Hey friends, hope you all are holding up well. I am here to talk about a very common but big problem in present times when there are various ways of sharing your thoughts with other person for example :- social media apps(in the form of audio, video or texts), calls, pictures etcetera. A single message can make you ponder about it whole day till you receive another and thus you need to be emotionally intelligent to tackle such situations. You need to be a good judge of company around you so as to protect your own intellect and make wise decisions. Whenever you are in company of someone, it may have a positive effect or negative but its very important for you to know what it is gonna be.
You can't waste all your time on a person who is least bothered about you and is present there just to satisfy his own needs and motives. You should know when to cut out from a situation in case you're being pulled in unwillingly else you will have to devote your time to that unnecessarily. You should act cleverly and decisively when someone tries to get closer to you. It's better if you allow a person in your comfort zone after careful observations. In some cases, you may not be able to decide it till a considerable amount of time goes by but you should take care of not getting involved too much in the guy's life during that period.
Some people are there who really try to get involved with someone and in their personal life giving suggestions for free. But you should know, free is mostly not good. You should only listen to those who speak wisely and are closer to you. A million sentences from a person who doesn't matter are far better than a wise advice from someone close to you and who will always think good for you and will be there for you.
Making all decisions on your own may strike back hard at times but at that time you should have someone to fall back to, who amazes you with their nature, who you really admire, those who won't condemn your decision at once, those who will be warm enough to repel bad vibes filling you with all the positivity in the universe, those who won't judge you and tell you gently :- "what you decision really lacked according to them?". Also, you see these can be only those people who really listen to you and you listen to them. Such people are earned with your nature in first place and true efforts on both sides for number of years unconditionally. And its always better to rely on them instead on relying on someone you hardly know.
What qualifies as emotional intelligence?
Trusting only what you see and then deciding :- what you are gonna do about it? Or maybe getting the message from a very trustworthy source(we always have at least one).
Sharing your thoughts and secrets with the one you are literally close to and qualifies as trustworthy for you.
Being a man of words as it avoids millions of misunderstandings and community can't raise finger against you as they know you as a "Man of Words".
Not being a gossipmonger as you are more vulnerable to hatred once you engage in it.
Being positive to only those tasks who you think you should do for others as per your intellectual grinding and your bond with that guy and not just saying yes always as some tasks are really not meant for you.
Determined towards your goals so that you don't have to unnecessarily think about this and that.
Delivering a wise speech always and utter what's really important. Being a chatterbox throwing advices reduces your credibility.
Knowing what's good for you and what isn't gonna help really.
I really hope you guys choose what's best for you and make the most out of your life. May you always remain high on wave of success with healthy and happy people around you who are always there for you.
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