Having People as a Connection is Bad?

Let's break this thing up; having a connection awful? That's the question most of us think about. Do we need to question whether people gained something because of connections? I don't think so, and there is something in the connection we might not fully understand. I have connections, and that was because of my efforts. I knew some because that has already been for a long time; it's not known. So better if from now on you must think about having people that will back you up, don't be jealous of people who have connections but be one of them; that's a reality of life.

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I bet you knew what happened. I used one of the forbidden cards. "The power of connection" was, of course, talking to people also needs to be responsible no matter the issue is. You must also consider the people if this will be his benefit or his downfall. Connections with people are required to be in a responsible way. Like it would be best if you also kept their names clean no matter what; for being with them might be an advantage but also not on their side.

I was trained by one of my mentors in college. I had this professor who was like an older brother to me. He was part of my life for every time we talked after school or on weekends, there was always something that would pop into his mind and share it with me; especially when I am the fourth year, he was the one who prepared me to take the license exams, like he will explain things about do and don't, and everything that he will feel like will help me in my future.

Of the Proverb he said is that "Connections wasn't bad."

He said I must be friendly, especially to people with whom I will share things. I get his point. Your classmate alone could be your connections. One day no one knew what was the future as he said; that person whom you think slow and whom you bullied; you don't know what will be the part of him in his career. It's either your friend or competition. Life is unpredictable, as he said.

That comes to my mind; I don't know but naturally inserted in my mind that I will be respectful of those professionals. If they were and Doctor called him 'doc' if she was teacher call him 'ma'am' or 'sir.' That's happened if they were maiden and in professional looking called "Ms.". This is the best thing for they won't easily forget you if you act professionals.

One that supports us is the landlord of our dormitory, we were all male, and we can't change that. We could argue about loud noises and some things that are issues inside the dormitory. One thing the landlord explains is that we are all brothers in one house; we must look for each other. He also wanted not to cut our connections with each other, so when things come out and we need someone, especially in our career soon. Please help each other, as he said.

Connections weren't bad, but they abused them.

Some people don't think that connections will make them wrong. This happened as it made the image of having a relationship unpleasant. Because they were part of his family because he was a friend, he tolerated the actions of those people, like ignoring the most qualified over the unqualified relative. This person ruined the good name of connections or the brotherhoods.

This is also understanding thought about fraternities and sororities.

As you are still young, I suggest building your connections, because we don't know what will happen. It was still "Survival" where we didn't care about other people. We must bring ourselves before others; that comes to the point where we need backup support from a collection. I don't see the connection as a lousy image; instead, I see it as an advantage.

Also, it was the nature of professionals to be friended with those with whom they could also gain an advantage of themselves sooner or later.

What was your thought about connections? Do you see it good or not? Some people might have bad things about it because people misused those connections. Think carefully. For now, be friendly to those you think become part of your connections. Happy Sunday, everyone.