5 things you should never tell a friend
Things you should never tell your friend about your relationship
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Hello my beautiful people all over the world, happy weekend to you all as we all know it's Friday already how are you all spending your weekend? Well as for me I will be spending my weekend at work as usual because the weekend is always a busy time for me.
I came across this topic online yesterday when I was trying to find some words and this makes me want to write more about it because some relationships have crashed based on advice given by some bad friends.
some ladies are fond of discussing every little thing about their relationship with their friends meanwhile the friend in question might not be in any relationship so how can someone who is not in a relationship have an idea of how to manage a relationship?
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Things you should never discuss with your friends about your relationship are
**Money issue**: once you discuss how money is been made or spent in your relationship with your friends then it means you are risking your relationship finances because the person you are taking advice from might have a big issue with money in her relationship so what kind of advice did you think she will give you?
****Sex life****: this part makes me remember a woman in my sister's house back then who always fight with her husband because she doesn't want to give him sex, sometimes they will start fighting in the middle of the night and everyone will come out of their room to settle the fight, one day they began this fight and I ask the woman why did Shey always fight her husband and she said he like sex too much and then I told her that she should be thanking God because some women can't even remember the last time their husbands ask them for sex
Another woman there answered that it has been 6 months since her husband ask her for sex last and the woman fighting was shocked that how do they cope in their marriage without sex I know if people were not there the woman who didn't have it will advise the one who is having it never to allow her husband just because she wants them to be the same and that's how ladies do when they see that you are enjoying your relationship and they are not they will find a way to manipulate yours too.
****Your partner's background****: this should be a personal thing for everyone because it is what people know about you that they will use against you anytime you think you are smart so never discuss your background or your partner's background with your friends some friends are the enemy you can never imagine.
****The foundation of your relationship****: discussing this kind of issue with someone might open a crack in your relationship because once your friends know too much about how it all started they will have an idea of where it is going just like a friend of mine at my boss shop then who discussed her relationship background with her friends in the shop so along the line the relationship had an issue and she asks her friends to beg her boyfriend for her then one of them went back to ask the guy out, this cause so much pain for the girl because she wasn't expecting any of her friends to do such thing for her she lost her relationship because she trusted her friends.
****How well your relationship is going****: this is the most dangerous thing to discuss with anyone because I have seen so many cases where a lady discussed how well her relationship is going and the other lady went back to say bad things about her just because her relationship is not moving on smoothly, this happened at my shop last week and the woman said she only asked the lady to help her buy something for her baby and then she said so you are not working it is your husband taking care of all these expensive things you are buying.
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The issue was so big to the extent that they nearly beat themselves up, assuming she haven't discussed how well her relationship is going such a fight will never come up
Be mindful of what you tell people about you and your relationship words.
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May God save the world we are now
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What is the world turning into?
What is left for the future?
Where is the world heading?
What can't people do because of money?
I keep asking myself all these questions when I read a story of a guy of 25years who wants to marry his grandma who is 85years, is the age difference between them not too much for him?
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The world we are living in now is not like the one our for-Father lived in because then everything was going according to how it was supposed to but now things are just turning upside down and then we call it civilization, something that is affecting the future of the upcoming we call it normal thing.
I wasn't online all through today just because I was so busy at the shop making sales but around 6pm today I have already finished the hair.
Then I tried to check what was happening on social media as I just logged into Facebook one notification popped up and it was a guy that wants to marry his grandma I was curious if the news was true so I click to read more about the story.
It was narrated that this guy in question just moved into the state which I didn't remember the state and he was looking for a house to rent then on getting to this grandma just to ask if she knows where there is a room vacancy then the grandma told this guy that she has a room which she can give to him and the guy felt so happy that at last, he can have room to stay not knowing what is coming upon him.
Because to me I don't think any guy who is with his right sense will want to do what this guy did, people around said after the guy has moved in this grandma started calling him my husband which the guy didn't take seriously and he will answer her too that good morning my wife then from there they began to stay in one room just like husband and wife.
Some even said they have talked to this guy and he keeps saying that's his choice he wants to marry her while some asked his age and he told them he is just 25 years and his love (gandma) is 85 years without feeling ashamed of it, am very sure this guy must have a brain touch for him to decide on this kind of thing, or maybe he wants to marry her just to inherit the grandma's property because people in the neighborhood testify that this grandma has big house who knows may she might have shown it to this greedy guy and that was why he wants to marry her, am not saying wife can't be older than husband but this one is abnormal.
From the video that I watched on Facebook, they do go to the market together to buy something and this greedy guy is not ashamed of dating his grandma, what is left in this world that people can't do for the sake of making money? Just like a very young lady in my shop area who got married to a very old man who is old enough to be her great grandfather and the man stays abroad while she's here in Africa with her baby meanwhile so people have discussed her matter in my presence before on how she use to carry different guys into her house since her old husband is too far away.
Am very sure she marries this Grandpa all in the name of money and not the Grandpa is not even around to satisfy her then she began to jump from one guy to another, the question is why can't she just marry a guy of her age so that she can enjoy the marriage.
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I don't even blame her if a 25years guy wants to settle down with someone who is old enough to give birth to his mother (85 years) what is left that people won't do to get money?
Anyways if you are a mother, father, aunty, guardian please always put a good impact on the child or children you are training because the world we are in now is full of bad influences that can easily destroy children, especially youths.
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Love and lust?
Hello my beautiful people all over the world, how was your weekend going? Am sure it is going on smoothly, well before I say anything I want to thank God almighty for His goodness and mercy over me and I also want to thank you all for the good wishes on my birthday because you guys really make my day all of you and lastly to all my beautiful sponsors I say thank you because without you guys there is no me.
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So let's get back to business "love or lust" talking about love some people must have mixed these two things because they work together when a lady loves a guy for one particular thing she will want him by all means which I called lust over him and the same thing goes to guys too.
But when someone is lusted and not loved that's when you see something like a man maltreating his wife because when they first met what he feels for her is not love but lust over her body shape or beauty and when the relationship gets to a certain point he might not see what he's lust over anymore then some bad act will be coming up from him towards her like shouting, beating, angry at any given time, etc.
Because if there is true love between them no matter what the guy will never get tired of her and the lady too will never see any bad in him as well, for instance, a lady they marry a guy because of money or gift that she sees from him when the money is gone what do you think she will do? And a guy who is running after a lady's nice shape and eventually get married then the lady starts giving birth which means her body will change a little am sure some guys can't even stand seeing their women when they are pregnant because of what they feel for them is lust and not love then they will begin to complain that she's too fat, bursty, and not beautiful like before.
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Just like what I saw on Facebook last night a man complaining about his wife's belly meanwhile she has given him 5 boys already and yet he still wants her to be sexy like before she gave birth then he started cheating with some other girls then the wife catches him so he said he no longer sees what he fell in love with in her in the very first time they met.
Does it have to be something to fall in love with in someone's body? What if that thing you fall in love with eventually left will you leave too says the woman and of course, the man said yes because that is how it works for men there must be something to fall in love with in a women's body.
I was surprised to see that some guys or let me say men still think of falling in love with body shape is love, I can't believe there are still guys who are in love because of how beautiful the lady looks in this kind of century that ladies now do anything to get a nice shape and makeup to look beautiful meanwhile there are some ladies who don't do away with all these things then when they get into the relationship pregnancy will now show their real life and the man will now begin to think she doesn't worth it anymore.
Don't get me wrong am not saying you can have all the body shape you want at all cost and do your make-up every day but some ladies don't even know what the man wants, sometimes let him see you I mean the real you so that he will fall in love with you and not lust over your shapes or makeup that will eventually go away.
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Love doesn't have to be something in your body because the body might change someday then what is left for you? Never lust over beauty or handsomeness because relationship is deep than an ocean it can take you to a certain level that you will get lost in it but when you are with the true love of your life nothing will shake you, in fact, you will live happily with him or her forever.
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Happy Birthday to me
It's my birthday
Firstly let me thank the almighty God for the gift of life and the safety of my life as well because in this kind of world we are in now nothing is safe or certain anymore.
I was born with some set of people which am pretty sure that not all of us survive growing up, I grew up with some other set of children which I have heard that some of them are not more, I spent so many years on earth which I always heard that people died meanwhile I am here living with good health.
Some are even in the hospital because they're sick and all they do is stay at the hospital but I don't have any cause to go through that don't you see that God has been so faithful, kind, and caring to me because it is not that am the most beautiful girl on earth and I am not the most important person but with the grace of God, I do things which I never imagined in some years to come. I am not saying any of these to mock people who are dead or those in a tight situation, I am only trying to make you understand why I am most grateful to God.
Though life is not as sweet as it looks but still am grateful for everything I am today and everything that am still going to be because if not for God where will someone like me be? I don't have anyone to reach out to except for God and of course, my love @George_Dee along with my virtual friends which I wish to see someday @Olasquare @Amazing-grace @King_Gozie @HappyBoy @Fexonice1 @Princessbusayo and some of my sponsors too @Bloghound @Jane @bmjc98 @foryoubtc09, etc. am so sorry if I didn't mention your name but I really appreciate you all and I wish I could see you just to appreciate your kindness someday.
Some people that have my WhatsApp number can tell that I don't post my pictures often because am not a social person but being here on readcash make me have so many people I call friends because in my real life I don't have any friend except my man @george but you all make my every day awesome because the joy of writing here every day makes me happy, is like as if am talking to someone whenever I write my article.
Meanwhile, some other things that I do write here, I have never shared with anyone else before but because I feel like you guys are my family, it makes me feel free to pour out my mind so I want to say thank you all for the love, support, help and for always been there for me because I see it as a support when someone gives me out of what he or she earns as a sponsor, I see it has help when you visit my article because if you don't I won't force you, and I also see it as love when people comment on my post so all this makes me feel happy and tells me to do more.
This post is my birthday post and also an appreciation post to everyone that read, commented, supported, and of course to all the beautiful sponsors I love you all because without you guys there is no esthery97.
