Responsibility

This post is not pointing a finger at anyone, is just what I think on my own and what I saw on social media

So don't take it to the heart...

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When did I say responsibility what was the first thing that came into your mind? Let me guess if you are a lady, you might be thinking oh thank God am not the one that will carry the responsibility of the house since am a lady, but did you know what responsibility is?

Responsibility is the act of taking full charge of something. Am sure some will even be thinking that well thank God am just a girl automatically I don't have any responsibility to take charge of because my husband or fiance/ boyfriend will be the one to carry it all, but then I ask what about your own family? Are they your man's responsibility as well?

Let me burst your bubble, man is not the only one that has a responsibility to carry we all have a responsibility to carry as long as you are alive living either you are single, engaged, or married you have your own responsibility in life as well.

For instance, a single lady that says she doesn't have a responsibility, are you going into a relationship because you want your boyfriend to carry your life responsibility for you? Or let me ask if you are not lucky to have a man in your life won't you sort yourself out?

A lady that is engaged this ones are very bold to the extent of telling a man why did you got me engaged when you know you can't carry my responsibility? Well, let me ask you before you got engaged who was carrying the responsibility for you? Or you just manage to get him to engage you so that you can put all the load on his neck?

And as for married people these one's are very funny eh you will hear after all you are my husband so automatically my responsibility has become yours as well forgetting that their father is a man and their brothers too is also a man, some of them will always tell their brothers that you don't marry your wife just to finance her family but they want their husband to finance theirs, don't you know that when your husband head is full of responsibility he will begin to misbehave to you in the house but when you are helping him even if it is little it won't choke him

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Question for you.

Does the man look like a camel that can carry a load for over a million miles?

No they are not, they always have feelings and somethings to think as well, I believe we all should know that the know that even the weak also need someone to lean on sometimes

I watched one TV program and the host was talking about the responsibility of a man and a woman as a couple then she said "you don't go into marriage just to make your man truck that has nothing to do than to carry the load" and I reason that, that if my brother reports his wife of letting him finance her family all in the name of marriage I will be very mad at her because my brother is not a horse or camel that came to life just to carry loads for another person

Likewise, I can't do such for my man, look don't get me wrong on this aspect a man can help his wife, fiance/girlfriend to pay bills even he can send money to her parents as well but it is not an obligation or a duty. But some women have made it a duty call for their husbands.

You can ask and he can give you but don't you make a compulsory habit, see what you can't take don't do it for someone else because we all have a man in our family even if you don't have brothers you will have a father. Men are truly strong and they can carry anything as many as it is but that doesn't make us turn them into a truck and use them as we like.

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My conclusion

As a woman never depend on your man alone make use of your hands too and do something productive because sometimes they might fail you when you needed them most, though it might not be intentional but if you have something doing as well you won't always wait before you can lay your hands on whatever you want

And as a man don't think your woman is a golddigger because she always asks you for financial help, you are her supporter that's what you should always do