At first reading the article you may think I have come to sell cups, but I have not come to sell cups. Guys, if you were given two beautiful cups and asked to decide which of these two cups you would take? The red cup or the blue cup. When you like two colors. But you can't make the right decision. This is indecision.
Psychologists say that when one is asked to choose between two or more options, the problem that arises is confusion. This indecision is more or less seen in all types of people. But in some cases it becomes a kind of problem.
Why can't people decide?
There can be a variety of reasons for not being able to make a decision, or not being able to choose between two or three options. The main reason is the lack of self-confidence. Which is why people are afraid to make decisions. Another reason is that he cannot be sure which of the two options is better. Due to which he cannot make a decision.
What are the problems?
Now it can be said, what is the problem if you can not decide? In fact, they can't take any new steps if they can't make a decision. When it comes to making a new decision, they think a lot and ask different people. They can never make a decision at once. When they make a decision, they change it a few days later and make another decision. They think that the decision they made earlier is wrong. As they suffer from severe human stress, it is seen that their depression goes away and extreme instability works due to inability to make decisions. This caused him to get angry all of a sudden. Not being able to make a decision affects his self-confidence again. And if it is seen that he has made a wrong decision, it will take his self-confidence to zero. That is, the whole thing continues to work like a full cycle. As a result, the person's focus is on whether he can do the job, regardless of the amount of attention, effort or effort required. As a result, he can no longer do that work. Whatever happens as a result, fear works and these also affect the body. It can be seen that his hands and feet are shaking, he is feeling restless, his heart is beating fast, his hands and feet are getting cold, his body is shaking, he is sweating, his throat is getting dry, various symptoms like this. Due to which there is a problem in his behavior.
How is the remedy available?
Easy to accept-
Everything has to be accepted in a simple way to get rid of this problem. Decisions about anything can be proven wrong at any time. That's why you shouldn't lose your self-confidence by thinking about why it was wrong. If you want to make any decision, you have to be prepared in a humane way. And think the decision might be wrong. This is a very common occurrence. It must be accepted.
Think and prepare before making a decision-
When making a decision, think about the pros and cons of success. Then you have to consider whether you have the ability to handle the negative aspects. And he has to decide accordingly. If you are prepared for the negative things in advance, it is easier to handle the adverse situation later.
Don't compare yourself to others-
Many times it may seem that someone else can do a job easily, someone can do something, but why can't you? Again, many in the family compare themselves to other successful people, these things also reduce one's self-confidence. This creates problems for him in making decisions. A kind of didha and fear works. So stop comparing yourself to others today.
Praise yourself-
Did you do anything positive in life? Of course you did. No matter how small it is. Praise yourself for those little things. You will see self-confidence coming back. And your decision will be much easier.
Your own day for the baby-
Psychologists say that children who grow up fondly, and that all their decisions are made by their parents or someone else, tend to be dependent even after they grow up. So when they grow up, they need to make a decision, but they can't. In that case, what needs to be done is to give children the opportunity to make small decisions from an early age. So that his self-confidence develops. As he can be told, what will he eat for breakfast in the morning? Fried eggs? Or egg pose? Such a tendency creates the humanity of his middle decision-making.
[Note- I wrote it on my own language then I translate it into english ]
Thank you.
You are right for children and their decision making under parents influence. If kids let their parents to make decision instead of them, later in adult life, they'll have problems to be free in attentions and act for their own good.