when I say man I don’t mean male as a gender but human being as a whole.
I looked around me today and noticed that all we do as humans is influenced in one way or the other by someone.
lets look at this instance as a child is growing up you will notice all children are not the same in character,speech and behavior.this is because of those who brought them up , they tend to follow those that trained them instruction and also do what they do in most cases.
so as humans everything we do is influenced by someone.Those who say am not a product of influence that is an influence too because you must have been convinced by someone that you are not influencable and you agreed to it, but that is an influence too.
The kind of job,good,cloths and other things we do we make our choices on this based on what we see around and based on what you have seen someone do with it.For instance I want to an accountant I did not just wake up one morning to decide that ,but I saw someone which is my neighbor who is an accountant and I admired her lifestyle and said I want to be that.
Also what someone sees as bad another person might not see it as bad why because of influence too it can friends,parents or pastors who taught that person that thing and he don’t see it as bad
Everything that man becomes is as a result of influence so since I know that am a product of influence what should I do?
1.whatever stays long around you will get into you,that is what ever is happening around you or what people close to you around you,you will eventually do that too.
2.surround yourself with the right set of people and the right people that thier influence will be positive on you
3.when you have a goal surround yourself with people that will multivate you on that not those that don’t see that thing you want to do.
hope this helped you.
