You are Addressed The Way You Dress (Dress Decently)

I was walking on the street with my group of friends when an almost nude lady walked past us, Oh My God, being a lady, I felt ashamed but you need to hear the names people were calling her.

Some guys were like " Babe, come, how much will you collect for thirty minutes?" I just couldn't believe a girl will decide to leave her house naked all in the name of fashion trends, who does that?

Been a girl who always loves being in the midst of guys, I have learned and heard so many things and one of the lessons I have learned is their way of approaching different girls with different dressing.

The rate at which girls are going naked on the streets all in the name of fashion trend/dressing is alarming and devastating and funny enough, they are always addressed because of their way of dressing.

The truth is, no responsible guy will approach a lady who is already selling her belonging to the world for free for anything reasonable but watch out for the words that come out of the mouth of people around.

Some of us will say, it is none of their business how I dress, but why then do we get angry, if they call you a prostitute? pardon me, if you are touched on any part of your body because you exposed it for them, what do you do? I am sure those don't go well with you.

Don't get me wrong here, I love nice and beautiful dressing, but don't go to the extent of going naked on the street in the name of dressing and don't start wearing dresses that make you unapproachable or make your appearance look shabby.

There is a difference between dressing decently and beautifully, dressing indecently, and dressing shabbily.

Dress properly to avoid people addressing you badly because the way you dress, is the way you will be addressed. Those parts are for your personal belongings, there are yours to look at and the man who will marry you finally and not for public admiration.

The way dress either brings good people our way or attracts bad people our way. We are a product of what we wear and dressing improperly does not mean you are going to get married soon.

Dressing decently doesn't mean you are old-fashioned neither does it mean you are an archaic person but it means you respect yourself and your dignity.

Stop letting people accuse womanhood like they are the worst human on earth because they are not. Dressing provocatively can cause so much harm not only to ourselves but to others around us.

The way we dress not only harms us or puts us in danger but also affects other people. You are addressed by the way you dress. So dress decently to avoid someone demeaning you.

Women are beautifully and wonderfully made and all we need is the right touch here and there and we are good to go but when we are displaying our bodies all in the name of trend or dress code, we lose value and cause people to look down on us.

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