Be who you are meant to be
I could remember back then during childhood days,we all want to become a doctor,nurse,lawyer or engineer, infact that is what our parent wants for us,they don't want any other occupation for us. My dad has always wanted me and sister to be a doctor and my two brothers to be a naval officer or an army. Parents have fault sometimes in this, because of what they feel is the best ,they want their kids to become what they want for them and not what the kids want and so because of that,some already left the way to their to fulfil their dreams and focus on someone else dream, so because they don't have passion for that they end up losing focus and end up not doing well.
Because of what the society has classified as the best job or professions,alot has left what they were suppose to be,what they have passion for, what they find joy in doing and has gone after what they really don't want. Some parent don't know that there are jobs or professions that are more lucrative and highly paying than engineer,doctors or nurses.
My mum is a nurse so because of that I have always wanted to be a doctor and not a nurse,I always say and my mom too will say been a doctor makes you the boss so I should strive to be a doctor. But plan changed as I left secondary school,I wrote my waec,then jamb hoping to gain admission in the medical department but I was wrong,I was hoping for medical admission for four years until I decided to break loose from that time waster.....it wasn't easy I tell you,I would read and read and read but medicine or nursing wasn't coming forth,so I changed my plan.
The sixth year I changed to another course entirely and I gained admission,i had always love cooking so anything that has to do with food I love it. I gained admission and I was so happy, Sincerely only God knows what we will become in future,we really don't know. I have a lot of friends back then who had said the same thing, whenever they were asked back then they would say medical doctor 😂but today alot of them has even graduated and they are not even using the certificate to eat,all they do is fashion designer, hairdresser,caterers and so on....if that is your way it will surely happen but if it's not it won't happen,did I mention that my brother is now a naval officer,my dad made sure he went to the school and with the help of God he graduated.
I want us to believe in God, only him can make our wishes come true,he knows what is best for us,trust him through the process,if someone had told me I would stay at home for a long time before gaining admission then,I would have argued and rejected it but here I am. And now I love what am doing,I love what am becoming what I will become,trust him because he is the ultimate.
Thanks to all my upvoters,my readers
My friends,my sponsors.
I really appreciate you all
you are wonderful people
Smiles. Sometimes when we plan ourselves, especially when it comes to schooling, its either the government change the plan or you change it