I know some are expecting me to talk about my birthday gift yeah of course I got a very big surprise this morning and a nightcap from George's junior brother as you can see in the picture I must say that God loves me so much and that is why He put me in a good family like George's because his mom called too to wish me a happy birthday which is very rare here in Africa though some do it but I must be lucky to find a good future mother-in-law like her.
The whole George family has made my birthday a wonderful one as my baby boy George is taking me out tonight you gerrit 😛 is just for celebration so don't get it twisted.
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Can we call this love? I
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Yesterday, when I was scrolling on Facebook to get information about a gospel singer named Osinachi nwachukwu who died as a result of a beating she got from her husband and one notification, came in and the notification ask that "can we call this love" I immediately click on it to check what went wrong again because social media now is full of bad news and I seriously do not know why it was her story that the notification brought again and indeed can we call that one love? A love that goes along with beating, suffering, and emotional pain can it be called love? Why do women endure bad things like this? Can't they just leave and live a peaceful life alone?
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Sometimes people are seeing the signs of death in their relationships but still, they choose to stay until one day everyone will post RIP for them just like this woman call Osinachi, don't get me wrong am not judging her and am not blaming her for anything because I don't know what my mother too went through with my dad, because Africa believes that once you are married you can't come back to your father's house because you no longer belongs there.
Meanwhile, the relationship of nowadays can not be rest assured of because some people are into bad habits like drugs which makes them misbehave just like a Nigerian celebrity called Nkechi blessing's fiance who got beaten up blue-black by her fiance and only God knows why but the celerity called Nkechi quickly cut off their engagement because she just found out that the man she wants to settle with is a beast in human flesh.
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I do not blame her because she did what was best for her before her obituary is been posted all over the social media, and there are so many relationships like that that ladies kept quiet about until the last day of their lives just like this gospel artist who died yesterday.
It was said that many people have advised her to leave the marriage to save her life but she kept on asking some questions like:
*What will people say?*
*How will people look at her?*
*Will the gospel association be happy with that?*
*How will she cope with the comments on social media?*
*How will she cope as a single mother?*
Well I guess her spirit knows the truth now because if you live your life based on what people say or think of you then you are not living for yourself, you are just living people's life and someone also posted something about her that if she has left her marriage the gospel association and churches will not call her for a concert again because they will believe she will mislead the young couple in the association, my question now is what will the association do to bring her back to life? Or is the association do or die thing?
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Everyone knows how they are keeping their homes so never let any bunch of people control how you will live your life I guess some of the association will be regretting it now but that doesn't bring Osinachi back to life anymore, her so call husband happens to be a pastor I keep wondering what this man must have been feeding people from his alter called sermon that is why some people don't find church a place to go because of their bad experience with church and pastors.
It was said that after the man beats her (Osinachi) up he commands her to cook for him and after that, he has sex with her, then some minutes later she landed in the hospital where she spent 5 good days using oxygen to breathe before she passed on yesterday, I don't think some ladies find this educating at all because am sure some are still in this hell they called marriage and yet they are seeing how bad it ends but yet they won't leave.
I just pray that may her perfect soul rest in peace and the wicked man that called himself pastor get what he deserves because here in Africa if you know big people here you can do anything you can escape it but I pray this man never escapes this because he just shortened a life that was supposed to live longer.
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Don't give what you can't take
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How does it feel to be cheated on?
This question struck my mind when someone was complaining about his relationship at my shop yesterday when guys are cheating they will say he hasn't married the lady so why complain but when ladies cheat they will call them prostitutes.
Yesterday afternoon my neighbor was helping me to make my hair because she can plate hair so 3 bikes just drove into one compound beside my neighbor then this noise began, I couldn't go there to watch what was happening but I could hear them clearly where I was sitting in front of my shop and the story goes like this.
One guy dating a girl and he's cheating on the lady but she didn't complain, still she keeps her cool while watching the guy going all around cheating though have heard about it before but I did see any good and deep thing to write about it but yesterday it was like someone put petrol into a gas fire when the lady and her family came to pack her stuff from the guy's house.
The guy's mother was there too because she's claiming that a guy can date as many as he wants while she wants her son to send his girlfriend away because she was caught cheating with another guy, the girl's mother too was there to support her child so that the guy and his mother won't beat her up.
Before we could close our eye and open it the two mothers have started to throw words at each other though they didn't exchange blows but the noise was hectic as if the whole street is coming down.
So the chairman of the street met them there and ask what was the noise all about the guy wants to talk and he said the girl should talk first because he respects women a lot, so the girl narrate how this guy has been cheating on her with different girls including her friends but she didn't talk or say anything now she cheated on him for once he now wants to beat her up for it.
When it was the guy's turn he said: daddy but didn't the Quran say we can have as many wives as we want then the man stop him from there that it's a wife and not girlfriends and the Quran stated it that if you have the power and not the way you are doing it.
Now it's time for the two mothers to talk they both shout at each other and then the chairman told them that they are the problem of those kids, especially the guy's mother because she's supporting her child to do a bad thing he then asks the guy's mother that if the girl happens to be her child will she allow a guy to treat the way her son is treating her? The guy's mother couldn't talk again but then the man face the girl and told her that what she did was wrong because you can't say you want to do what your man is doing it will affect you.
The chairman continue talking that now the guy's mother wants her out of her son's house because of just one thing she did meanwhile the guy has done so many yet the girl's mother didn't come and send the guy away from her daughter's life.
Don't mind me, it is not like as if am doing amebo but sometimes I just keep wondering what those people that cheat on their partner feel, and then so many questions follow it up like:
How does it feel to be cheated on?
How do you feel when you cheat?
How did you get yourself into cheating?
How would you explain yourself when you are caught cheating?
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I guess the guy now understands and knows how it feels to be cheated on though I don't know if the girl finally agrees to leave his house because after the chairman interfere in the matter to settle it they all went back inside so I don't know the end of the story but I do believe the guy now feel what the lady was feeling all the time he has been cheating on her.
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Success feels like a lifetime contract
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Sometimes it feels like success is a trap and sometimes it feels like people don't even understand because the pressure is too plenty and the expectation is kind of too high, I was inspired by a Nigerian song by Teni.
Everyone wants to make in life and not everyone can face the stress that success always bring along with the money, some don't even understand that the stress is a sacrifice to pay as in like a give and take, you give your best and you are successful that's just it.
A man who was born into a rich family doesn't know or might not have the knowledge of how hard it is to make it because before he was born all the things he needs to make it is already available compare to someone who was born into a very poor family is the only that can tell how hard it is to get to the top.
When I was in laspotech there was a guy in my class who is going through a lot because he came from a poor background and there is no one to help him, this guy is brilliant but there was no one in his family that is ready to sponsor his school so he decided to work and school at the same time which is not easy for him but because he wants to make it he has to endure it till the end.
Sometimes this guy won't eat and when he gets to the class he always looks for someone to help with the assignment so that if the person pays him then he can eat, I never knew he was going through a lot until one day someone abused him in the class for begging her for food and I felt bad because the other person is a rich kid so he just talked as if making it in life is so easy as it sounds.
After some minutes I went to meet the guy that was abusing someone and told him that because you are born with a silver spoon doesn't mean you will eat with a silver spoon for the rest of your life and this person you just looked down on could still be your boss and your helper tomorrow because no one knows tomorrow, he doesn't feel bad about what he said to that guy but what I told him touched his heart and then he said he just don't like seeing people begging then I told him to pray never to see something that will make him beg because some people that beg is not happy about it but they don't have a choice.
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Another person is one of my customers before, one day I was called by someone in the neighborhood that someone wants to make hair in her shop area then I went there, I even took someone from my boss's shop to help so that we can finish the hair on time, when I was going I borrowed $1 for transportation and the girl that followed me too used $1 making $2 meanwhile the person that called me said they are very rich and I should do her hair very well so that she can be calling me.
I got there very early with the person that followed me we were delayed for like 2hours before she came outside, when we entered the house I was like wow these people are so rich only to finish her with all my strength and then she gave me $3 and then she said she can't pay more than that because she's working for are money so she can't be spending it anyhow, that day it was like the ground should open and swallow me because I will return the $2 I borrowed for the transportation then I will give the girl that followed me money meanwhile our agreement was $7 then I realized that some rich people never understand what it takes to make it and most of them were born with a silver spoon so they never have any clue of what it takes to struggle for success.
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And when you fail to make it your mates will mock you without knowing how hard you have tried before you fail and that is why I say sometimes it feels like success is a trap and some people don't even understand because the pressure of making it is very deep and the people that were supposed to help will be the one to mock you first forgetting that if you don't fail you cants be successful.
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She's your wife and not a slave
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Hello everyone happy beautiful Monday morning how was your weekend I guess it was great as mine.
Before you get married what did you see in your partner before going into a relationship with her? Or let me just ask if there is enough love to sustain the relationship till the end of time.
Well, the topic is she's your wife and not a slave because she left her family to come to give you a life to make you a man so never treat her like a piece of paper never make her a slave in your house and if there is anything that people must know about you it should be your wife first, even the Bible says: "**man shall leave his house and take a wife to become his family**" so never look down on your wife because they are someone's daughter and someone's family too and I guess they deserve your respect with full attention as well.
One of my customers was sharing her life story with me yesterday about how marriage treated her when she just got married, according to her she said her marriage was just a month old when her mother-in-law and her husband started a civil war with her in the house just because her husband told her to manage one-room apartment in his mother's house till when he finishes his own house.
Sometimes I wonder what some mother-in-law take their son's wife for, as a slave? Or maybe they see them as a housemaid forgetting that they have been through that before but yet they want some other women to go through it again which is not fair.
The story continues as to how the mother makes a new home hell for her, she said in the morning she will knock on her door as early as 5:00am and then begin to talk at the door that she should be awake by now as a wife to take care of the house then cook for her husband, at first she didn't take it seriously she thought her mother-in-law is trying to train her on what marriage is all about but she took another lane when she noticed that she wasn't moved by waking up early.
She said whenever her husband is out the mother won't let her rest it is either she washing her clothes or she helps her to clean her room and so many more as if she is a house help, so one day she tried talking to her husband on how hot the house is for her and the husband spark like as if the is an electric connection in his head saying what is wrong with her who is making the house a hell for her and besides won't she do anything at home for his mother as a wife?
