Steps to a successful New year Part 2.

2) FORGIVE YOURSELF

I know this may sound absurd but it is true. Learning to forgive yourself is golden. It gives you a clear head to start over, learn from your mistakes, map out a neat plan on how to forge ahead. Learning to forgive yourself makes you free from limitations. How do you forgive yourself?

It's very simple. Learning to accept yourself as imperfect, and seeing everything as an experience. That is simply life; an experience. Learning to accept blame and be responsible for your every actions, learning to accept new beliefs. Learning to move forward rather than lagging on your faults.

Forgiving oneself has an ability to make you free from your conscience. There are some things I did this year and they made me mentally sick for days until I came to realize that I needed to forgive myself. So many of us must have mapped out how we wanted to live this year, the amount of progress we would have made by the end of the year. And now, the year has ended with very little achievements to show for, it would definitely make us depressed. We see other people achieving same thing we also wanted but we couldn't, and then, we feel like we have failed woefully.

Learn to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for the promises you couldn't keep, the goals you couldn't meet, the progress you couldn't make. There's is always time for everything, it may not be under a favourable condition, but as long as there is life, there is hope. Forgiving yourself should come first.

Bring all your lamentations to before you, think of how bad you behaved, remind yourself of the nasty behaviours that hindered your progress, then forgive yourself and repent. Your repentance here is personal, do not recidivate, move forward completely. Let your new year begin with a new heart.

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