Why churchy ladies remain single (part 2)

Hello everyone it's another beautiful day,I already wrote about why churchy ladies are still single part one,so am going to continue with part 2 today.i will continue from number four. So stay tuned

1. LACKING DRESS SENSE- Many atimes oversprituality can lead to loosing guard on dressing,it is very good to engage in spiritual things but when it is now taking away your feminism,it is not good. No man wants to marry an old woman,you know right some dress like grandmas,even pastors wants to marry someone attractive, haven't you seen their wives? They always look ravishing. Some ladies always look old, wearing big clothes all around in the name of been a good girl, always tieing scarfs,their hair looking unkept,their looks ,clothes and all,they won't even smell nice, some have been decieved with "A GOOD CHARACTER IS ALL THEY NEED TO HAVE" Yes character is good "but how will I know if you have a good character when am not even drawn to you by your appearance"? When I see a container in the market before even checking the content the outside (design) will tell me if I will to get it or not. Many good girls don't have dress sense,if only they know that men are drawn by what they see ,even the spiritual men. So dressing well has nothing to do with spirituality at all as long as it's not exposing you, smelling nice can attract that man, WORK ON YOURSELF.

2. BEEN DISRESPECTFUL- A whole lot of ladies disrespect their man,naturally men wants to be respected, so if you want that man,show him some respect,now let's get this right, kneeling in some Africa culture is not respect,you can kneel down for your husband and still abuse him,so respect has to do with your choice of words,the way you treat him at home,in the office,among his friends, colleagues or family. The way a lady talks and respect matters alot to men. No man wants to be disrespected.

3. HAVING POOR SOCIAL LIFE- Sister what happened? Why are you always in door? Will you be punished if you go out and meet people? No . They don't relate with people well enough,they do not go out,They do not socialize,you won't meet that guy in your room,of course not!! , You really need to go out so that good guys can see you,good guys are not only in church but events too,start attending some of it.

4. TOO MUCH OF HIGH STANDARD- I said too much of it,not high standard itself,they have the list of specific things they want in a man, "he must be tall, handsome, rich, loving, faithful, honest, loyal, God fearing, responsible and so on. Setting standards are good but overly doing it is bad, we should know that no man is perfect, he can't exhibit all of what you want but at least 80% of what you want , they might not even show it from the start, that is why you need to be very patient so you won't that perfect man for you, remember guys too wants a good woman and not just some woman who hasn't worked on herself, pick the very important things you want in your man and work on the rest.

Thank you very much for reading part 1 and part 2. I hope you find this truly helpful.

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