Then she began to beg him not to shout because she didn't want her mother-in-law to hear what is going on and she didn't want her to know she was reporting to her son meanwhile she has heard already then her husband open the door to step out but he's still talking after the man left his mother took over her shift then began to talk to her that: see don't kill my son o because this house was peaceful before you can that she doesn't even know maybe the pastor that joined them was a welder that uses iron to join them and that is why she keeps giving her son problem here and there.
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The lady said she couldn't say anything and she couldn't help herself but cry because the marriage is just 3months old by that time and everything has started falling apart like that, she even said she can't leave the house without taking permission from her mother-in-law and she has to approve it because her husband has given his mother the chance to monitor her whenever she's going out.
I felt bad for her because that kind of mother in law seems like someone who doesn't want her son to get married and that is why she keeps tormenting her so that she will leave and they will tell people that she's not a good wife, I just pray God help her through because the marriage is still very fresh and young.
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You can't have it all
**You can't have it all because God doesn't give it all to everyone.**
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Hello my beautiful people all over the world how are you doing today? Hope you are all doing great? Because I am over here.
Before I continue with my article for today let me thank all my beautiful sponsors, subscribers, and of course, my readers for always being there for me because without you there is no me you know and thanks for the sponsorship renewal @Jane and @Bloghound I really appreciate it all.
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So let's get back to the topic of "you can't have it all"
Nobody can have it all in this life because we all can't be the same so that there will be someone to look up to I guess if not why is it that Bill Gate is richer than some of his mates and Dangote is more successful than some of his mates or is it that all the people that were born in the same year with them are all rich and well to do? I guess it's a no because "**all the fingers are not equal**" the same thing goes in life some must be rich while some must serve them because everyone can't rule to keep the peace between humans.
All am just praying for is that God should count me among the rich ones and that's what you should do too but if you are the type that just believes it is destined then you are making a big mistake because some people have worked so hard to make it but yet they didn't while some don't even do anything but they make it, I believe it's by grace.
A man who has a roof on his head is complaining of not having food to eat meanwhile some people sleep outside without anything to cover up while some sleep under the bridge and yet you are complaining that your room is too small, why don't you try sleeping outside in the cold then you will realize that God has been faithful to you.
Because it is not as if people that sleep outside are happy about it but some don't even have money to rent a room but you can afford a room and a parlor yet you are complaining that you want a duplex why don't you thank God for that little you have because some people want to have that little you have but they couldn't because we all can't be that same and some that are better than you they just have the grace of God which you should be praying for instead of complaining.
Someone came to make hair three days ago and then she keeps complaining about not giving birth to another child then my neighbor who sells snacks answered her that she should be thankful because she has one to call a child while she doesn't even have any but she's living ok you can see that life is not balanced and we can't have it all.
Assuming you can have it all everyone should be rich but because we can have it all that's why some rich people are still crying for a baby while some poor people keep giving birth without no money to train them lol this **life is just like a puzzle that no one can solve** I guess because I have seen someone that said God should just take her money away and give her a child, can you imagine that?
So stop putting yourself under pressure and be happy with whatever God has given you, then you can pray for grace stop looking for something that is not lost in your hand because God knows the reason why He shared it this way all you need is grace, am not trying to preach because I also have what am praying for but I will never put myself under pressure because some of my mates are rich and I am not who knows maybe tomorrow is my turn to make it? Remember life can never be balanced so just keep your cool and be happy with the little you have.
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Family is everything II
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I don't know why some ladies think they can you with their man's family while they want the man to take care of their own family that's what Shade wants, she doesn't want any of Tunji's family around but yet she wants Tunji to always take good care of her own family, who does that? Anyways let's see if that will work because nobody should toy with our family no matter how close we are to them.
Shade got home before Tunji did and she quickly scattered the whole house to use it against her mother-in-law when Tunji got back she was crying saying that's how his mother always scattered the whole house for her to tidy up but Tunji acted as if he doesn't understand what she was trying to do.
After one week Tunji's sister got admission to the university and she have to stay with her brother because his house is closer to the school than their mother's house Tunji told his wife about it so that she won't feel bad about it and she pretends as if she's ok with everything her husband just told her.
Tunji's sister came as it was discussed she was welcome by Tunji's wife in the presence of Tunji as if she's cool with her staying in their house, the next morning Tunji's sister who's name is Abike prepared herself for school when Tunji's wife barged into her room and told her to come and wash the plates in the kitchen the girl never argue with her and quickly rush into the kitchen to wash the plates meanwhile she was supposed to go out with her brother but he left before she could finish washing all the dirty plates.
Of course, she can wash plates before going out so she didn't count it as anything so she keep doing the washing every morning until one-day Tunji's wife could no longer cope with seeing her around so she planned on delaying her from going to school so that she could run away just like the way her mother did, Abike has finished washing plates, in fact, she tidies up the kitchen so that her brother's wife will be happy with her before going out but to her surprise, Tunji's wife called her to wash all the dirty clothes which she and her son use me for the past one week.
Abike was like but ma this is your clothes and besides she will be late for school all of a sudden Tunji's wife slap her on her face for saying that and Abike asked why she slapped her then she said she's talking back at her that's why, as a little girl she has no choice than to was the clothes so Abike missed school for that day because of the clothes the next day Tunji's wife told her to mob the whole house this keeps happening for good one week because Abike did see her brother so that she could report his wife.
One morning like that Tunji's wife has delayed Abike at home as usual and then she's upstairs sleeping when Tunji just drive in from where he traveled too and then he noticed his sister washing his wife's car around 10am and she ask where is she still at home and not in the school, Abike wanted to talk and she burst into tears then Tunji has already knew his wife must have hurt her so he took her in and begged her for whatever his wife must have done to her, then he told her to pack her things because he will be moving her into a hostel where she can have a comfortable life.
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When his wife heard Tunji's voice she came downstairs and this time there is nothing to lie about she just say am sorry I don't know what came over me but Tunji never pursued her out he just told her that anything that has to do with her family as well he never wants to see it or hear about it since she has been treating his own family badly.
That was how Tunji lay down rules in their house but the question now is why do some ladies hate their husband's family?
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Family is everything
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Happy weekend to you all my beautiful people all over the world, happy Sunday as well and how are you spending your beautiful Sunday today? Well, I will be at work soon and I hope for good sales.
As humans we are supposed to love one another stay together in any kind of situation we find our friends and family in, I was inspired to write this article because of what is going on in my family
In my family, we all act the same way or let me say we have the same character because we all are female so this makes us love ourselves so much but despite how deep we love each other we do fight like there is no tomorrow but at the end of everything we will settle without any outsider's opinion.
I remember when my sister wants to get married last year at first my mom didn't want to support the wedding because she didn't like her husband but when we all talked to her that it is their happiness that matters then she agreed but it wasn't that easy as said because my mom is a kind of person that doesn't agree to something easily and we took that after, how did you think we all will settle the issue because we knew she's going to quarrel us and we all ready for that you know where there are girls only there will always be noise, gist, and even fight if possible but thank God we were able to convince her and settled our fights.
I believe that's why we are called family because we fight we settle, we laugh together, we gist about our lives, we even make great of ourselves without no grudges, when someone is going through some bad situation we call each other to find a solution to that person's problem and yes it's not that easy because some will fight along the line but because we are all bond with the same blood the issue will die down at the end, I guess we are birds of the feather because we all have our issues but the blood bond won't allow separation between us even if there is fight.
Family should have each other's back no matter how hard it is or how bad the situation looks because God created the family to help and support one another in every situation.
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A short story about a girl who thinks because she is married to a guy she can you with his family.
Shade got married to Tunji at a very tender age though Tunji is 10years older than Shade and this makes Tunji to love her so much because she's very submissive after they got married Shade turned q new leaf by standing up against anything Tunji wants to do for his family, at first Tunji thought is just a normal thing that happens in a marriage you sometimes you can't know you partner finish until you tie the knot before they will bring out their true color.
Tunji's mom came visiting and Tunji wasn't at home so mama met Shade Shade was like: but mama you should have called before coming and mama replied: do I have to get Visa before seeing my son's family jokingly because mama thought she was joking about it.
The second day Shade didn't cook breakfast for her mother-in-law and she went out to her friend's house to gist meanwhile Tunji has left the house very early thinking she left his mom in the care of his loving and caring wife but Shade treated her mother-in-law like trash by not giving her food at home whenever her husband is not around.
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Mama left for the village before they both came back and then she called her son to inform him about what his wife has been doing.
TBC.....
I don't know why some ladies think they can you with their man's family while they want the man to take care of their own family.
It's your day "happy birthday 💝"
Thank God it's Friday the day that a king is born into the family of Mr. and Mrs. George and he was named **OLAKANMI ADEDAMOLA GEORGE.**
**Captain_tom** himself is a year older today so let me say a little about how wonderful he has been to me ever since I met him🙈 though I don't like talking about it because it's a personal thing but today is his special day so I want to say it just to let him know how much he means to me.
**What more can I ask God for**? When He has already given me what I don't deserve when He has given me what I never expected in some years to come when I have given up on love God gave me the everlasting love that brings joy to me anytime any day.
**What can I even do without you**? It all started like play back then we were just friends and then it became something deep something smooth and great, don't get me wrong we have our dark time too but the true love and genuine love took us down here and I must say this am so grateful for having him with me because now I can't do anything without him so thanks for coming into my life George.
**You are the best thing that has ever happened to me:** yeah I can say that over and over again because when I was down he is always there for me, when I was hungry he gave me his food to share and he offered me a duplex in his heart just for me to be comfortable in life, though every day is not like a bed of rose but his true love holds the relationship like a North-South pole, lol 🤣 don't mind me is just that I can talk about how wonderful he has been to me from now on till tomorrow because I never deserve a good guy like him but he never looked at my shortcomings he stood by me till date.
**You can into my darkness and light it up**: yeah because before I met you I was in total darkness but your love lit up my world and brings joy into my heart, before I met you I don't laugh because I don't see any reason for it and am always pissed anytime a guy approach me but the first day you say hello to me it was like there is a spark of light on your face which switch my mood, then I keep wanting more of you around.
