@Esther123

Past mistakes I observed that many people still dwell and live in their past. most times decision taken about our life or things to do were taken in haste or we did not consider other things to do it and at the end we end up doing the wrong thing. some people what they did wrong in the past to hurt other people or things that they have done that is so bad now they turned a new leaf but that thing they have done keep ringing in their mind and they think it’s the reward for what they have done in the past some people made mistakes in decision or things they do as a result of advice given to them by family or friends and they now Blame the person for what happened and an even lose that relationship with the person HOW NOT TO MAKE MISTAKES firstly when you are about to do something thing about it well ,do research on it well before going ahead with it. secondly when taking advice from others don’t take it like an absolute solution but think through it too because their advice is just a suggestion Thirdly ask the right person for advice ,someone who knows about that thing you want the person to advice you on and not just anyone . HOW TO DEAL WITH MISTAKES -first know what exactly go wrong then think of ways to rectify it -don’t use the mistake to judge other things -move on and don’t dwell in that by reminding yourself of it but move on -don’t hate those that advised you to do it because you should have just think through it too i stop here for now hope this helped you

Man a product of influence when I say man I don’t mean male as a gender but human being as a whole. I looked around me today and noticed that all we do as humans is influenced in one way or the other by someone. lets look at this instance as a child is growing up you will notice all children are not the same in character,speech and behavior.this is because of those who brought them up , they tend to follow those that trained them instruction and also do what they do in most cases. so as humans everything we do is influenced by someone.Those who say am not a product of influence that is an influence too because you must have been convinced by someone that you are not influencable and you agreed to it, but that is an influence too. The kind of job,good,cloths and other things we do we make our choices on this based on what we see around and based on what you have seen someone do with it.For instance I want to an accountant I did not just wake up one morning to decide that ,but I saw someone which is my neighbor who is an accountant and I admired her lifestyle and said I want to be that. Also what someone sees as bad another person might not see it as bad why because of influence too it can friends,parents or pastors who taught that person that thing and he don’t see it as bad Everything that man becomes is as a result of influence so since I know that am a product of influence what should I do? 1.whatever stays long around you will get into you,that is what ever is happening around you or what people close to you around you,you will eventually do that too. 2.surround yourself with the right set of people and the right people that thier influence will be positive on you 3.when you have a goal surround yourself with people that will multivate you on that not those that don’t see that thing you want to do. hope this helped you.

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My community Just thought of something....people would have pass through one school or the other and have different experiences in school ,so I decided to create a community names SCHOOL LIFE. School life community is where people share articles on their different experiences in school either primary,secondary,tertiary or any school The periods in school can be so funny,annoying and interesting most times,others can learn from your experiences too. When people share their experiences it can be exciting to make you laugh ,some you will learn from it,some you will learn to teach others. During the period of sharing experiences with others you will remember some moments that will make you laugh,sad but funny,make you feel stupid like did you actually do this and you just laugh about it ,you will remember somethings that are so annoying too and you will remember people that you have forgotten for long who directly or indirectly had impact in your life WHAT TO WRITE ABOUT -friends at school -games at school -teachers at school -food at school -different activities at school RULES OF THE COMMUNITY The rules of the community is as follows: -no plagiarism -no use of x rated words -article should not be less that 300 words -no spamming so in posting an article you should put this rule in mind because your article will only be approved if you follow them. So join SCHOOL LIFE community let’s share our experiences. https://read.cash/c/school-life-5b3c

Introduction My name is Oyetade Esther ,a Christian. i attended concept ivory private school for my primary education 2009 I attended stokhan comprehensive college for my secondary 2015 and Lagos state university,Nigeria for my tertiary education 2020 look forward to seeing my articles on school life experiences 😎

Back to life,back to reality Every one has dreams and expectations,most people want life to go the way they want it to go and are not looking at the real picture.i have always set a dream and goal for myself and always do what I already wanted to do and do things to please others but along the line I realised that there is difference between what I expect the world to be and what it is. The world is not structured to be fair so I had to let go of the expectations in my head and take a walk through the street I found myself,saw beggars on the street,saw people in cars,I saw beautiful people that glow like the sun and say people that struggle tirelessly with acnes ,saw the ups and down then I realized what life!!! -wherever and whatever we find ourself in we just have to live -device your own mechanism of survival,modify your thoughts to be suitable for your survival, according to what you don’t have, what you have, where you want to be and where you are. Somewhere between your hopes and expectations and reality is you, struggling to make both ends meet, and that the true reality and you got to live it and make it count. so go back to life and reality and see things the way they are and live and survive 👍🏽

With a friend(lesson learn today) Life can be so interesting and lovely if you are with the right people who encourage you to keep going and winning together today I spent my day with a friend with the nick name sident .i learnt a lot staying with him today which I will list below: -first in life people are very different from each other so relationships can go on better of you know each other differences,learn from it and accommodate each other differences -secondly there is no need discriminating about religion ,since each person choose to go for this religion and has a strong faith in that then why disputing no need let’s just be strong in what we do -Thirdly,which is the last is everyone would want a good life without stress if they are opportune too,those passing through what they passing through today never signed up for that. but along the line I had the thought that since people are different then why don’t I look for someone that has the same view with you ,same thought pattern and all but the answer I got was that how would you learn.

Mob action(first thought) In life there are some circumstances when people just judge things based on what they see and not based on what actually happened.Mob action is when someone assume something and use that to judge someone.There are instances where another people did the thing but another person is suffering for it because of people quick actions,for instance a pregnant woman was hit by a car and the car ran away but another man coming saw the woman and decided to help her but when people gathered at the scene and saw the man there they tailgate it was him that did it and arrested him because the woman died then news and paper will carry it that a man killed a pregnant woman and that will tarnish his image for several years and this will be a wound but if eventually he clear his name the pain and experiences will still be there. so let endeavoring not to be quick to judge or decide about people but ask from them and find out more first so as to save lives and reputations thanks