@Esthery97 22 April 2022

5 things you should never tell a friend Things you should never tell your friend about your relationship Lead image https://unsplash.com/photos/0-uzdU3gUYw

Hello my beautiful people all over the world, happy weekend to you all as we all know it's Friday already how are you all spending your weekend? Well as for me I will be spending my weekend at work as usual because the weekend is always a busy time for me. I came across this topic online yesterday when I was trying to find some words and this makes me want to write more about it because some relationships have crashed based on advice given by some bad friends. some ladies are fond of discussing every little thing about their relationship with their friends meanwhile the friend in question might not be in any relationship so how can someone who is not in a relationship have an idea of how to manage a relationship?

Source https://unsplash.com/photos/9PIfZHcnrjQ Things you should never discuss with your friends about your relationship are **Money issue**: once you discuss how money is been made or spent in your relationship with your friends then it means you are risking your relationship finances because the person you are taking advice from might have a big issue with money in her relationship so what kind of advice did you think she will give you? ****Sex life****: this part makes me remember a woman in my sister's house back then who always fight with her husband because she doesn't want to give him sex, sometimes they will start fighting in the middle of the night and everyone will come out of their room to settle the fight, one day they began this fight and I ask the woman why did Shey always fight her husband and she said he like sex too much and then I told her that she should be thanking God because some women can't even remember the last time their husbands ask them for sex Another woman there answered that it has been 6 months since her husband ask her for sex last and the woman fighting was shocked that how do they cope in their marriage without sex I know if people were not there the woman who didn't have it will advise the one who is having it never to allow her husband just because she wants them to be the same and that's how ladies do when they see that you are enjoying your relationship and they are not they will find a way to manipulate yours too. ****Your partner's background****: this should be a personal thing for everyone because it is what people know about you that they will use against you anytime you think you are smart so never discuss your background or your partner's background with your friends some friends are the enemy you can never imagine. ****The foundation of your relationship****: discussing this kind of issue with someone might open a crack in your relationship because once your friends know too much about how it all started they will have an idea of where it is going just like a friend of mine at my boss shop then who discussed her relationship background with her friends in the shop so along the line the relationship had an issue and she asks her friends to beg her boyfriend for her then one of them went back to ask the guy out, this cause so much pain for the girl because she wasn't expecting any of her friends to do such thing for her she lost her relationship because she trusted her friends. ****How well your relationship is going****: this is the most dangerous thing to discuss with anyone because I have seen so many cases where a lady discussed how well her relationship is going and the other lady went back to say bad things about her just because her relationship is not moving on smoothly, this happened at my shop last week and the woman said she only asked the lady to help her buy something for her baby and then she said so you are not working it is your husband taking care of all these expensive things you are buying. **Meet my beautiful sponsors** 👆 The issue was so big to the extent that they nearly beat themselves up, assuming she haven't discussed how well her relationship is going such a fight will never come up Be mindful of what you tell people about you and your relationship words. Thanks for reading.