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I remember the day you were not in school it was like the whole school has been short down because nothing seems funny to me when you are not around, nothing seems ok when you are not there then I realized I have a future with you George and I will like you to be the father of all my unborn children.
And ever since then my life has been so bright and shining even full of hopes because then I was just living without no clue of what life is all about and I was just living my life anyhow but ever since you brought your light into my darkness I have seen the true meaning of life and you have given me the reason to live more on earth.
Silver or gold I have non but I have my heart to give you and I hope you take me the way I am forevermore so thanks for coming into my life because everything I do it for you, I hope you won't leave forever because if you do you have turn off the light and that means I can't see anything in life again.
So let me use this opportunity to wish you 👇
Happy 🍰 cake day
Happy birthday
Happy womb escape
More calendar to destroy
More money into your account
Many more years to celebrate in love, in good health, in wealth, and many more.
It's your day George so enjoy it to the fullest.
Age with grace and peace ✨ love
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Alcohol influence
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Alcohol influence has caused so many tragic death for some families but still, people won't stop taking too much of it because some are even getting it for free.
Some people see alcohol as a means of getting away from thinking while some see it as a means of enjoyment meanwhile alcohol has a bad influence on people that makes it a habit if you know your body can't take then don't drink it but know they won't listen and after taking it they will start to constitute a nuisance.
For instance, if you are the type who can't do without alcohol then be ready for bad repercussions like:
Nausea
Vomiting
Diarrhea and so many other things
Today at my shop something funny and terrible happened don't mind me you know when you go out you will see a lot of things you can't even imagine but when you are indoors things will look normal and ok to you.
Yesterday's afternoon a man was drunk only God knows where he was coming from on a bike, he's the one driving the bike and the before he got to my shop he started driving the bike in a zigzag way but we thought he was playing with the bike, all of a sudden he landed inside a gutter opposite my shop and he didn't get up from the gutter for like 5mins, at first we thought he was dead because of how hard he landed into the gutter but after 5mins he stood up and started talking as if he's fighting someone.
That was when we realized that he was drunk meanwhile the bike was still inside the gutter and one Hausa was coming to help but he pushed him away that he can handle the situation, his bike fuel was pouring inside the gutter but he doesn't care he kept on shouting as of he wants to fight.
All of a sudden he started taking off his clothes by that time some bike riders stopped to help him but he keeps pushing them away because of the alcohol influence am sure it was someone that bought him the alcohol to drink because of the way he was doing.
People helped him to carry his bike out from the gutter and then he jumped on it that he will ride it to where he was going the moment he starts the bike everyone started shouting ha ha and some are praying for him because he's not himself the alcohol in his body is too much am sure he doesn't know what he was doing but still, he insisted that he will drive himself even though he's bleeding all over his body.
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Sometimes I wonder what prompted some people to drink alcohol though am not against it but why did they drink the one their belly can take or let me say their brain because alcohol works with the brain but instead they will drink until they no longer remember what is happening around them.
Am sure that man is someone's husband, someone's father, someone's son and family yet he doesn't love himself because if he loves himself and his family he won't drink to that extent of falling into a gutter with his bike though I have heard some people talking about alcohol making people misbehave falling while walking but that was my first time of seeing it in real life.
Then I keep imagining so many things for him like what could make him drink like that? Didn't he know that he could die while riding the bike with the alcohol in his body system? Some people are just something else and he won't even know how bad he has been injured until his brain is back to normal before he realized how deep his wound was.
I just wish he didn't die because he drove the bike away from my shop area and only God knows where he ended his life yesterday and that is how some people will just kill themselves because of free alcohol drink.
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How is it her fault?
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What will be will be no matter how hard you tried to prevent it some certain things from happening meanwhile some things has been written that it will happen so it is never your fault that some bad is happening to you.
My neighbor who sells snacks found herself in so bad situation which is so bad and this makes her think it is a spiritual attack that is affecting her but with my little understanding, I told her this has been written so it is not her fault or anyone else's fault.
It all started last week Thursday someone came to buy snacks and soft drink from her and he sat down to eat what he bought she was in her shop frying snacks and after that, she came outside to rest a little before she continue her baking because someone asks her to bake a birthday cake for her.
The guy sat at the edge of her bench and she sat at the other edge all of a sudden the guy stood up without notifying her then she mistakingly pushed her show glass away while she was trying to save herself from falling inside the gutter.
What I heard was the noise that the glass makes when it reaches the ground then I quickly ran outside to see if she's not hurt but thank God she was able to save herself but the glass broke completely after finishing up with my customer's hair I tried all my best to cheer her up but the shock of how expensive that glass may cost won't allow her to be happy as if that was not enough on Friday which is the second day she came to shop so that she can finish up the cake which she was baking before she glass broke.
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After finishing up the cake I went to say with her to make a smile a little and thank God she was happy for a moment around 3:30pm she told me she was hungry that she needs to eat so I stood up to eat my lunch too on getting into my shop she just ran into my shop crying and I was trying to make her talk so that I can help but what happened to her I couldn't help it.
She said someone came to do a bank transfer from her POS and the guy took her new phone worth of $200 which she collected from easybuy (you can pay every month) and she said the phone is just two weeks old with her, I felt so bad because her glass which she's using to sell snacks just broke on Thursday and her new phone was stolen on Friday what a bad week for her.
But I made her understand that some things are been written to happen but because we don't know we will think it's our fault, and what breaks my heart is what people are saying some said she's too playful while some said she always allow people too much into her shop but to what she told me she said the guy stood at the entrance so she didn't know how it all happened.
Meanwhile, she always keeps the phone inside her bag because she doesn't want people to steal it and now that she brought it out just once the phone got stolen at last, to me I believe that is not her fault but she's not happy because people are blaming her without knowing what really happened that day.
I just wish God provide for her so that she can fix her snacks glass and get another phone because the phone will help her cake business so much.
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Bitcoin cash turned my life around for good
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It's a beautiful new week and a very productive day which is Monday so let me say happy Monday to you all and how was your weekend am sure it was great
I want to use this opportunity to thank all my sponsors, my readers, and my subscribers because without you guys there is no me so for this reason I say a very big thank you to you all, and if you are reading my article for the first time I really appreciate you as well don't forget to like and follow me.
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I wish the whole world can value Bitcoin cash, I wish it can be used all over the world but I guess our government doesn't want us to have full access to our earnings that's why they can't allow Bitcoin cash because if we are all using Bitcoin cash as a means of payment then we are free from a long time government bondage no one can access our earning anymore and I also believe with Bitcoin cash the world will be more beautiful than the way it is now.
Some months back I talked to someone about Bitcoin cash and he said it's a scam that there is nothing that can fund your account so easily as Bitcoin does, I tried all I could to convince her but it was all to no avail until when she was broke then she came to me and **I told her I can't give you fish but I will teach you how to catch fish which means you have to learn how to make money from a good platform** like noisecash and she said ok.
I thought her how to do it and she did now she's always grateful for what I introduced her to which is the Bitcoin cash world.
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****Some random questions for the day about Bitcoin cash.****
**What** **Bitcoin cash means to you?**
To me, Bitcoin cash means so much because before I get to know about Bitcoin cash I always waste my data on unnecessary things on social media without gaining anything on it but the moment I was introduced to the Bitcoin world my data has been useful for something good like readcash and noisecash.
**How helpful is Bitcoin cash to you**?
Well, I can say Bitcoin cash is a lifesaver to me because my work wasn't every day and you know if you don't work you can't get paid but with Bitcoin cash, I gain a lot every day so it has been so helpful ever since I join Bitcoin world and it has put a smile on my face.
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**How well have you used Bitcoin cash?**
I have used Bitcoin cash so well because Bitcoin has been paying my bills before I opened my shop and Bitcoin is the main reason while my shop is opened, if not for Bitcoin am sure I will still be at home but all thanks to Bitcoin for opening my shop for me.
**How far has Bitcoin cash taken you**?
Bitcoin cash has taken me so far from where I thought I will be because it took me a very long time before I can raise my house rent before I joined the Bitcoin world but ever since I knew Bitcoin everything has been so easy for me though I take a lot of sacrifice by staying online but am happy about it since it pays my bills so easily than before.
**What have you achieved with Bitcoin cash so far**?
Hmmm, I have achieved more than a lot ever since I joined the Bitcoin cash world like I mentioned before Bitcoin cash pays my bills easily and the beggest thing Bitcoin cash did in my life is my shop.
Before I joined readcash I have been using noisecash funds to take care of my needs like family needs, my bills, and some other personal needs.
I bought all my shop appliances with Bitcoin cash fund and I even paid my shop rent with Bitcoin cash fund what more can I say than to be grateful to Bitcoin cash I will always promote Bitcoin cash because I have gained so much from it
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Don't judge a book by its cover
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Sometimes we fail to see what is real and we tend to see what is not real because human generally are fund of judging something or someone without knowing or getting to know the actual truth.
And people judge so quickly because they believe in their instinct alone without finding out the truth, the same thing with a guy who judges a girl and concluded on his mind without getting to know the right truth about her.
I am not saying we shouldn't follow what our minds think but sometimes it's better to do proper findings before concluding or judging someone
A short story about a guy who judges a lady without getting to know her better you know sometimes the cover might look beautiful but what is in the book might be worse.
Meanwhile, some covers will look bad but the content in it is great but this guy never checked before taking the book home you know girls are like books and once you choose the wrong book then you are in for it.
James met Janet at the supermarket in his street and with the way Janet dress James fell for her because that's the kind of dress he loves to see on ladies so he approach her because he thought he have seen what he likes.
**James**: hi
**Janet**: hello
**James**: do you stay in this area?
**Janet**: no I came to greet my friends here
**James**: oh ok but I will like to know you better
**Janet**: hmmm ok my name is Janet
**James**: what a nice name am James can I have your digit so that we can't talk better
**Janet**: ok then
Janet gave him her number without thinking of who he might be or what he could do with her number
After two weeks they have been talking on the phone they became very close on phone but Janet never visits him for once because she's trying to play hard to get for James meanwhile she has already fallen for him. After all, he's handsome and she wants him to believe that she's decent.
