They are really different from reality.....

ASSUMPTION, PRESUMPTION AND REALITY

There is a problem with thinking which so many people do not know, and this problem is PRESUMPTION OR ASSUMPTION. You think everything is wrong with you because you assume everything is well with the other person. Assumptions and presumptions are two synonyms which influences our behaviors, response, reactions toward things, people, situations, and ourselves.

Many relationships have crashed because of the Assumptions and Presumptions of one partner or the other. Presumptions aren't real neither is assumption, however, these two words have done so many wrongs in our daily association and activities with people and our surroundings. Assumption isn't the same as being realistic, presumption isn't the same as reality.

Most times, we tend to be presumptuous before we realize the damages we have done to ourselves and others. It's very okay to think about causes of the changes in a person's behavior, it's okay to think that something really caused the change in a person's behavior but the place where it is utterly wrong is when you presume that your thoughts are true. People go through a lot of things, some people like to dissociate themselves whenever they are going through difficult times, some people stopped talking to you for a reason, some people had to change their behaviors for a reason, some people cannot just continue to be who you always thought they were, yet, without being rational, we just presume it's something we think of that has caused the change in their behavior.

One thing I have always loved to talk about is a change of mindset. The mindset should be that whenever things are being erratic, it's okay to think of possible precipitations of the erratum but we should not always be presumptuous in concluding our thoughts. It's better to hear from the person than to believe in what we think.

DREAMS AND REALITY

We all have envisioned how we would like to live our lives. We have planned how everything is going to work for us and how successful we will be someday. We dream of greatness every moment. We feel this unending and irresistible passion to keep moving forward.

There are two worlds on earth: The dream world, and the world of reality.

In the dream world, it's easy to become anything. You can easily see yourself anywhere - at the Nigeria house of assembly, in a comfortable palace with so many slaves at your service, in an outside country enjoying a vacation with your family, owning a big company with a lot of employees. You could be anything in the dream world.

What keeps you going is because of your dream. It's your dream that keeps you on track and make you persistent. It's just a dream. Sometimes, we wish we could just live in our dreams.

It's time to wake up!! - Reality screams.

In your world of pleasure and ease where you could be anything in seconds, you suddenly feel a wicked tap on your back and you immediately wake up to see REALITY smiling cynically at you.

"Wake up!!" it shouts again.

You try to focus on your dreams but you are unable to go back to sleep. Reality has disrupted your peaceful sleep. You cannot focus on your dreams again. You wake up with burdened shoulders everyday.

"What kind of life is this" - you ask yourself each day.

This is absolutely not what you saw yourself doing in your dream. Sometimes, memories of what you would be in your dreams flashes across the hardship reality has offered, and you cry bitterly at how unfair reality is treating you. The future is blur like rain falling on the windscreen of car without a wiper, the road cannot be clearly seen. Reality has broken you beyond repair. Your dreams continue to fade everyday and you wander in a lost world where you would be anything but fulfilled.

Most people in this country are lost in this world of reality. Welcome to life, welcome to reality. It's not always easy and it promises to keep you always busy.

In this world of reality, there are certain elements which are needed to survive and can lead you back to the dream world, where you could be anything you want to be.

GOD

HOPE/FAITH

PERSISTENCE

OPTIMISM.

HARDWORK/SMARTNESS.

YOURSELF.

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