Dear Self, Sorry for Breaking you for Others

How far can you go when you love someone? Can you sacrifice everything from you? Can you endure all the hardships to stay with him? Can you?

When we fall in love we think the different positive emotions and can boost our entire system especially if the feeling is mutual. The day you ask his/her name, the day you ask his/her number and then eventually add that person in your social media is the start of everything. And when you get what you want let say you're already in a relationship at first you will feel all the positive vibes around you. Non stop dates, text messages and calls from your special someone. But let us accept the fact that life is not always balloons and rainbows life is combined with rain and rainbow.

If a rain will come in your relationship try to use an umbrella try to fixed the problems that you encountered because if someone will quit or stop, the relationship will end eventually and all your sacrifices will be nothing.

Personally I experienced two breakups but now I already moved on, when we love someone we are prepared to be hurt and be broken. I don't regret my decisions why I entered that relationship. Though it ended all I can say is that it teach me a lesson and gave me a wonderful memories.

After break up all you need to do is to console yourself. Ask yourself to forgive you for breaking your heart. Don't make yourself miserable instead stand and make yourself better. After break up don't be afraid to fall in love again.

If you fall in love again, make sure that you will apply the things that you learned in your past relationships.

If you entered a new relationship, tell them how much you love him/her through your actions.

Don't ever try to show to the person that he/she is not enough.

Apologize when you do something and be honest always.

When they open up to you, you need to listen its a sign of your respect.

If you really love that person, support him/her, trust and laugh with them.

Make time for them and don't show to them that they are an obligations.

For love we do anything even if we are hurt at the end. That's the power of love but many people do not understand the word love, if they entered a relationship because you say that you like her/him that's not a good attitude, before you entered a relationship make sure that you love that person. Like is different from love. When you like a flower you just pluck it and put it in vase. But if you love the flower you will watered it daily. That's what love is.

When you entered a relationship and you realized that its just an infatuation or not love you need to be honest. Don’t use them for your own benefits. Don’t try to make them be who you need and change them from a different person. Don’t hurt them by trying to fool them that you love them. Be honest. And one day if you realized that its not love you need to do one thing, just one, "Let Them Go"

Don't be afraid to fall in love, but don't forget to say sorry and make amends for yourself.

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