She has already judged James's book by its cover she fell in love with him because he's handsome so after one month she really wants to be with him so badly and then she called to let him know she will be coming to his place and they both agreed to meet.
James never knew the kind of job Janet is doing because what he fell for was her beauty and the way she dressed the first time he met her and Janet never care to tell him since they are already dating and she really wants to settle down by all means.
One day Janet went to her friend's place as usual and she was introduced to a guy for the weekend Janet and the guy went out to catch fun and he paid her for her service because that's what she does for a living.
After two months that James and Janet have been dating, they finally want to get married because James can't wait to have her all to himself so he took Janet home to introduce her to his family.
When they got there Janet greeted everyone but James's elder brother who had just come back from abroad wasn't at home because he rush out early in the morning to catch up with an appointment so Janet couldn't meet him but the introduction went well and they have discussed about the wedding.
Two weeks to the wedding Janet wanted to do a surprise visit for James and when she got there she met her sugar boy which they spent a weekend together some months back which happens to be James's elder brother
They both look so surprised to see each other but James doesn't notice anything between them after Janet left James brother asked who she was to him and James told his elder brother that she's going to be his wife.
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That's when the elder called their parents and explained to them how bad Janet is and for this reason James can't marry her, assuming James hasn't judged Janet by her look he must have known that she's not someone he can settle with but he only looks at the appearance and not some other deep part
Never judge a book by its cover because what is inside might not be ok for you.
The good you did
The good you did will always speak for you anywhere you go and after you are gone.
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Hello my beautiful people all over the world how are you doing today? And how was your weekend? Mine was great even though it was stressful but am happy as long as money is involved lol don't mind me
My grandma used to tell me that this life will pass and everything in it shall pass away as well but the good you did will never pass because it will stand as your legacy which you lay and it will always speak for you before leaving the world and after you have gone.
So the question now is which good did you do?
Are you good towards people around you?
Can people speak good of you after you have gone?
Are you good towards your family?
Are you good towards yourself?
These are this questions we should be asking ourselves whenever we want to do something bad towards other people because there is nothing you do to others that you won't see the results
A short story about a man in my shop area who calls himself Alhaji(man of God) but his character towards his family and everyone around him is so bad when I wanted to collect my shop he was the agent that stood for me though I paid him aside from my shop rent but I never knew his true color.
I could remember what he told me when I first met him for the shop he said: "**it is my character that will keep calling people if am good towards them**" this make me remember one quote that says: "**do what you preach**" Alhaji loves to advise people on what to do in fact he loves to see people following his advice but nobody can advise him on his bad character towards people.
What character am I talking about the character I noticed from him is that if he tells you to do something he will be the one to tell some other people that you want to do that thing for example he told me to put a banner on my neighbor's block and he was the one that called the lady and told her never to agree with what I want to do.
Since I noticed that's the kind of person he is I stopped listening to whatever he wanted to say, one day the water in my shop got finished and I wanted to fetch in front of my shop because they are pumping water with generator immediately I got there all of them plugged teeth on me that I shouldn't fetch water in their house then I asked why so one of them told me that since am Alhaji's tenant they can't give me water because he doesn't give them water too.
Meanwhile, Alhaji is just my agent and not my landlord so I told them he's not my landlord it was then they allowed me to fetch water from their compound I was wondering why he's like that towards people one of them was even asking me if am not lying because I want to fetch water from them you can imagine how bad this man is towards people for them to act like that.
After some minutes someone came to my shop and ask what happened between me and those women then I explained the person was now explaining to me how bad Alhaji is towards people in the street, in fact, he told me that when his children were still living with him Alhaji does collect house rent, electricity bill and waste bill from his own children, what kind of father is that?
Even his wife can't sell something for him without collecting money from him I keep wondering what kind of family are they bringing up if a man can do that to his children what else can't he do to another person's child?
In the whole street, everyone knows him as a bad and selfish person imagine a father that builds a house collecting house rent from his children, a landlord that can not give his tenant water is that kind of person doing any good to others? Am sure he's not.
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He has forgotten that the good he did will always speak for him anywhere he goes and stand for him when he leaves this world.
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Life drama
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*Sometimes what we want in life is not what life throw at us but in as much as life continues then we must continue as well .*
The night my brother sent me out of his house was the day I will never forget in my life, says Joy as she explained further it was then I remember what my mom always tells me "ajumobi o kan ti anu, eni ti Olorun ba ran sini ni seni loore" English (the fact you are family with someone doesn't mean the person is going to do you any favor) hmmmm.
**Joy's Life drama**
My life drama started when my brother threw me out in the middle of nowhere, then I cried to me someone I knew nothing about, someone that wants to date me and I just said yes and nothing else because I have no feelings for him so I just keep pulling his legs but I never visited him for once, but then what choice do I have than to go stay with him back then because I wasn't working, no means of communication between me and my mom the worse part of it is that I don't even remember her number.
Am sure you will be thinking can't she ask the guy to give her money to go back to the village?, well she asked but he won't give her all he keeps telling her is that don't worry I will give you when I have but she knew he wasn't going to give her so she took her mind off it and instead of disturbing him for money she asked him to get her a job so that she can help as a girlfriend you know, but deep within Joy's mind she doesn't have any feelings for him she only wants to stay with him until she gets what she needed.
Because she needed to survive and stand on her feet, they begin to live together as a boyfriend and girlfriend then she started to get to know him better and she discovered that he's a DJ that plays songs in the party, red carpet and so many occasions but she never feels like going out with him because she doesn't have any feelings for him.
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Because when you don't like someone there is nothing the person can do that will satisfy you no matter how hard he tried but one day he forced her to go out with him and she did, when they got to the event there are so many people and that's her first time of seeing crowd though she's at the back of the stage still she was surprised to see people outside in the night and they are so plenty, she's not the one playing music why would she be scared so she wasn't scared but instead she just sat down drink, eat and enjoyed myself to the fullest.
Since there is no one to scold her not to do so then she just enjoy the night, after everything that night they got home around 4 am in the morning but she doesn't know how they got home because she was too drunk to the extent that she can't even remember her name.
She woke up around 10 am in the morning and then she discovered that she's nake no clothes on but her mind didn't even go anywhere maybe something has happened and then he entered and said to her: you vomited last night that's why I took off your clothes
Deep within her, she wasn't thinking of anything she was still feeling tipsy because that was her first time taking alcohol
By the time she finally woke up from her alcoholic sleep it was already 2 pm in the afternoon then her brain and mind are back to normal, she just noticed that the bedspread is sticky on her body then she quickly remove it only to find out that there is blood everywhere, she quickly stood up then she realized that the blood was coming out of my private part hmmm Joy just lost it for someone that doesn't worth it because she doesn't love him at all.
In all her life she has been keeping herself for the right man her future husband but life throws something else at her because she thought living with her brother will help a lot not knowing that it will lead her to somewhere she doesn't want to be the wrong path in life.
To be continued on my next post
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When Jesus say yes
As a human, we always want to do something when it's not yet time, and sometimes what we are asking God for is not what we need at that moment but once we have prayed and we didn't see the answer we tend to complain to God
That's what happened to my sister who has been looking for a husband for some years now she is a very hard-working lady who doesn't joke with her work at all but the fact that she couldn't find a good man for herself always breaks her down
Some years back she lost her job and this added negative value to her life because there are things we shouldn't lack in life which are:
God: as we all know with God all things are possible so if someone doesn't have God in his or her life such life is empty but my sister has God because all she does back then is go to church when she doesn't have work anymore.
Love: the fact that she couldn't find love makes her think life is not good for her.
Work: after she lost her job she became clueless about what she wanted to ask God because even if there is no relationship there should be work that's her mindset then.
Money: what can someone achieve without money? Am sure there is nothing someone can do without money, especially in this era of expensive things but my sister doesn't have work not to talk of earning money and this breaks her heart so much.
Family: family is like a backbone to everyone who has a good family, our family was always there for her even though we don't have but looking after each other is our priority, especially my mom she always makes sure we are good.
Confident: when confidence is not there you can't take a bold step all by yourself except someone helps you, my sister lost confidence when everything was gone because she lost her job, no relationship, and no money to live life.
One day she said to me "is it not better to die than stay in this empty life" because she felt so empty for not having what she was supposed to have but I didn't understand her better because I have everything I wanted.
This statement she said made me call our mom so that she can keep close checking on her because she sounded like someone who is tired of living and you know what that means she might commit suicide so one of my sister's daughter started living with her because we still love her and we can't afford to lose her
Along the line, someone introduces her to a guy who is a Uber driver they started going out but the guy gave her an option that if she doesn't work he can't marry her this make my sister run up and down the whole Lagos street so that she could get a job and glory be to God she got small security job in a factor.
When this guy noticed my sister is not a lazy type he proposed to her and they started having a serious conversation on how to get married, I was so happy when she told me she was engaged, after 3 months she found out that she was pregnant for him already when she told me I was super duper happy for her because who would have thought that my sister is getting married
At a point, she has given up on life because everything was just down for her but now she's the newest wife in town and she's even expecting her baby any time soon.
Have been busy with the preparation of her wedding since last week Thursday and she did her engagement on Saturday while the registry is on Thursday which is tomorrow
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Happy married life to my sister and am so happy that she's finally in her husband's home I can't imagine how happy she will be right now when Jesus say yes nobody can say no so I guess the Lord has said yes it's time for her to settle down that's why everything went well and good.
Happy married life sis
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Loyalty
Loyalty is not by choice but by decision and commitment says one man when people are arguing about how bad some people are to their boss at the supermarket I went to yesterday.
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Hello beautiful people all over the continent how are you doing today? As for me am always good even though there is a lot to deal with but am still cool because I am still me lol don't mind me am just trying to let you know everything is fine over here.
Let's thank God first for another beautiful month that we just entered because last month some people that are much more beautiful than us died some are more holy than we do but they are no more as we speak and we are here safe and sound so don't you that k you should thank God well I just finish thanking God for all He has done for me and my family because He has done so much for us.
