Marry Me

“Marriage is the most important building block of society. “

You can hear this sentence from the mouths of many sociologists and thinkers. In fact, many politicians often use this word to influence their voters. This is because marriage is one of the most important elements of human history and culture.

Today, the concept of marriage is no longer as important as it used to be. In ancient times, marriages were usually made for families to expand their lands or expand their companies. Of course, the continuation of the lineage was also an important factor in this. Today, there are more marriages made for love.

In fact, marriage is one of the most important sociological institutions necessary for people to form a society and live together in an orderly manner. Love marriages were brought to the fore in order to make this institution, which is necessary for the preservation of the social structure and the continuation of the traditions, attractive. The perception of marriages made for a piece of land or a company in the past, and made for love since the 20th century has been engraved in the minds of the world community, both in films and novels. In fact, a marriage means that two people not only love each other, but also live together in harmony, endure each other in a civilized framework, and continue the lineage of humanity and develop more. However, there were also great romances that became epic in the past. For example, Tristan and Isolde, Leyla and Majnun…

Regardless of what a marriage is for, it is an undeniable fact that there are more divorces today than in the past. The people of the world, which turned into a consumer society day by day under the influence of wild capitalism, began to consume marriages very quickly.

In today's world where marriages are few and on the contrary divorces are increasing, there are little secrets to keeping a marriage along with the importance of making an effort.

Discovering the secret to a happy marriage is not an easy thing. In fact, the answer to what this secret is may differ from person to person. Still, in different geographies and different cultures of the world, there may be some happiness secrets that can fit all types of relationships.

Now, let's take a look at these little secrets together.

1 – Never get angry with both of you at the same time. Even if you both get angry at the same time, one of you should show maturity and let the other talk. When one of you is fire, the other must be water.

2 – Do not shout at each other unless there is a fire in the house.

3 – If you have to choose between yourself and your spouse about buying clothes, perfume, etc., choose to buy for your spouse.

4 – While criticizing your spouse, criticize him by making him feel that you love him, do not take a hostile attitude.

5 – Do not bring up past mistakes during a discussion, focus on the moment.

6 – Do not end your day without saying a nice word to your spouse.

7 – In your first encounter when you return home from work, be sure to hug each other with love and affection.

8 – Do not go to sleep without solving the problems between you.

9 – When you realize that you have made a mistake towards your spouse, do not neglect to apologize by talking to your spouse.

10 – Don't forget to buy your spouse a small or big gift, even once a month.

11 – Do not take the stress of the day out of your spouse by bringing home the problems you experience at work.

In fact, these are not the things that are difficult to implement. They can't even be called secrets. These are communication methods that any intelligent person can apply with a little care. If you focus on making your life beautiful rather than ruining it, you may not even have to make an extra effort to make the other person happy.

Marriage is like a boomerang. If you throw a boomerang at your partner, it will come back in the same way. If you make your spouse happy, he will also make you happy. Of course, try not to exaggerate so that he doesn't get spoiled...

Stay with love…