Last year was a very difficult one for me, emotionally speaking. That's also because I gave up a few friendships that turned out to be far too difficult to carry. It hurt as if I had snatched a hand from my shoulder, every time. Was it necessary? I only know that if it costs you more soul to maintain a relationship than to be you, then that relationship is not what you I believe with all my being that absolutely any kind of relationship is born of common affinities, is cultivated on both sides and is meant to make us better, to bring new light on what we are and should not be the sum of frustrations and nerves. Friendships in particular. What kind of friend are you to me if you are not near me when my soul cries for help? What kind of friend am I if I hold you in my arms only when you are well and you are on top Maybe it's in our structure to hide our fears and pains. If you're my friend, you'll know me well enough to know that no matter what stone mask I display, I need you to hold me and tell me "if You'll shut up for a second, maybe I'll tell you how close I am to you. ”And if I'm on the ground and screaming in pain, I'll I hold out a hand and you will tell me "do well and get up, life is lived by winners, not by cowards who don't even look for solutions". of interest. That interest that urges you to ask, to be curious, to want to know what makes me smile and what brings me relief. And you will see how natural and simple the next steps come, how easy it will be to buy for my birthday the flowers that fill my eyes with light, how natural will be the hug in which I will tell you "I am so tired, thank you for taking the time to see me". And when, for my birthday, I will call me to tell you "let's have a beer together" you will make a list of priorities in which this event will be in the first place. Beautiful words bring momentary relief, if after them do not come facts become useless. lasts over time, are those in which two people look at each other, listen to each other and support each other. That's all. you, it's flavor, it's detail.If you don't listen, you will never be able to know who the other person's real face is, what makes him special in relation to you, if you like what you see and want to see more or it bothers you so much that you want to run away. And if what you discover is valuable enough to you, build. Put brick upon brick and make a place where your mind and soul will always find peace. You will always be by that man yourself, without fear of being weak, without false bravery. You will be, sometimes ironic, often mischievous, angry when life gives you a hard time, smiling when you have just climbed a mountain. Next to that man you will always be better, that man will make you feel weak because in front of him you will be with all the shields on the ground. And then you will know that he is your friend, that he knows you as you are, that he accepts you precisely because he sees in you and what you would not want to be seen. If that doesn't happen, go your own way. Smile at the thought of the beautiful part of that relationship and move on. It means that's how it was, you could walk up to that wall, beyond him that man will never let you go. If the values you have are not the same as those you call "friend", you will never be able to build anything. This is because friendships, more than any other kind of relationship, are built on that part of us that means morality and ethics and education, values, common principles. As the wise Romanian people would say "tell me who you are with so that I can tell you who you are".
Last year was a very difficult one for me, emotionally speaking. That's also because I gave up a few friendships that turned out to be far too difficult to carry. It hurt as if I had snatched a hand from my shoulder, every time. Was it necessary? I only know that if it costs you more soul to maintain a relationship than to be you, then that relationship is not what you I believe with all my being that absolutely any kind of relationship is born of common affinities, is cultivated on both sides and is meant to make us better, to bring new light on what we are and should not be the sum of frustrations and nerves. Friendships in particular. What kind of friend are you to me if you are not near me when my soul cries for help? What kind of friend am I if I hold you in my arms only when you are well and you are on top Maybe it's in our structure to hide our fears and pains. If you're my friend, you'll know me well enough to know that no matter what stone mask I display, I need you to hold me and tell me "if You'll shut up for a second, maybe I'll tell you how close I am to you. ”And if I'm on the ground and screaming in pain, I'll I hold out a hand and you will tell me "do well and get up, life is lived by winners, not by cowards who don't even look for solutions". of interest. That interest that urges you to ask, to be curious, to want to know what makes me smile and what brings me relief. And you will see how natural and simple the next steps come, how easy it will be to buy for my birthday the flowers that fill my eyes with light, how natural will be the hug in which I will tell you "I am so tired, thank you for taking the time to see me". And when, for my birthday, I will call me to tell you "let's have a beer together" you will make a list of priorities in which this event will be in the first place. Beautiful words bring momentary relief, if after them do not come facts become useless. lasts over time, are those in which two people look at each other, listen to each other and support each other. That's all. you, it's flavor, it's detail.If you don't listen, you will never be able to know who the other person's real face is, what makes him special in relation to you, if you like what you see and want to see more or it bothers you so much that you want to run away. And if what you discover is valuable enough to you, build. Put brick upon brick and make a place where your mind and soul will always find peace. You will always be by that man yourself, without fear of being weak, without false bravery. You will be, sometimes ironic, often mischievous, angry when life gives you a hard time, smiling when you have just climbed a mountain. Next to that man you will always be better, that man will make you feel weak because in front of him you will be with all the shields on the ground. And then you will know that he is your friend, that he knows you as you are, that he accepts you precisely because he sees in you and what you would not want to be seen. If that doesn't happen, go your own way. Smile at the thought of the beautiful part of that relationship and move on. It means that's how it was, you could walk up to that wall, beyond him that man will never let you go. If the values you have are not the same as those you call "friend", you will never be able to build anything. This is because friendships, more than any other kind of relationship, are built on that part of us that means morality and ethics and education, values, common principles. As the wise Romanian people would say "tell me who you are with so that I can tell you who you are".