If only people can be as loyal as dogs to one another no one will be getting hurt in this life.
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Talking about loyalty, some people are fond of speaking to others as if it is easy just like the way it sounds but for me, I say as a human it is not easy to be loyal to something or someone in this cruel life that we live now because some people are just like a photocopy of the devil which God sent to earth to come and shake some other people's loyalty.
Just like when I was working in Dangote Noodles something happened to a man and people doesn't believe him although they know he's a pastor and he can never do that, don't mind me talking Dangote Noodles factory again is just that a lot happened there when I was working there we call the factory season film because there is nothing you won't see there.
This man is named Holando then he was a pastor and this make him stay away from people that steal in the factory but he never mentioned it to anyone I got to know this because he always comes to my machine to help me though he was looking for a way to date me but I never give him a chance because I made him understand that am with someone and I can never cheat on him so we became so close to the extent that if anything happened in the factory he would have told me but I always act as if I don't know anything.
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On this faithful day we were on a night shift I was on my machine working as usual then he doesn't do night but he was called that night to help someone who was sick and then he came to help so around 1 am he came to tell me he wants to sleep for a while and I said ok.
After 1 hour someone came to tell me that Holando has been sent away but nobody knew what really happened I couldn't do anything because I can't leave work and we are not allowed to use phone in the factory so I keep my cool till in the morning around 7 am.
When I called I asked what happened as if I don't know and then he told me one pallet of noodles was stolen by his colleagues and they count him among them and I ask why he was on the night shift in the very first instant then he explained then I realized that it was planned to ruin his loyalty to the factory because he will never steal so people that want him to join them planned it all.
Holando was sent away because he was the one seating in front of the warehouse but the moment he stood up the operation was carried out just to ruin his loyalty to the company and in front of people that trusted him.
The question is what did they gain from sending him away without offending them? He knows people that do steal but still, he never mentioned their name even those that set him up he knew them but because he is a God-fearing man he sacrifices his work for them just to make them understand that they can't gain anything from their wicked act, after some month the truth came out and they were sacked but it was too late for Holando though the company called him back but he didn't come back.
Those that mean some people are in this world that hates loyalty? Or it is that they are devils in the making who hate to see loyal people?
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What I wish to do in the month of March
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It is the new month and I can feel the new month spirit accompanied with blessings around and I believe it is the same with you as well so let me use this opportunity to wish you, everyone, a happy new month welcome to the month of March and am happy because it's my fiance's birth month yuppy 💃 we have a birthday to celebrate.
I came up with this post after I thought of the things that I will like to do this month and most of these things are what I haven't done before, I hope I can get it done this month
Top five things I have done before that I wish to do this month of March.
***Beach***
***Bake cake for my fiance***
***I wish to take him out on his birthday***
***Travel out of my country***
***Visit my family and my old schoolmates.***
****Visiting the Beach******:** I have heard a lot of things about the beach but I haven't been there before and the reason is that, a long time ago I and my siblings went to the village to visit Grandma before she died and after 3days of our arrival she asked us to go to the river and fetch water. Ahe warns us not to step out foot inside the river but as a city children that haven't seen a river before and we want to see what is inside the river that makes people call it a river.
So I, my twin brother and sister jumped inside the river. Immediately it was as if afternoon turned to night immediately and then we ran away but getting back home we didn't tell our grandma what happened at the river and she didn't even suspect us for doing such a bad thing.
We quickly dropped our bucket beside the tank-like as if we truly fetch water and in the middle of the night we began to dream of swimming in the river, in the next morning we share our dreams for each other and then we began to get scared of staying in the village and we later got to know to that it was a sacred river.
On that day we told grandma to call our mummy that we want to greet her and when she called our mummy, we told her lies that we can't sleep because of mosquito and she said ok, the next morning my mummy came to pick us up at the village
Ever since then I haven't been to the river, beach, or anywhere there is water aside from the bathroom because am scared of the incident I witnessed in my village when I was little, but this month I will like to break that fear in me and go to the beach.
****Bake cake for my fiance on his birthday******:**
I have always wished to bake a cake for him because his birthday always holds a special place in my heart though I have been trying to get a cake for him but I couldn't at the end of it.
I just wish I could do that for him this year because he is a darling and he has always been taking me out on my birthday but I never did that for him, I guess am a bad partner for that but this month I pray I break the yolk
****Take him on a date******:** some girls will say they can't spend their money on their men because men are the ones that suppose to spend for them but I disagree with that because I love spending for my guy because he has been spending so much on me as well but I haven't gone out on a date for months now(smile) because I have been so busy with the opening of the shop and some other things don't laugh at me yet, of course, I have a relationship and it has been a very long time relationship I won't mention the year (smile), and you might want to ask if my man can't take me out, yeah he has taken me out countless time but lately, we are both busy so we couldn't go out on a date but this month I want to have fun and eat something different from our normal daily food so this month we must break that am busy excuse this month and then go for a date maybe on his birthday or any other day.
****Travel out of my country****: This has been my dream ever since I was little because I love meeting new people and I love exploring so I guess traveling can make me explore as I want and I think I should add this to my prayer points simply because traveling out of the country is not that easy here in Africa aside from the stress there are lots of scammers that call themselves traveling agents.
****Visiting old friends and family******:** am the kind of person that doesn't like to keep too many friends and the kind of work that am doing doesn't give me time and a chance to go about visiting friends even my family I only visit them once in a while but this month I want to try and visit some of my friends and break that busy schedule of mine.
And as for my family, I will be visiting them this week by God's grace because one of my sisters is getting married so I guess I will just use the opportunity to visit the whole family again.
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Don't give up on love
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Happy Sunday to you all my beautiful friends all over the world and happy weekend to everyone as well how are you all doing today?
Hope used to be every ladies guy but he doesn't have time to keep a relationship so he choose his work over a relationship his slang is "I don't need any lady to survive" but he has forgotten that God created women to stand by men and the same thing goes for men we are all meant to be for each other and that is why God commands human to get married to eat other so they can stay near each other and take good care of each other.
But there are lots of guys who always says I can't marry because I don't need a woman in my life since I can pay for my sexual satisfaction but they forgot that one day those people satisfying them might not be available and that's where the one for you comes in because everyone has the one for them.
Hope works in a bank he is at the customer service section and this makes him so busy, my mom will say "**one tree can not make a forest and one person can't live his or her life alone forever**" but Hope has made up his mind to live his life alone and that is why he keeps overlooking every ladies that comes his way.
One day Hope was very sick and he couldn't get out of his bed but he managed to call his office just to inform then of his health status, there was a young lady who has been crushing on Hope ever since he got to that compound but Hope never noticed her because he doesn't want to have anything called relationship he has given up on love completely without no good excuses.
This lady noticed Hope didn't come out of his apartment since more and she decided to check up on him. Knock knock says the lady as she's trying to know why Hope is not out yet and then she said to herself maybe he doesn't take his car out for today when she was about to leave his door as no one answered all her knock she just hears something like someone fell from the bed and then she quickly rushed into Hope's apartment.
It was Hope that fell from his bed because he was trying to get to the door so that someone could help him this lady quickly called the ambulance to get Hope to the hospital because he lost consciousness already.
When they got to the hospital the doctor told the lady that it was only God that let them get to the hospital on time if not Hope would have just died of the shock he was in when he fell from the bed because the doctor discovered that Hope has an ulcer and he needs to be checked on from time to time to make sure what happens to him never repeat itself again that simply mean he needs someone right beside him to keep the close checking on his medication. So since this lady is his only option she stops by him because she likes him which Hope isn't aware of it.
He got treated and after a week he was discharged from the hospital but the company told him to rest enough before resuming back to work while Hope is at home his beautiful neighbor took care of him for good two weeks and as soon as Hope recovered and he resumed back to work he forgot about the person that took care of him completely and he never bothered saying thank you to her but this lady still keep checking on him despite his nonchalant attitude.
One Saturday morning this lady stood up so early just to check up on Hope if he was ok since he doesn't go to work on weekends on getting at Hope's door she heard a lady's voice and then she quickly turned to leave but before she could the door was opened and Hope just greeted her.
**Hope**: oh good morning my neighbor am so sorry I couldn't thank you for the other time
**Neighbor**: never mind am just here to check if you are good since I didn't see you out as you normally do
She was about to leave when the lady inside came out and said good morning sister are you his girlfriend?
Neighbor: no am just a caring neighbor
**Girl**: oh I see anyways am Hope's junior sister and if there is anything you want to tell me about my brother kindly do because I know he's a jerk
**Neighbor**: smiled oh no we are not even friends so he can't be of any jerk to me
**Hope**: Thanks for checking up on me am finally ok now
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After Hope's sister left, the neighbor and Hope had a very long time conversation then he realized that he must have been too cruel towards ladies for shorting the door of his heart at them and for giving up on love for nothing but I guess it's never too late said Hope in his mind.
They became close but not in a relationship yet because he wasn't ready and then he make her understand that he's not ready for a relationship but along the line, the friendship take another turn and they got into a relationship then after some months they got married to each other.
Sometimes what we are looking for is beside us and what we want is around us but because we have short the door of our mind we couldn't realize it on time and some people has given up on love for no reason while some gave up on love because of what their ex has done but it doesn't matter what has happened to anyone love is a feeling and it will surely find it's ways into our lives Hope fell in love with his neighbor and they live a very happy life together with their kids.
Don't give up on love.
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I feel like giving up
Sometimes this life treats good people badly and treats bad people good because some people are in this life that has the power to help but because they are bad people they will want to take something from you before they can help.
While some people really want to help even though they don't have they will still do the little they can
My question now is why do bad people have more than good ones?
I guess it is only God that can answer that question because He is the only one who knows why this life is like this
Back to my topic "**I feel like giving up** "
As I always brag about my dream shop and how supportive my fiance George has been ever since I met him but now the shop is finally opened but the debt on my neck doesn't allow me to think straight anymore and this afternoon around 2:36 pm I just thought that maybe I should run away from everything.
