@Esthery97 7 April 2022

Don't give what you can't take Lead image https://unsplash.com/photos/Ve56BgheV6o How does it feel to be cheated on?

This question struck my mind when someone was complaining about his relationship at my shop yesterday when guys are cheating they will say he hasn't married the lady so why complain but when ladies cheat they will call them prostitutes. Yesterday afternoon my neighbor was helping me to make my hair because she can plate hair so 3 bikes just drove into one compound beside my neighbor then this noise began, I couldn't go there to watch what was happening but I could hear them clearly where I was sitting in front of my shop and the story goes like this.

One guy dating a girl and he's cheating on the lady but she didn't complain, still she keeps her cool while watching the guy going all around cheating though have heard about it before but I did see any good and deep thing to write about it but yesterday it was like someone put petrol into a gas fire when the lady and her family came to pack her stuff from the guy's house. The guy's mother was there too because she's claiming that a guy can date as many as he wants while she wants her son to send his girlfriend away because she was caught cheating with another guy, the girl's mother too was there to support her child so that the guy and his mother won't beat her up. Before we could close our eye and open it the two mothers have started to throw words at each other though they didn't exchange blows but the noise was hectic as if the whole street is coming down. So the chairman of the street met them there and ask what was the noise all about the guy wants to talk and he said the girl should talk first because he respects women a lot, so the girl narrate how this guy has been cheating on her with different girls including her friends but she didn't talk or say anything now she cheated on him for once he now wants to beat her up for it. When it was the guy's turn he said: daddy but didn't the Quran say we can have as many wives as we want then the man stop him from there that it's a wife and not girlfriends and the Quran stated it that if you have the power and not the way you are doing it. Now it's time for the two mothers to talk they both shout at each other and then the chairman told them that they are the problem of those kids, especially the guy's mother because she's supporting her child to do a bad thing he then asks the guy's mother that if the girl happens to be her child will she allow a guy to treat the way her son is treating her? The guy's mother couldn't talk again but then the man face the girl and told her that what she did was wrong because you can't say you want to do what your man is doing it will affect you. The chairman continue talking that now the guy's mother wants her out of her son's house because of just one thing she did meanwhile the guy has done so many yet the girl's mother didn't come and send the guy away from her daughter's life. Don't mind me, it is not like as if am doing amebo but sometimes I just keep wondering what those people that cheat on their partner feel, and then so many questions follow it up like: How does it feel to be cheated on? How do you feel when you cheat? How did you get yourself into cheating? How would you explain yourself when you are caught cheating? **Meet my beautiful sponsors** 👆 I guess the guy now understands and knows how it feels to be cheated on though I don't know if the girl finally agrees to leave his house because after the chairman interfere in the matter to settle it they all went back inside so I don't know the end of the story but I do believe the guy now feel what the lady was feeling all the time he has been cheating on her. Thanks for reading.