These Two Options will Decide Your Fate

Cheer up! A new day is ahead of you.

It's a well-known fact that time never remains the same.

Sometimes you are happier than ever before. And, it's like everyone is there for you no matter what. You feel like the whole world stands by you.

While other times, you feel lonely. ( even being )surrounded by a whole group of people, yet you feel lonely; It's like the entire world has turned against you. As if no one cares about you, your feeling or your emotions. Sometimes it makes you feel like you have lost your purpose; and that you are nothing more than a liability to this world. And that depresses you.

I know It can be heartbreaking but trust me, you are not alone; we all have been through this feeling of liability and stuff. Even those(people) in the group, The group that gives you the feeling of loneliness, have been through this. The only difference is that some face it earlier while others later. 

So, What should I do? How can I prevent this from happening?

Well, firstly, you only need to keep one thing in mind; The thing that it was never about preventing in the first place; you can't just stop yourself from being happy or sad. Situations do occur, and they always leave an impact on you. 

It was always about "how YOU respond to these highs and lows"; 

1. Do you forget everything else when you are happy. And, similarly, lose hope whenever you encounter some depressing situation ahead of you? 

Or,

2. Do you stand up with the hope in you that a new and better time(day) will come(Whenever the situation goes wrong). And prepare yourself for the worst whenever you are happy?

Whichever of the above option you choose; 

Decide your fate, your future. 

If we conclude the above discussion in a single sentence, it would be

" Be prepared for anything". 

Because you never know what awaits you in the future.

Saying " Be prepared for anything" reminds me of an old story I heard( or maybe read) a while ago;

The story is about a king;

 Who once asked his advisor to write such an influential sentence on his ring( or, in some versions, on a huge paper and hang it on the wall) that

whenever he( the king) is happy and looks at it, it will make him sad; similarly, whenever he is sad and looks at it, it( the same sentence) will make him happy.

The advisor(who was very intelligent), at first, got stunned by the king's strange demand. But, later on, he requested some time to think about it. The king was okay with it and granted him three days; but also threatened him that he(the king) will imprison him if he(the advisor) didn't came up with something worthy; The advisor agreed and left.

After three days, the "advisor", as he had promised, came to king with a ring and handed it over to the king. The king, while looking at it, got happy and praised the advisor for his intelligence, plus awarded him with lots of gifts.

 And, from then, he never took that "ring" off of his hand.

By now, you must be thinking, what was on that ring. Right?

Well, it was no magic spell. It was just common sense. 

It was;

"This time will pass by as well".

Well, of course, it wasn't in English. Plus, I couldn't find the right words for it,

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Well, I did but they were like

"This time will also pass away" or " This time will pass anyway" so I just skipped them.

]

 but

 I tried to clearly convey my message to you by using Bold for the words I needed special attention on; I hope you will get it.

So, friends, here another article comes to an end. I already mentioned that I tried my best to convey the "Right" message. But, if you think that I missed something, don't hesitate to point it out and feel free to use the comment box. I would be more than happy to take all of your suggestions.

I hope this article will help you in some way.

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