Don't get me wrong am not talking about death all I just want is to pay up all my app debt and be free from the everyday call from them.
Tomorrow 24th of February my ( $400) debt is going to be due and I don't know how to pay it back the only hope I have now is God because am from a very poor family which means no one can help me out on this one.
I just wish I can run away to somewhere nobody can reach me even the app but I can't if I remember how hard it has been I do really want to hope for something great after all this hardship.
While am inside my shop thinking about all my debt someone passing on the road branch and asked me for money to eat at first I told him I don't have but when I looked inside my shop I knew that there is still hope for me so I called him back then gave him what I can.
This life is not just balance and it can never be balanced, after two minutes I called someone that I know for help if only I knew I shouldn't have called when he picked he said: let's hang out and have one night stand then I will give you all the money.
I felt bad because if I were to be in his shoes I will definitely help a lot as far as I can and this person am talking about is married but what I don't understand is the fact why does God give him money when He knew that this man won't help people that need his help.
What will he gain from sleeping with someone before helping them does God take anything from him before giving him the money?
I guess he doesn't understand that God gave him the money to help and not to lavish it on adultery what is this life self turning into so nobody can help willing anymore without expecting something in return well if that should be the case I will rather stay still the hardship is over and keep praying till I pay up the depth.
Don't mind my article this afternoon but this is where I can pour out my mind because I don't want to talk to someone that will mock me for being in-debt at the end of everything but I believe with God all things are possible for me.
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Am just tired of everything sometimes I wish I don't pull the string at all but I guess God has a better plan on how it will all be because if I say it is my power I just lied and if I say I know what to do next then am such a big liar.
Though am still at the shop hoping for sales and my last thing to say is that I must make it no matter what because I won't give up on this my dream even though it is not easy at all.
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People's mouth
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Hello, my beautiful people all over the world, and hello to my lovely sponsors and my able reader how have you all been? Am doing great over here today.
Let's start by saying "**anyone that follow people's mouth can never have a stable decision**"
Yeah, this is true if you are the type that always wants to hear what people say about you or you are the type that love to go by everything people tells you then you can't have a stable plan for yourself because you can never satisfy people's mouth and never can people's mouth take you to your real destination in life.
As you all know I just got my shop (salon) which am still trying to build my relationship with people in that area by greeting every single human that passes in front of my shop, that Nigeria for you if you can't greet them properly they won't want to have anything to do with you especially if you are selling marking you will just notice that no one branch your shop but if you can greet from this Earth to Heaven then you just have their master key to patronize you.
So yesterday which was on Monday I opened my salon with peace of mind as usual and sat inside because I don't want any by fire by force friend because there is someone besides my shop who wants to be my friend by force and anytime am closing she will close too just to walk with me even if I don't seat out she will come into my shop to talk to me but am still watching the kind of person she is.
Around 6 pm I was already packing my stuff in because I was about to close since am not working and I don't know what kind of hair someone wants to make by 6 pm so I closed then I just noticed this lady quickly closed too but what's my business?
When we were about to leave one man that stays around just called the two of us and said: "**see ladies don't be lazy to close shop on time especially you hairstylist some people might still want to make hair and if they noticed that you have closed they will go somewhere else**"
Though I wasn't angry with his advice but what pissed me off was the fact that he said: **am copying the lady that I closed because she's closed** **he said am lazy and this made me remember how hard I work to learn so why will I be lazy no**w? then I just smiled and left on our way again one fashion designer on the road called us again and said: it's good to close early because once it is 7 pm the boys of the street normally rub people on the road so we should be closing on time meanwhile she's still in her own shop working. I smiled again and said ok.
But deep within me, I was mad at them because I seriously do not want them to put mouth in my life how I run my race is nobody's business but it looks like some people can't just close their mouths all they want is just to talk am make you follow their advice.
I have my own life to live and I believe I should be the one to decide on what to do with my life.
Sometimes it's better to live your life the way you want it. If you want to live based on what people say then you can't live your life in peace because some certain people always want you to follow whatever they tell you just like that man that's not the first time he's saying something and he will impose it that I should do it but yesterday have come to realize that he is the type that love to control people's lives for them but I won't let that happen because I have my life to live and I should be the one to decide on what to do about it.
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Don't let people know your weakness
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I hope it is not too late to say happy Sunday to you all my beautiful people all over the world firstly I want to thank God for another beautiful week because God allowed me to see another beautiful week like this, last week some people died but am still here healthy and alive so praise He the Lord for that.
And lastly, I want to thank all my sponsors, readers, viewers because without you there is no me so for that reason I say a very big thank you to you all I was supposed to have posted this article since morning but I was so busy and when I finish work I went to make my hair so that I will look beautiful this week you know every ladies hair is their beauty and I just got home not quite long.
Back to today's topic" **don't let people know your weakness**"
Sometimes I wonder what some people derive from making jest of another person's weakness or is it that they have an evil mind? Maybe the sadness of others makes them happy because if not someone won't tell you something that is disturbing her for years and you will turn that person into a laughing stock in the presence of others.
In my real-life people think am a married woman because that's what I make them believe and it is not like as if I purposely did that but right from when I was learning work I discovered that some certain people love to know more about you just to make it as a weapon whenever there is a clash between you two and they will still be the one to cause trouble because they know what to use against you.
So one day in my boss's shop I was listening to music with my earpiece but it wasn't loud so that I could hear if my boss called all of a sudden two women started arguing about something which I don't even know and one of them just came in front of me where I was sitting and said: **even this lady here can not tell me she's single and she doesn't have a child**" I felt like they have been discussing a lot about me but I didn't say anything.
The next day another person ask me if am married then I said yes she said: how many children did I have I said two after 2 hours am with my earpiece again when I heard someone making jest of my boss because she haven't conceived yet and I wonder how they get know more enough for them to mock her that way but I acted like as if am listening to music so they believe I didn't hear anything.
When my boss came I asked her if what they are saying about her is really true because we are close she use to discuss her personal life with me but I never mentioned that someone was talking about her problem all I did was that I told her not to discuss her real-life with outsider because they will definitely make use of that to strike her down someday and she said ok.
After one week my boss wasn't at the shop, they started talking about her again while I have my earpiece on and one of those ladies said: how old is she self that she has a big shop like this maybe she's into prostitution and she is using the shop to cover up because she's not always at the shop in the morning.
Another day two of my seniors were fighting over age and this same lady told them how old are they that they are fighting she now use that opportunity to talk about my boss that even your boss self how old is she? While I pretend as if I didn't hear anything but this time when my boss came I told her everything they have been saying at her back and I told her that all these people are not what she thinks they are because once she's around they smile with her but when she steps out they mock her and call her all sort of names they even mock her over her childlessness.
She felt down but I make her understand that I think someone needs to tell her so that she will know how to hold back herself from falling into their hands again and she never asked them anything about the matter but when God wants to fight for you no one can stop Him and after two days that I told my boss what those ladies use to say about her the three of them fight and they began to expose what they have both talks about my boss.
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They opened all the secrets between the three of them which my boss never knew this is what God can do He can scatter your enemy and make them beg for mercy.
So don't ever let anyone know too much about you because it is what they know they will use against you in times of trouble.
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Don't try to be someone else
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**We all are from different families and we are here on Earth for different reasons with different purposes so you can never be someone else no matter how hard you tried.**
It is a beautiful Friday morning over here and a very cool morning as that even though there is no electricity to make the day fun but the weather is cool makes the Friday fun a little bit
I was inspired to write something on this topic because of one lady beside my shop she sells snacks so yesterday I came early before her and immediately she gets down from the bike she said: **oh Tom Beauty Place wants to be like me now because you came earlier before me** then I smiled and told her **I don't want to be her and I will never think of been her.**
We both smiled and entered our shops sometimes I wonder why some people want to be someone else I guess they forgot we are all different types with different uniqueness, different mission, different vision, and different ambition in life and that is why she's selling snacks while I make hair.
In the afternoon someone brought food for the both of us in the same plate and I am the kind of person who doesn't like to eat outside food even to buy food outside is not my thing aside from snacks I don't like buying cooked food outside so I always wake up early to cook my morning and afternoon food which I will take to shop.
The food was put inside my shop and I let the person that brought it leave then I told her the snacks lady to take the food because I still have my afternoon food that am going to eat and I guess she wanted to act like me and then she called her apprentice to carry it, I was inside my shop eating my lunch after I finish I went outside only to see her eating the food she told her apprentice to eat in my presence.
I just acted as if I didn't see her then around 6pm she quickly return the plate to the person that gave us food and then she told me that it was her apprentice that ate the food then I smiled and said I can't eat plenty food at once that is why I couldn't eat it.
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The question is who wants to be who now? And why did she pretend not to have interest in the food meanwhile she's the one that ends up eating it? Well, I guess I can't answer that because I guess she tried to be me for that seconds if not she would have just grabbed the food in front of me and eat instead of pretending that she won't eat it just like me.
Anyways I guess that's who she is pretending not to be someone but in the end, she actually wants to be like that person it is not as if am judging her but am just saying out my mind and she just showed me the kind of person she really is.
Some people tend to forget that even though you tried with your last strength you can never be another person and trying to be someone else can't last forever because you will definitely forget who you are imitating someday then the real you will come out and that's what I learned about this lady yesterday.
Some will even copy celebrities forgetting that the life which celebrities live are more expensive than what they can afford then they will start lying to people they will carry themselves higher than what they are.
That's what happens to anyone who wants to be someone else because it is not easy to forget who you are just to be someone else.
Am at work now.
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The Journey So Far
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At first, I was scared to quit my salary job for handwork but sometimes when God is doing good we as a human will assume He's been wicked towards us. I hope it is not too late to say good morning because it's 11:57 am already and happy Valentine to you all my lovely people all over the world.
In the year 2019 I stopped working at Dangote Noodles where I worked for the past 7yearsbecause I was sick and I was battling with a very serious back pain, then I could sit I can't stand as well all I can do is to sleep flat on my bed because my back hurt so bad so I went to the HR department to complain so that I can get sick leave.
