As I sat in a viewing center on watching a football match alongside many other men from my neighborhood, A man besides me aired his opinion of one of the players on air being better than another player from the opposing team to nobody in particular, Another man who didn't quite agree with the opinion countered him and an argument ensued. As both men tried to force their opinion into the minds of each other, My mind drifted away from their argument, and I began to ponder on what would be the best way to win an argument. A man's mind is engineered to see the best of himself and not his flaws, In an argument while you try to instil your idea on someone, you also tend to point out their flaws, A persons mind in such circumstance tends to reset to defence mode. This tends to make such person numb to seeing the sense in your idea whether right or wrong, This makes you waste precious time and energy on basically a lost cause. If you ever want to win an argument the best way is to not argue, yes you read it well Don't argue, Trying argue will still turn out futile. Instead you can keep quiet, try to assess the person's ideology, put yourself in their shoe and listen to them carefully till they run short of breath. That my friend is how to win any argument, Don't play a fool trying to defend your ideas, be wise in your silence.
Less talk less mistake, as what they say. hehe... I agree on you in this article.