Unless you are a muitibillionaire, Pessimism is a luxury you cannot afford, You own it to yourself to find something positive, even in every distressful situation. Negative thoughts waste your time and drain your energy, if you find yourself consume with pessimism ,ask yourself some serious questions like, how much of your life are you willing to giveaway in return for nothing? How much potentials, good fortune are you willing to forgo, just to endue your negativity. You don't have to be negative in other to be realistic, you can see what is truly there and also always envision the positive ways forward. It often requires much effort to uncover and to follow the positive possibilities, yet the result you achieve are worth all that effort, invest your thought, your focus, your action to the benefit of all you love and care about .Find the positivity no matter what and bring it to full realization. There is no harm in been optimistic, it doesn't drains nor denies your hope. Always remember that your expectation is the mother of your manifestation. Life is all about energy, what you radiate is what you will definitely attract , you cant call for good and then get evil.
Like it or not, people will hurt you , unplanned things or event that hurt will occur but learn to forgive as soon as possible and be more optimistic. Always remember forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Yes, pain is real, some pains are unimaginable but as we human being Pains are inevitable, but suffering from them is optional. Forgiveness is acknowledging of been hurt deeply and still letting go totally, completely, and genuinely. Forgiveness is to set a prisoner free, only to discover that the prisoner you set free was you. Forgive, not because that person deserves it but just because you deserve peace. Unforgiving act boost pessimism , put the act of been pessimism down and start to see the positivity of life. Don't glorify a painful past by investing your present into it, it doesn't worth the stress at all. Hatred is putting too much of an investment in someone that offended you, who is not even meant to deserve such huge attention or emotions from you, Forgive them to show that their actions and they themselves don't matter at all. Forgiveness gives ones clear and pure conscience that allow someone to be optimistic . Unforgiving act deprives you of good health. Now, there comes a common saying " I can forgive but Neva!! Forget " . what is forgiveness in the first place if you are still remembering, you are remembering because you keep thinking about it , which actually takes more effort and energy. Occupy your mind and thoughts with positivity to the extent of you not remembering what even or who offended you. To forgive is as easy as difficult, it is your choice in the end. Put the act of been pessimistic down and start to see and embrace the positivity of life.
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