How grateful are you?
Some people are very very ungrateful and this is very bad for the universe as a whole.
They'll ask for something and you'll give them, they won't even bother to say thank you, but when they ask for another thing and maybe you didn't have to give them, they'll start calling you stingy.
Unfortunately, I have plenty ungrateful persons around me and it pisses me off. You didn't give me money to keep for you before so anything I give you you take and be grateful. That way next time even if I don't have I'll go out of my way to give you.
Another thing is lending others money, I didn't remind you when you wanted to take it and use it to do something but when it's time to pay I'll remind you till God knows when.
Sorry to say this but I don't like giving my money out to people who says they'll pay back, it's better I give you and forget about it instead of reminding you about it. Then again you that I'm reminding to pay will now be giving me stories and saying something like dash me or can't you just forget about the money. Did you say that when I wanted to give you the money.
The one that actually touched me was when someone I thought was my friend told me to lend him some money during this quarantine period but in the end he started giving me stories and told me to forget about the money. We all know you have a butt load of BTC what's in $10 that you can't pay back.
Bad attitudes of people will be forcing generous people to be stingy. In the end i developed an attitude of not lending my money out, I give only family members and my two close friends who would pay if they like and if they don't I won't even mind.
On Monday is one of my very good friends birthday and I don't even have money to do anything for him βΉοΈ. Assuming I didn't lend those guys money I would have had enough money to buy at least a shirt. Either ways God will help me.
Anyways instead if being depressed and staying in one position I decided to keep on working till I reach my goal, I must make it in life and nothing and nobody can stop me, not even village people. In the end I can suffer some losses but at least i learnt from it, I gained experience and whenever or anytime I'm in that position again I'll be able it handle it better.
In the end they are only spoiling their name because whenever they ask for something no one will want to give it to them.
Note to all:- it's better to have one or two sure friends than to have worthless people hovering around you.
Β©Jezzai
Yeah you are right