Mind wash
How do you wash your mind? Yeah, everyone of us need mind wash regularly, just like we wash our faces, our body, hairs,and getting rid of all the dirt in it, we also need to do the same for our mind and soul as well.
Life won't always go the way you want it, but then, that shouldn't make you deter or discourage. Instead, it should make you have the ability to accept and roll with whatever life brings and making sure that, you are on the side where you are empower and not disempower by your thought and actions. Because the easy things of life will only stunt your growth, but the hard things of life is what that will actually help you spread your wings and soar like the eagle. It will also make you strong , firm, and be able to use up and bring out what is on the inside.
You need to be resilience and make up your mind that it is not over until you say so. It is your mentality that define your destiny. Whatever you cannot imagine, you cannot make happen. You can't fly higher than the mentality you possess. Invest in building up the right mentality in you. Remember if you lose your car , you can always get or buy another one, if you lose your properties, you can get them back but if you lose your mind , you lose everything in life. Control your mind , so your mind don't control you. And also sharpens your mind regulations skills which will definitely make your mentality stronger.
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Don't test God
We are all on the hustling part, but we have to use the strength we have to motivate the next man to rise , we are born to win, don't allow failure stops you. Don't test God, do the right things , do your work diligently, put more effort and you will see result, don't say you will leave everything to God , that he is God and you are then doing nothing about your situation. I can assure you God will not lift a finger for you. Don't test God!!! If you are not feeling well, please do eat, put some food in your tummy and then take your drugs as recommended by the doctor. For instance, two tablet in morning, afternoon, and evening. Don't say you want to fast if you don't have money or food, then that is different. You can ask for some help from friends and family, perhaps they might help and if you dont get, you can call on to your faith. Check your vehicles before leaving home , don't test God! , don't say "its OK". Don't leave your child with just anybody and say 'God will take control". Read and study well for exams and test , don't ever test God because God is a God of division of labour, and if you do test God then be ready to fail again and again. The reason why a lot of us fails is because , we have nurse fear even before attempting to face our the challenges at our front, so the fear destabilize us. When you allow that energy comes into you, everything one even knows seem to be forgotten for some moments, so don't allow fear to overcome you . And remember that no matter what even happen, you can always try again and again.
Nowadays, people saying " God will take control has ruin so many things, God cannot take control , when you have the power to actually handle it right in the first place. God only takes control when you have done everything humanely possible, then he now comes in and takes control. It is only when you have done everything possible about the situation you can think of , then abandoning the rest to the hand of God, the you say " God take control " God can never do for man , what he has given man the faculty to do for himself.
Pessimism & Unforgivingness
Unless you are a muitibillionaire, Pessimism is a luxury you cannot afford, You own it to yourself to find something positive, even in every distressful situation. Negative thoughts waste your time and drain your energy, if you find yourself consume with pessimism ,ask yourself some serious questions like, how much of your life are you willing to giveaway in return for nothing? How much potentials, good fortune are you willing to forgo, just to endue your negativity. You don't have to be negative in other to be realistic, you can see what is truly there and also always envision the positive ways forward. It often requires much effort to uncover and to follow the positive possibilities, yet the result you achieve are worth all that effort, invest your thought, your focus, your action to the benefit of all you love and care about .Find the positivity no matter what and bring it to full realization. There is no harm in been optimistic, it doesn't drains nor denies your hope. Always remember that your expectation is the mother of your manifestation. Life is all about energy, what you radiate is what you will definitely attract , you cant call for good and then get evil.
Like it or not, people will hurt you , unplanned things or event that hurt will occur but learn to forgive as soon as possible and be more optimistic. Always remember forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Yes, pain is real, some pains are unimaginable but as we human being Pains are inevitable, but suffering from them is optional. Forgiveness is acknowledging of been hurt deeply and still letting go totally, completely, and genuinely. Forgiveness is to set a prisoner free, only to discover that the prisoner you set free was you. Forgive, not because that person deserves it but just because you deserve peace. Unforgiving act boost pessimism , put the act of been pessimism down and start to see the positivity of life. Don't glorify a painful past by investing your present into it, it doesn't worth the stress at all. Hatred is putting too much of an investment in someone that offended you, who is not even meant to deserve such huge attention or emotions from you, Forgive them to show that their actions and they themselves don't matter at all. Forgiveness gives ones clear and pure conscience that allow someone to be optimistic . Unforgiving act deprives you of good health. Now, there comes a common saying " I can forgive but Neva!! Forget " . what is forgiveness in the first place if you are still remembering, you are remembering because you keep thinking about it , which actually takes more effort and energy. Occupy your mind and thoughts with positivity to the extent of you not remembering what even or who offended you. To forgive is as easy as difficult, it is your choice in the end. Put the act of been pessimistic down and start to see and embrace the positivity of life.
Getting ahead of yourself.
Our business in life is not to get ahead of others but to get ahead of ourselves, to break our own records , to outstrip our yesterday by today, to do our work with more force than ever before. Now if you like to know who is responsible for your troubles, am sure you will like to know right ? Look at the mirror , the person in the mirror is the person responsible for your own troubles. You are the one staying on your own ways all this years, you have been the one restricting and stopping yourself, it had never been no one. Most of the stumbling blocks people complain about are under their own heart . There is little that can withstand a man who can conquer himself, " he that have have no rule over his spirit, is like a city that is broken down without walls. Your future depends on many things but mostly on you and you may succeed if everybody else believe in you , but you will never succeed if you don't believe in yourself, NEVER !!!! It won't happen. What you picture in your mind, your mind will go to work to accomplish it, When you change your picture you automatically change your performance.
Whatever you attach consistently to the words " I am " , you will become, it is impossible for man to be cheated by anyone but himself , so gain control of your mind or it will gain control of you . your imagination dictates your openness to positive direction. Our best friend and worst enemy are the thought we have about ourselves. Stop looking only at where you are and start looking at what you can be. Be careful of your thought , they may becomes words any moment and actions very soon. Wrong thinking always almost lead to misery , no one can defeat you unless you first defeat yourself . Self image set the boundaries and limits of each of an individual accomplishment, we are sure to be losers when we quarrel with ourselves, it is a civil war if you doubt yourself .
Don't commit treason against your life on purpose, your world first exist within you . every man carry's with him the world in which he must live . you are the handicap you must face , you are the one who must chose your place . remember you are your own doctor , when it comes to curing cold feet , hot head and stuffy attitude , no one can help you with all of that except you. Are you also aware that achievement is not far away , are you aware that you can act right now to make it even closer. Your destination is within reach , you can take another sites towards it any time you choose. This moment is an opportunity to make progress , though your action may not be perfect , you can move forward with them, you can give your best effort right now and then persist in that effort , you can get one part of the work done and then move forward with another part . Success is an endeavour , and an endeavour is not a mystery , it is a matter of making good use of the time available to you .The first step towards turning things around, is to declutter your mind. What is the state of your mind right now? If there is no illumination, you are groping in the dark and you are most likely to be the blind leading the blind. Put on the light upstairs and make use of today to draw yourself closer to your achievements.
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