Three questions you should ask yourself
Three questions we should always ask ourselves when things go wrong are why? where? And how? These are the questions you should ask yourself when you missed your way in life.
It is not that we can't make mistakes, we are humans and we can make mistakes at any time. No human is above mistakes as long as you are living, mistakes will make things go a wrong way if care is not taken and that's where these questions come in why, where, and how?.
Learn from the story below.
A lady was happily married to a very young man and they were so happy together until she met her first love back in the days when she was in secondary school, they both exchanged numbers based on friendship but along the line, the ex-boyfriend fell in love with her again. He began to disturb her but instead of her telling her loving husband, she took it to her friends of which one of them has been crushing on her husband but she had no idea about it. They advised her to give him a chance because they have been In love before and she foolishly followed their advice.
In the end, her husband got to know about it and he threw her out of his house. Ahe didn't feel bad about it because she thought she will end up with her ex-lover but on getting to his house, she met his wife and he made her understand that he can't marry two wives neither can he leave his wife for her. Her friends couldn't take her in so she began to ask herself why she did that in the very first place?.
How? This question is a good one to ask yourself anytime you want to take a step because once you miss your way in life it might be very difficult to find the right way agado and even if you find the right way on time, it will be very hard to go through it. Just like this woman in the story, assuming she has told her husband what was going on she might not lose her home, and assuming she never asked her friends for advice she might not lose her home but she was so carried away by her ex and she forgot her present home.
Where? Hmmm, when everything goes wrong where do you think you will go? or let me just say where do you want to start from? Because once you press the wrong button in life, it might be difficult to get back on track. The woman in the story asked her friends where they want her to start from and the one that was crushing on her husband before told her to start from somewhere because she was coming from somewhere you can imagine someone you call a friend telling such a thing.
We should stop blaming people for our mistakes, especially ladies, stop blaming your friends for your mistake and wrong advice sometimes what they told you to do is in you already they just helped you to get to your destination with their advice, my grandma used to say that anyone that was told to do evil and she did it, the evil is in her already and she is just looking for someone to tell her to do so.
If this lady truly loved her husband, she wouldn't have exchanged numbers with her ex-boyfriend because once a lover will always be a lover no matter how long they keep their distance or how far they are from each other the day. After all, when they meet each other again they will remember everything they both shared.
And asking her friends for advice on what to do simply means that she wants to do it she just doesn't know how to start and they helped her so I don't blame them even though what they did was wrong but if she doesn't have the mind of cheating on her husband she wouldn't have asked her friends for any advise.
Thanks for reading.
Interestingly stated. This is why one should learn to be responsible for his or her actions as such will make such individual always conscious of every moves her or she make, knowing there will be consequences, and at that, it will help determine what the consequences will be, if it will be okay by then, before diving in.
Thanks for sharing. Cheers.