who can make our life better, people who can encourage us to do better, people who can teach us how to be better.