Don't try to be someone else
We all are from different families and we are here on Earth for different reasons with different purposes so you can never be someone else no matter how hard you tried.
It is a beautiful Friday morning over here and a very cool morning as that even though there is no electricity to make the day fun but the weather is cool makes the Friday fun a little bit
I was inspired to write something on this topic because of one lady beside my shop she sells snacks so yesterday I came early before her and immediately she gets down from the bike she said: oh Tom Beauty Place wants to be like me now because you came earlier before me then I smiled and told her I don't want to be her and I will never think of been her.
We both smiled and entered our shops sometimes I wonder why some people want to be someone else I guess they forgot we are all different types with different uniqueness, different mission, different vision, and different ambition in life and that is why she's selling snacks while I make hair.
In the afternoon someone brought food for the both of us in the same plate and I am the kind of person who doesn't like to eat outside food even to buy food outside is not my thing aside from snacks I don't like buying cooked food outside so I always wake up early to cook my morning and afternoon food which I will take to shop.
The food was put inside my shop and I let the person that brought it leave then I told her the snacks lady to take the food because I still have my afternoon food that am going to eat and I guess she wanted to act like me and then she called her apprentice to carry it, I was inside my shop eating my lunch after I finish I went outside only to see her eating the food she told her apprentice to eat in my presence.
I just acted as if I didn't see her then around 6pm she quickly return the plate to the person that gave us food and then she told me that it was her apprentice that ate the food then I smiled and said I can't eat plenty food at once that is why I couldn't eat it.
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The question is who wants to be who now? And why did she pretend not to have interest in the food meanwhile she's the one that ends up eating it? Well, I guess I can't answer that because I guess she tried to be me for that seconds if not she would have just grabbed the food in front of me and eat instead of pretending that she won't eat it just like me.
Anyways I guess that's who she is pretending not to be someone but in the end, she actually wants to be like that person it is not as if am judging her but am just saying out my mind and she just showed me the kind of person she really is.
Some people tend to forget that even though you tried with your last strength you can never be another person and trying to be someone else can't last forever because you will definitely forget who you are imitating someday then the real you will come out and that's what I learned about this lady yesterday.
Some will even copy celebrities forgetting that the life which celebrities live are more expensive than what they can afford then they will start lying to people they will carry themselves higher than what they are.
That's what happens to anyone who wants to be someone else because it is not easy to forget who you are just to be someone else.
Am at work now.
Thanks for reading.
We should not live hiding behind someone elses back. It will not make us grow as a person. We are all unique, and we should all live by our differences because that's what makes us authentic, genuine and unique.