I've always had difficulty understanding how chyking a girl works until I attended one buisness class sometime last year and I discovered it's just like advertising.
Guys are always in a struggle to get a lady, every guys wants that perfect girl with nice curves, slim flat tummy, well to be boobs, nice ass, curvy and most of all has sense. But the truth is that not everyone can have what they see... And just like buying and selling, you can only buy what you can afford and also what you can maintain... This tips Should help guys understand why girls say NO to them at all turn.. seat down, get a pop corn and enjoy this tale
1) know your budget
Guy you can't just walk into a store with 1k and expecting to buy a commodity of 100k na.. mpa check am.. e make sense?? Yes, love isn't about the money but still, dey your lane.. don't go insulting a girl who wants a guy who drives Benz, has a house and gives her daily allowance... If she pass your power leave her alone.. if she's not worth it no one will buy.. I know a suit that has been sitting in boutique for over 10years now, it cost 75k but be looking like enugu Michael Jackson suit.. find a girl that thinks inline with your budget and is willing to grow with you, if not you'll definitely get a NO.
2) are you her type?
Brother you are looking for a girl with figure 8, hour Glass figure, big ass and bobilicious but look at you, just take a good look at yourself.. you have pot belle, unkept beards, sagging neck and you smell like fuck up... Yes I know she is your type but are you her type?? You can't use Tecno phone to do kankara for iPhone na... Tush up!! If you really want her then you should build up, hit the gym, bath regularly, use nice perfumes, get a nice hair cut if not ehh... The NO you'll receive would be disastrous...
3) do you have sense? And share the same belief system
How do want to buy iPhone inside supermarket?? Are you normal?? You saw written boldly on her bio "feminist' or "bad bitch Bella" and you came with your "I want a girl that would knee down and serve me dinner or I want a lady that will be home and take care of my kids or I want a lady who does not wear trousers?" Brother is your normal?? Looks t yourself.. just look at yourself.. are you not mad like this?? If you want a girl that'll knee down and greet you every morning please avoid feminist, go to the village and marry... Don't come here and be stressing someone's children. She does not want to serve you.. is it by force? So why are you insulting her and calling her a bitter woman?? She knows what works for her.. if it does not work for you leave her alone and find what you want.. don't be unfortunate or you'll get a big NO!!
4) what's your G.p?
Guy, believe me this world is cruel and they don't give a fuck about you.. forget what you see in movies that a princess will marry a peasant and live happily ever after. You can't see a lady driving in her Benz, rushed up, with over 4 Masters and 3 phds and you stop her in the road with your 2 credit in hausa and woodwork and F9 in English and says "ello baby, can I be your superman?" Superman kill you there... Truth is bro, she won't listen to you not because you ain't a human being but your level of exposure and education is not the same with hers... Don't call her ashawo, please don't call her prostitute.. she worked hard for where she is now and don't need no body giving her headache... Is not bad to want her, but baba you either up your game or find your mate...if not.. you'll get a very big NO.
5) red flags
If see those cautions that says don't buy if seal is broken abi?? Guys believe it or not girls have preferences but physical and emotional. Red flags are turn offs, they are no nos.. you take a girl out on a date and you guys kick it off real smooth, she tells you you are her ideal man and you guys are off on your first date and she sees you picking your nose and makes a run for her life... Nigga don't blame her, don't say she came to eat food and run.. no... She just Hayes guys who pick them nose in public!! Or you having your first love making and boom, you cum after 39secs?? Nigga and she runs for her life and you say she is way ward?? Baba will you buy a phone that the battery last for I my 1hour?? Give her a damn break!! Or she decides to manage you and you begin to snore like a he goat!! Yeah I know.. you can't help it but guy she does not like guys who snore... Leave her alone!! Don't come on social media and call her name's because you've got some red flags she can't handle.. I know of a nigga who this girl left because he does not smoke or drink... It's her choice, she needs a dude who smokes and drinks let her be.. don't call her name... Don't insult her.. just go for someone who lies you the way you are... Oh you about to get a big NO.
6) your past!
Some say the past ain't important but bro, will you buy a cucumber for consumption, the same cucumber you saw nkechi using to do soapy?? I doubt... Some say the past ain't important but for some people they are... You guys were the perfect couple until you told her your body count is more than 100.. nigga you say 100?? Dude I'm gone.. don't be mad.. seh just don't wanna be 101.. or sadly you were abused as a child and she can't handle the consequences that comes with such trauma, don't be mad... Maybe she was abused too as a child and she don't want to be stuck with someone going through the hell she is going through... Chill and move on... Or you said you lost your mom at a young age and she AWOLs on you, don't be mad.. maybe she lost her mom too and she is desperately looking for a mother figure in her life again... See your past is your past... You can't hide from it.. don't force anyone to accept it... Don't insult her because she doesn't want to associate with you because of what you did... Nigga chill or you gon get a big NO.
7) just as God rested on the seventh day, the seventh point is law... Nigga have money and I assure you, you have the chance of getting any girl you want!!
Get the heap, money Mula, focus.... There is no independence in dependence. We adapt with time, polishing the Jewels.
Good article Bless up!