Setback

Your lowest moment is mostly your moment of realization. That point where you are almost totally fed up of the situation and circumstances surrounding. Where every passing moment seems like a nightmare

The moment all of your efforts seems to be futile,where the world seems to be against you. You are fighting the battle alone and it seems like you’re loosing the fight. The odds are against you and every choice you make seems like the wrong one. Every decision you make feels wrong. You’re fighting this battle alone and at your lowest moments,the ones you hold so dearly aren’t there for you.

You are caught in a time loop,not knowing what step to take,what move to make,what way to go. Help doesn’t seem forthcoming. Your closest friends become the most distant once. Family isn’t helping in anyway and it’s you against the world.

You tend to find opportunities but they slip right through your fingers. Your whole problem comes rushing through the door. You let yourself and the people a round you down. You can't phantom a way out of it. You wallow in pain,wondering for how long it would last,how long you can keep up with the lack,neglect, loneliness and all.

Then you come to realize that you are alone in this race. It's one of those time you understand that every man run his race. You are not in a competition with anyone but yourself. You’ve got to figure out a way out of your struggle yourself. The sky is wide enough for all birds to fly.

You either work it out or continue with your struggle. Crazy part about it is that you get to know your true friends. You figure out a lot of people laughing and smiling with you with laugh at you when your set down comes. They will turn their back on your plea,turn deaf ears to your struggles.

Nonetheless,there is light at the end of every tunnel. There is joy at the end of every struggle. There is peace at the end of every war because understanding that there will always be setbacks gives you the understanding that there will likewise be breakthroughs. You just have to push through the difficult times. Manoeuvre your way out of that struggle,push through that obstacle, breakthrough that barrier.

You figure out at the end of this setback,a lot of lessons has been learnt. You've learnt to appreciate yourself. You've realize how complex life could be. How letting yourself comfortable in your distress can affect your entire life, how the world could turn it's back against you totally the moment you succumb to your setback.

We live to learn,and we learn so we don't make costly mistakes. Learn to contain your setback. Gain control of the situation no matter the circumstance.