Privacy builds crack in relationship
Sometimes, the thing that are been dragged on the social media is not what is happening in reality and a lot of people just dish out their opinion because they aren't feeling the heat of what privacy problems can cause in a relationship but as long as it is been dragged then it is indeed an important issue that should be tackled.
First privacy in a relationship is not a good idea because a relationship is meant for two people to know each other and share some things you can't even tell your friends and family, so why do we have to keep privacy with such person?
What is the essence of a relationship when there is privacy?
I don't support any privacy in a relationship except if it is family issues that you can't be allowed to handle because some families don't like their partner to contribute to their families matter so you can keep such privacy but anything outside that should be completely open.
When your partner began to keep away his phones or gadget from you to check then I sense Infidelity in such a relationship because there shouldn't be anything to hide from each other, don't get me wrong some things are better kept a secret but not to the extent of securing your phones for your partner not to see some things means you have something else you are keeping.
Keeping phones from each other in a relationship is not a good idea because it's not safe out there so nothing must be kept secret, your partner should know whatever you are doing your partner should know in case of an emergency.
For instance, a guy working in a factory where there are electricity cables everywhere meanwhile he has a lady disturbing him at work for a date but instead of sharing the issue with his partner he decided to keep it to himself because he thought he could handle the situation of the lady.
One day he was on break and where he was sitting to have his lunch the lady came to meet him there and started touching him sexually, the guy doesn't have a choice but to push her off from his body then he mistakingly pushed her to the wall where there are naked wires, the lady got shocked by the electricity till death.
The guy couldn't do anything to save her because he wasn't expecting such a bad incident to occur all he wanted was to get her off his body before he fell into the temptation, the guy got arrested and charge with murder since he was the one that pushed her.
When his partner got there he tried to explain to her but it was too late to believe him since he kept it all away right from the beginning, assuming this guy had told his partner maybe she might have reported her to the police in case if anything bad happens to anyone of them just like this bad accident.
Going through your partner's phone is not a good idea I guess but still, I don't see anything wrong with it because is just a phone and if you don't have any skeleton in your wardrobe, you wouldn't feel uncomfortable if your partner goes through your phone.
So keeping phones away from your partner is a sign of infidelity and the relationship should never have anything call privacy no matter what because you guys came together to become one so why keep some part of yourself a secret?
I was inspired to write this after reading @George_Dee post yesterday thanks for reading.
I really think that, if you want to have a successful relationship, you need to be really open with everything to your partner. Being secretive means having trust issues as well