It was then I realized that our company does not value the life of anyone working for them because the management told me to take just a day to get rest and resume back to work which I did because I do not have another means of surviving then and I was still in school so if I stop I won't be able to finish up my education.
I resumed back to work and keep managing myself but after 3 days I couldn't hold it together because the pain got worse so I just closed my eyes and told myself: I quit.
I off my uniform and gave it to my supervisor then went out in tears with the hope that I can't last long before I run back to the factory that was my thought because I have seen so many people that quit but they came back when they couldn't get another job.
When I got home my sister wasn't even angry with my decision because she knows that when it comes to work am not lazy that's why she respect my decision but then she asked me what my next plan is then I told her I will think about it when am fully recovered.
I spent 3 months on the sickbed without anything because the company doesn't pay my last salary but then my fiance stood by me all through even though he doesn't have much then but the fact that he's always there keeps me strong.
When I finally get back on my feet I decided to go for handwork so I told my fiance and he gave me half of the training fee while my sister took it up from there but along the lines, my sister lost her job in the year 2020 that was when everything gets so hard like as if am going to die before finishing up my training but my fiance still stood up for me and I now became his full responsibility because I have no one to turn to and I don't want to do what all my mates are doing to survive.
This is so easy to write but then it was like a hell for me and my fiance because he has siblings to take care of too and I added to his problem but then what choice do I have? this made me stay so focused at work even my boss always ask me if I don't get tired at all but deep within me I know how hard it is for me so I can't suffer for nothing.
Some times ago I made a post on how hard it is to learn work it was so easy saying it but in real life, it wasn't as easy as it sounds because I always do practical (learning new hair) every Friday sometimes I won't eat for a whole day because am saving up for the practical while some of my seniors there will laugh at me for being too serious and now I left them at my boss place while am done with my training.
I am not mocking them all am saying is that sometimes if you don't know what you are doing you will definitely be left behind while I was hustling up and down to get a shop I do go to people's houses to make hair for them and some won't even pay me good morning but still, I never let that pull me down while sometimes for a whole week I might not see anyone ask me to come and make hair for them but I stay strong as well because that was really depressing back then.
But here I am now a boss of my own because I now own a shop with all my appliances that I need the shop is ready now.
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What more can I say than to keep thanking God for this good thing this year is really a great year for me because on January 1st I got engaged and not my shop is here who knows maybe I can even get married this year as well lol 🤣that's God's will I guess but I don't mind if all that happens this year because from the beginning of this year I have seen the sign of goodness.
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The Potential in You
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It is a beautiful Wednesday morning a very cold morning with a bright rising sun that shows how beautiful today is going to be so I believe today is a good day.
The potential in you is the topic for today and before I say anything I will like to ask some questions:
What is the potential in you?
Did you think you have good potential?
How are you making use of your potential?
And what kind of potential did you have?
Firstly someone needs to know the potential in them before thinking of what to do or the step they should take because if you don't have the potential to hand something that thing can never work and that is why you keep seeing some people laying hands-on business with a huge amount of money but at the end, the business will crash and they will end up with dept.
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And some other people doesn't have enough potential to handle a particular post at work but it was given to them and in the end, they messed up.
This topic made me remember when I just started learning hairstylist then I was always scared if am capable to handle it but along the line, I realized that the potential is in me before I took the step because if I glance at the way my boss is making hair once it has already sunk into my head and when I get home I do try to practice what is on my head so that makes me believe that I have the potential to be a good hairstylist don't mind me am just trying to explain better and to make myself as an example of what am writing.
Another thing is that how are you making use of the potential in you? This question is a good one because some people are in this life that has good potential but they choose not to use it while some even ignore their potential meanwhile potential is just like a talent in you which God gave everyone to make it in life but because we have something else in mind we tend to forget about the potential in us.
Some are even using their potential but in a wrong way for example someone that knows how to handle the internet very well but instead of making use of it in a good way he or she chooses to scam people through the internet just like two guys that I use to know they both went to computer school to know about computing and when they graduated one of them open school and start teaching people how to use a computer and the other one make use of his computer knowledge to do internet fraudster and scam people through media.
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Some don't even know the kind of potential they have and they keep jumping from one business to another, for instance, you are a marketer that knows how to convince people to buy from you but along the line, you got sacked at work and then you forgot about marketing complete looking for another job to do, to me I believe such person should start his or her own business since you have the marketing potential already because that will help you a lot but instead she chooses to quit and sell her body for survival since she knows plenty people already.
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Some things are happening to people in life because they choose to let go of their potential, they choose to ignore their potential and they choose to overlook the good potential they have in them and then they keep complaining about the hardship of life.
God has given you what to use so why not make use of it because to me I believe there is no one who doesn't have potential in them but they might not discover it yet while some know it but they don't want to God for it.
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Time
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Good morning my beautiful people all over the world happy new week to you all.
When I went to paint my shop yesterday a lady who gave birth at a tender age named Rita explained to her friend how hard it is to raise a child as a single mother.
Being a mother is not a day job and not an easy task as well, I have been busy with work, house chores, and some other personal stuff, sometimes I want to do some things but because the little boy won't allow me, says Rita as she explained what she went through for being a single mother to her friend who thinks she doesn't like to mingle with her.
some times I always want to stay longer online but my son will always disturb and once he did that I will be distracted and then I will forget about it just to be with him and make him happy says Rita.
Taking about my boy, as you know my story and how he came about into my life, I believe he is a miraculous baby and anytime I remember how painful his delivery was well I want to do more for him just because he's all I have, and when Rita finish talking about her baby boy she told her friend see you can't understand yet but I pray you to become a mother soon so that you can see thing from my view as well.
So back to my topic for today, "time", the time they say it doesn't wait for anybody In life there is time for everything
****Time to be born****: if it is not yet time to be born so am sure you won't be inside any woman that will give birth to you as Rita gave birth to her son when she thought it is not yet time for her to give birth but it is time for the boy to come into the world so Rita has no choice.
****Time to grow****: this is the time when babies start to learn how to do things in life examples are: walking, talking, eating, etc. Because as a parent you are the first teacher to train your child before he or she can go to school.
****Time to struggle******:** this is the time when you finish schooling and look for work so that you can also survive in life and this is the time you shouldn't relent, retreat, waste or surrender if not you just want to be a failure in life.
****Time to make it in life****: when I say time to make it in life it simply means time to reap all that you've sowed, time to eat the fruit of your labor, time to enjoy your hustle.
****Time to sick****: am sure there is no one who doesn't sick in life and once the medication is taken then you will get well and get back on your feet again
Even the Bible made us understand that there is time to sick and time to die so don't think everything is just going to be like this forever because this world is not a forever thing for every living soul including animals.
****Time to die****: well there is no one in life that won't die but the time for it might just be different to one another and once it is time nothing can't stop it unless the grace of God.
Time never takes permission from anyone before it could move forward time is money in fact time is everything in life because once you wasted the time it can never be reversed again unless you make use of the little one left with you so never waste anything called "time ".
My boss always tells us (apprentice) while I was learning hairstylist that rich people don't joke with time because they know the value of time and they cherish it as well and speaking of my boss she never gets to work late because he cherishes time so much and that applies to all her apprentice to be punctual at work always because she made us understand that when we have our own place it is how we learn it we will handle it.
And now I think it's time to put it in a writing on how to balance all this because am about to be my own boss
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Am still trying to balance the time with everything I do because it is not easy to be a worker, blogger, noiser, and boss as well I guess but I believe with time I will know how to balance it all.
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Your Mother is your Heaven
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This topic is what my mom always says to me and my siblings while growing up so that we won't think she is just someone we can do away with and I love the quote now "your mother is your heaven" even the Bible made us understand that as well.
I am a mother, I am a lover, I am a worker, I am a transporter, I am all in one that's what women are because they play so many roles in so many peoples lives, or is there anyone who doesn't come to the world through a woman and that's why I called them transporter because from heaven to earth it's a journey and not a day journey, and I called a woman worker because they work so hard to raise their children.
A mother shouldn't be celebrated once in a year they should be celebrated every day every minute and every hour because a mother is everywhere, for instance, the teacher that teaches in a school is also a mother meanwhile your first teacher in life is your mother.
Because before you grow up to the level of going to school your mother has been training you at home on so many things like how to eat, how to walk, how to talk and how to hold things and so many more things.
Sometimes I wonder what could make some people not to regard their mother after all that she has been through for them even the Bible made it clear that our mother is our heaven so why neglect your heaven? You can through this woman and she raised you so don't even take her for granted.
If anything is coming up in our mind it should be our mother because we all are the first thing on our mothers' mind or have you seen a mother who doesn't love her child even though they don't say it but they surely do.
Woman left her parents house just to have us and care for us and sometimes there will be so many challenges in her life because of us but still, she will stand for us, there will be so much to take because of us but still, she will never give up so tell me what should make us not to take good care of our mothers.
Being pregnant alone is like a journey back to heaven on its own now thinking of how hard it is to train a child or let me say the time that you are sick and you are still little you can't talk you can't explain what is wrong with you and still she will figure it out and treat you until you get better.
It is only a bad mother that abandoned her child without caring about how he or she grows, I watched a movie last night about a mother who choose to abandoned her own child for so many years, she didn't know how the boy grow what he likes and what he doesn't like but when the boy finally grow up and make it in life she came back to show her face as a mother on his wedding day, who does that? Assuming the boy has died when he was trying to grow will she see someone to call her child today?
Some women who abandoned child doesn't always think about the future before they take the action of abandoning their child giving birth to a child is not just what it takes to be called a mother a mother is someone that gives birth and stands by the child watch him grow successfully and put him on the right path to follow.
The question now is if you are the guy will you take such mother back? The mother that doesn't know how you grow to survive and make it in life and on your wedding day she wants to seat and act like your mother will you allow her?
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****My conclusion****
Anything you do to help your children today as a mother will be remembered by them in the future so try to be a good mother to your children.
And as a child, your mother should be your first priority because she has been through hell for you before you become what you became now so take good care of your parents both father and mother. After all, some fathers are far better than some mothers sorry for saying that but I have seen some fathers who play the role of a mother in their children's life.
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