Three things my partner must possess

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Have seen a lot of people get this things wrong in their relationship,there should be standards for relationship ,goals,do's and don'ts . I have just three things that must not be found wanting in a relationship, because if they are found wanting the relationship might collapse.

1. Ability to say sorry

2. Must not be stingy

3. Must be hardworking.

1. Ability to say sorry:

This is sometimes difficult for some people to say,when they are wrong or when they are not wrong, some even find it insulting to say sorry to their man or woman, there was a lady who told me back then that her boyfriend does not know how to say sorry even when he is wrong,I asked her,then what do you do? She said I try to bring up a conversation or be the one to beg him, really now? That's nonsense,that should not be found in a relationship, some will even say I can't say sorry to her,she should learn to adapt!! Brother adapt to what sir? Not been able to say sorry? I surely can't because it hurts,it really hurt to know you are the one at fault and you are proving stubborn or been bossy about it. Relationship is not a do or die affair,when you love someone saying"sorry" will be the least thing to say, like it will be so easy for you to say simple sorry and you won't be egoistic about it,there should be nothing like ego in a relationship,you should come to each other's level and love truely,when love is leading then there won't be a difficulty in saying sorry either from the man or from the woman. Learn to say sorry,it heals quickly.

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2. Must not be stingy:

Must not be stingy,am sounding this as a warning,how many ears do you have 😂😂, sincerely speaking he must be a giver,even if he doesn't have you will know a giver from afar,a stingy man or woman always won't have,even if they have what you are asking for they will still say they don't,a giver even if it's just 20$ will split it into two for that particular thing you want to do,a stingy person will always collect from you but they won't support you when it's time to support you or your career. Building your family on stinginess will only cause havoc!! I mean disaster!! This is because if it's the husband that is a "giver"(when I mean giver am not saying rich,there is a difference between a giver and a rich person,a person can be rich and still stingy but a giver will always give no matter the circumstance) he will be the only one fending for the family while the wife only buys things for herself alone. And if it's the wife too that's a giver,she will be the one taking care of the family and spending all her last card on the family while the husband keeps his money, a stingy man/woman are not good.

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3. Must be hardworking:

I say hardworking oooo,not lazy,even if he is not rich today,him been hardworking means you won't go hungry, make sure he has a plan,and he's doing everything to work towards it. If a woman is hardworking be rest assured that your children are in safe hands😂,safe hands oo because there are some women that are very lazy,to wake up early in the morning and birth for their children and cook for them is a problem,you will see them tieing wrapper up and down and be gossiping from one house to another,it's always a problem for the husband especially if the husband is a neat, hardworking and reserved man. Marry someone who is hardworking, marry your type not someone you will regret marrying.

Check for all this things in courtship before getting fixed.