She's your wife and not a slave

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Hello everyone happy beautiful Monday morning how was your weekend I guess it was great as mine.

Before you get married what did you see in your partner before going into a relationship with her? Or let me just ask if there is enough love to sustain the relationship till the end of time.

Well, the topic is she's your wife and not a slave because she left her family to come to give you a life to make you a man so never treat her like a piece of paper never make her a slave in your house and if there is anything that people must know about you it should be your wife first, even the Bible says: "man shall leave his house and take a wife to become his family" so never look down on your wife because they are someone's daughter and someone's family too and I guess they deserve your respect with full attention as well.

One of my customers was sharing her life story with me yesterday about how marriage treated her when she just got married, according to her she said her marriage was just a month old when her mother-in-law and her husband started a civil war with her in the house just because her husband told her to manage one-room apartment in his mother's house till when he finishes his own house.

Sometimes I wonder what some mother-in-law take their son's wife for, as a slave? Or maybe they see them as a housemaid forgetting that they have been through that before but yet they want some other women to go through it again which is not fair.

The story continues as to how the mother makes a new home hell for her, she said in the morning she will knock on her door as early as 5:00am and then begin to talk at the door that she should be awake by now as a wife to take care of the house then cook for her husband, at first she didn't take it seriously she thought her mother-in-law is trying to train her on what marriage is all about but she took another lane when she noticed that she wasn't moved by waking up early.

She said whenever her husband is out the mother won't let her rest it is either she washing her clothes or she helps her to clean her room and so many more as if she is a house help, so one day she tried talking to her husband on how hot the house is for her and the husband spark like as if the is an electric connection in his head saying what is wrong with her who is making the house a hell for her and besides won't she do anything at home for his mother as a wife?

Then she began to beg him not to shout because she didn't want her mother-in-law to hear what is going on and she didn't want her to know she was reporting to her son meanwhile she has heard already then her husband open the door to step out but he's still talking after the man left his mother took over her shift then began to talk to her that: see don't kill my son o because this house was peaceful before you can that she doesn't even know maybe the pastor that joined them was a welder that uses iron to join them and that is why she keeps giving her son problem here and there.

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The lady said she couldn't say anything and she couldn't help herself but cry because the marriage is just 3months old by that time and everything has started falling apart like that, she even said she can't leave the house without taking permission from her mother-in-law and she has to approve it because her husband has given his mother the chance to monitor her whenever she's going out.

I felt bad for her because that kind of mother in law seems like someone who doesn't want her son to get married and that is why she keeps tormenting her so that she will leave and they will tell people that she's not a good wife, I just pray God help her through because the marriage is still very fresh and young.

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