Don't look for Respect but earn Respect

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You don't have to look for respect because you can't find it unless you earn it and how can you earn it? It is very simple to earn respect by treating people around with respect as well, be good to them and be kind always by doing all this you can earn respect.

Some people are in this life who loves to have people's respect but they don't have all what it take to earn the respect and they began to look for it by telling all sorts of lies, living big, expensive lives and carrying their shoulder up just for people to respect them as a big person meanwhile they are nothing.

Here is a story of a lady who doesn't have all it takes to be respected but due to the fact that she wanted the respect so bad she carried her shoulder up so hight and do somethings that she didn't suppose to have done.

The story

Sandra is a very beautiful girl that lives with her sister and her sister is a very busy type when it comes to work, Sandra found love a serious relationship before her sister because her sister is too busy for relationship so Sandra got into a serious relationship before her sister the love between Sandra and her boyfriend was so strong to the extent that she couldn't hold on for the guy to come and pay her bride price before she make the decision of staying with him

Sandra's sister wasn't angry with her because she want her little sister to be happy and she supported her on her decision, when Sandra began to live with her boyfriend she started to feel to big among her mate in the area where she stays.

She wants people to address her as a married woman which she's not whenever someone talk to her in the neighborhood without putting ma at the back she feels bad.

And one day she had an argument with someone in the neighborhood so she told that lady which is her age mate that she should respect her because she now stays under a man's roof and the other lady abuse her for living with a man that hasn't payed her bride price and yet she's feeling important, that word pain Sandra so much that she began to shead tears and an elderly woman in her apartment called her and advice her never to look for respect because when the time comes for people to respect her they will definitely do.

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I hope you learn something from this little story of Sandra that want people to respect her by all means meanwhile respect they say is reciprocal, the way you behave to people will show the kind of respect they will give to you and some people didn't disrespect Samdra because she's living with her boyfriend but because she has no manner towards them that is why some people don't respect Sandra.

Conclusion

You can never be respected if you don't respect people because it is your behavior that will earn respect for you and not by boasting all around your street, not by telling people how rich or big you are it is you good deed, morals and behavior that will make people to give you maximum respect without telling them to.

So respect yourself by having good behavior towards people so that people can respect you in return

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