Hello everyone, how are you all enjoying your new month? Yesterday I saw everyone posting on how big or small they have achieved on noise and read but as I am still very fresh here nothing to calculate yet and on noise,my account is not earning as well but I know with time it will come back to normal.
So today am talking about my working experience though I have plenty of working experience the good ones and bad ones so am just going to share one of it with you and thanks for reading.
There is an adage that says "experience is the best teacher", I didn't understand it until I became an adult.
After my secondary school education, I was patiently waiting for the JAMB exam so that I can go to the university. One of my elder sister-friend got me a job so that I won't just be at home sleeping and waking, it would be an opportunity for me to save some money ahead of my admission too.
The job was in a hotel, at first I didn't see anything wrong working in a hotel simply because I am not going there to sell my body for money, I am going there to work for my money but I never knew I was wrong until I started to work in a hotel as a receptionist.
Is there anything wrong been a receptionist? And is there any other thing receptionist does than to take a record of drinks and rooms then account to the manager? Here in my country some receptionist are still the one serving drinks, that's not my problem as long as am getting paid for my service.
So when I resumed work, what I got there is different from the knowledge I had about the receptionist job. I was the other way around because what I was thinking is quite different from what I met at the hotel.
Then, I was just a little girl who just finished secondary school and doesn't know anything about life yet all I think of then is how to become a doctor in my life. To my little knowledge then, I thought if I worked and save up I will be able to achieve my dreams.
I have worked for two weeks already and everything was fine with me and my boss because I don't miscalculate and my account is always intact. On that faithful day, I went to make my hair been the first time and the hairstylist asked me to do eyelashes as well and I did it. In getting to my working place everyone was just looking at me as if one big madam entered inside hotel premises because my face looks different.
That same day after I finish selling drinks and giving rooms to everyone I needed to answer, I decided to make my account before I sleep that night because it's late and I couldn't go home. My boss just showed up and sat beside me talking but I didn't respond to him because am calculating the drinks which I sold for the day.
The next thing I heard from him was that I should take a gold circle and meet him in room 1 which is a personal room in the hotel. I looked up maybe it was the breeze that blew those words into my ear then I ask again, sir what did you say?
My boss: Take a gold circle condom and meet me in room 1.
Me: what is a gold circle?
Boss: are you a baby or haven't you seen it before?
Me: see what I don't know what you are talking about
Then he came inside the barricade that receptionist do stay and took out the gold circle condom, I laughed and told him is this not a balloon that little kids play with, he replied me what? No, it is used for sex.
I ask again so why did you want me to take it and follow you?
He replied again just take it and follow me.
That was how I got mad and yell at him saying:
What did you take me for?
What did you think am here for and besides you are old enough to be my father and yet you want to lay with me.
When he saw how mad I was he just said cool down, I was just playing with you and I thought you are a bad girl that's why I tested you, then my mind was at ease again.
The day I told one of the staff about it, I don't know why the girl opened up to me, maybe is God that wanted me to quickly leave that place. She told me everything about the man and every one of his staff he has slept with including her. In the end, she now said am the only one he hasn't slept with in the whole hotel.
I took a deep breath because I was confused why he's doing that but I didn't act as if I knew anything. I finished up my work for the day and acted as if am coming back the next day but in my mind, I am not going there again simply because I will be doing night shift the next day and if I don't agree with him he might want to force me that's why I quickly quit his job.
Conclusion...
My conclusion now is that why do all these old men keep spoiling little girls life?, assuming I wasn't mad at him that day he would have gotten me and have his way with me.
Everyone should always train their children especially girls to be smart and always vigilant simply because there are lots of bad men out there looking for little girls to destroy.
Now when I noticed any man making any funny moves around me I know where he's heading to even without him saying anything to me because my experience has taught me a lot .
Awww. That is ridiculous! Grr. I hate meeting man like that, to be honest. Perv and thinks they can be charming to everyone, lol