What Should Come First Marriage or Sex?

So let's take a one day break from my Daet adventure and I knooooow it was long due but yeah.... Anyway I saw this debate somewhere about the question above, so what should come first sex or marriage?

If you are a typical Filipino, you prolly would say marriage. We are a Catholic country so even if it's the 21st century already, premarital sex is still being frowned upon. Sex should only be done by two people bonded by the church, as the hollies would say. And I don't and won't say that is wrong. I am in the age where I believe we should respect each other's beliefs.

Thus, I want you to respect my opinion by saying I want sex to come first. Why? That's because there are lot of things you can know after you had sex with someone. Do you know that people show only the good stuff when they are courting you? That's also why a lot of people out there have failed relationships?

I do believe that you won't really know someone until you shared a roof over your head and experienced struggles together. You cannot love someone by just their good side you should also love their bad side but how would love that side when they don't even show it to you?

Plus what if the guy or girl couldn't satisfy you in bed? Don't point your fingers at me, this ks a real life dilemma guys. There are a lot of broken marriages because one cannot be satisfied by their partners. And most of the time it leads to infidelity.

What if your partner cheated on you and you are married? Would you forgive him or her? What if he does it many times? And the worst case scenario what if he's a masochist that likes beating you?

You might say divorce is the key but if you're living in my country then ypu might know that there's no divorce here and I don't see one in the near future coz as I say before we are heavily influenced by the church.

Sex can give you a hindsight about someone's hidden personality. Kinks. And maybe perversion.

Now, I don't say ypu should have sex first especially to those youngsters out there. Of course only give it when you are ready to do it. And this is just my opinion about the question above.

So, until next time peace out!