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How to Forgive
When you forgive it is for yourself, for your own good, and for your own peace NOT for them. Is it true that forgiving is one of the hardest thing to do in life? Yes? No? What is clear to us is no one said that forgiving is a easy peasy thingy. Imagine if someone made a rumor that affect your daily living and then that someone will let's say ask for forgiveness because they know that you're a good person and they dictates that you will forgive them for their mistake because you are a good person which you may think that it is unfair for you. They did a rumor, it affects you and then suddenly they will ask for forgiveness? Why? But you know what? I think it is okay to forgive because it gives you peace. Do not focus on the person, focus on the mistake that they did. You're upset because of the mistake that they did not to the person that did it. Because doing that (hating the person who did the mistake) is like robbing them the chance to change their selves and become a better person. Try to put your self into their shoe and think for the motive why they do this, why they do that for you to understand them. But remember if you are not close or the bond of your friendship is not that strong enough CUT THEM OFF in your life. Cut them off don't give them the pass to do it again because there is a chance that it will get worst.
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It always depending how deep the damage has been done in your part. It will always take time to heal a wound even a scratch will need time.
I agree in this part it is not easy to make things better again after what they did to you. Even if that's a scratch it can cause a trauma and not to trust again that easily.
Yoi still remember it no matter what. You can't forget unless you will have amnesia. Hahahaha. But don't hold grudges for long it also affects you and your health.
We value peace more than hate so I guess grudges has no room in our life.
Yeah I agree. Forgiving will not benefits the other person but most importantly forgiving will give you peace of mind.
depending on how deep the wound was caused. Forgiveness is not a simple matter, it is not available through a single apology. it makes me wonder if you will ever forgive him. but on the other hand forgiveness can give satisfaction to each other. when you forgive someone who has wronged you it is like a good example to follow.
It is always us who need to understand and to forgive because it is the only way to have peace, but to be honest forgiving is so hard.
yes its realy hard to forgive ..
For me, it's hard to forgive if someone makes a mistake and didn't apologize about it because they think that it's okay to say or do it to you. But, having a hatred to them is a burden in our life, in our heart and leave a scar in our memories. Its important that you know that it's actually takes time. Don't rush yourself to give forgiveness, feel it and you will feel that your voluntarily letting it go.
Forgiveness is a very hard thing to do ,but you just have to do it to take away burden from your head.
Yup it is for your own good, to give peace to yourself. Though it is not that easy but still we need to do it for ourselves.
well said bro.... Try to put your self into their shoe and think for the motive why they do this, why they do that for you to understand them. absolutely right.. subscribed you. also support me back
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Yes I totally agree with you, when you forgive you will be at peace with your mind
Forgiveness is a great virtue. Try to forgive everyone is a habit. Your Writing is so correct and you amazingly wrote it.
Forgiving simply means forgetting.If we really want to forget the pain that someone gave to us we need to forgive them.In that way we can finally have peace of mind
If I take the forgiveness as a a hardest then it is the hardest thing and if I take it easy then it is easy. You you have discussed a a very important thing. Thanks for your article. In the last, you said if you are not close or the bond of your friendship is not that is strong enough then cut them off in your life. You have said well. If the bond of my friendship is not strong then I should cut that. Forgiveness is also a thing by doing that you can lead a peaceful life. It brings happiness of your mind. Thank you so much again for your useful article.🙂 This is @Rafi2002 (Abdur Rafi). I am from Bangladesh.