Why do ladies reject public proposal?
It's already midweek and I can smell Valentine from far away, though I haven't celebrated valentine before with a lady, there's no hurry in life, it's not like the people celebrating it with their partner are getting tips (money) from it anyway, haha, I know I sound jealous already. Let me just go straight at the topic
First I will like to direct this question to the married women in the house, where did your partner pump up the question (will you marry me) and to the single ladies in the house, where do you want your future partner, to pump up the question? I await your answers in the comment section.
During my days, okay the words sound funny because I'm in my 20s and I haven't seen a lot of things from a different perspective, but the few that I have observed, I will write it down for the young kings in the house that are planning to tie the knot very soon and they might not know where to pump the question, glad you didn't skip my article today, haha, you are going to learn one or two things.
I came across a video on Twitter when a guy was just in the middle of the road and brought out a ring and kneel before his girlfriend as he pump the the question, the lady was telling was telling him to get up that he was embarrassing her, the guy was still kneeling while waiting for a positive response, a lot of people started to video them with their phones, the girl was wearing a cap and sunglasses, she was telling the guy to stand up and the guy refuses because he hasn't gotten any response from her, the lady opened the bottled water she was holding and poured it on him in front of everyone then left him looking disappointed, people were just looking at him and he bowed his head in shame.
I have seen a lot of videos like this when a girl rejects a guy in public and there was this one that trended last year. After graduation, the guy brought out a ring in front of everyone in the school and propose to his girlfriend because both of them was graduating the same day, the lady legitimately took the ring and throw it away in the presence of everyone that was there and she left, what she did was very rude but me looking for both perspectives, I then know that she did it for a reason and not because she doesn't love her boyfriend but because of her ego or should I say standards.
Most girls have this dream image of where their partner will pump up the question and most of them have already told their friends about it, either in a fancy hotel where there will be flowers and chocolates, balloons that are in alphabet be later “Will you marry me” or in Dubai when they are going on vacation, anything less than that will be a total turn off for them.
I'm sure that those ladies that rejects men proposals in public didn't do it because they don't want to marry them but because the standard was too low for them, they want something memorable that they can use to make a pre-wedding video while playing “**Perfect** by **Ed Sheeran**” they just want something that will trend on social media anytime they post it and if you can't give it to them, just don't propose to them in public because they might make you regret meeting them in the first place.
As a guy that is ready to propose to his girlfriend, please try and avoid public proposal it's a 50/50 risk your whole world might just end up crashing in front of your eyes at the very moment, I meant the girl though, you know you do call her your world, well she might just crash it on you if she can't let down of her standard.
Most times are good to get inquiries from her friends, especially her best friend because she might have told her the dream proposal, trust me when I say it will be a great help for to you so you won't end up being disappointed in the public, the media is also the cause of all these though. Most all these female celebrities are misleading the young queens not to settle with what a man can afford because they believe that if the man truly love them, they will be willing to go extra mile for their proposal to come through.
I saw a video of Cardi B that made me laugh out loud, I just couldn't control it, in one of her hit track title “WAP” she said “ I don't cook, I don't clean” most ladies took it on their selves to follow her lyrics, a few weeks later her husband (offset) leaked a video of her cleaning the house with her night wears, haha.
Conclusion
As in guy try to avoid public proposal even if you know that the girl is madly in love with you, precautions are better than cure.
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19/01/2022
You are too shy for me
"You are too shy for me" that's what a female friend of mine today me a few days back when were chatting, I posted a picture of a celebrity that said men should send the ladies they are chatting with money, this female friend of mine dropped her account number in my DM for me to send her money, I laugh and asked her why me, she said she's the one I'm chatting with and I should send her money, but you didn't accept my proposal when I talked to you about relationship years back, "I told her" then she said "you are too shy for me" I became speechless, but I thought ladies like shy guys or my shyness is just too much, that's what I thought.
Truly I don't know if I'm shy or just afraid to speak, though most times I tackle it, but when it comes to talking to a lady, I will become a quiet and calm guy, some might think I am just acting but that's the way I am, after hearing such words from her, I am having a second thought that it might be the reason I am still single, haha, though I try to interact with some girls, it doesn't go the way I plan it to be.
In my recent article, I talked about how I talked to my crush and collected her number, the truth is that it was more than that, I started scratching my head for what to say to her, and the way she looked at me, wasn't encouraging at all, maybe she just gave me out of kindness, I F-up and it wasn't the first time, neither the second time, lol.
I usually find comfort in chatting online than chatting reality, that's why I have more visual friends than the ones I can see, last year was not an easy year for me I just shot a lot of shots but keep missing them, maybe because I'm too shy and is there a strategy in getting a girl aside from money? I keep asking myself.
A woman is not supposed to be my priority now that I'm in my early 20s, I should be focused on my dreams and ambitions, I should build them up so that I will be motivators to others that are looking up to me, I should give my full attention to my goals so I can achieve it, I should be consistent in chasing my dreams and not be carried away,
TBH (To Be Honest) I know what I should do but sometimes I will just be carried away by other things and most especially when I see a girl I'm crushing on, it will be like I forgot all I learned and all I want to do right now to talk to her and get to know her, which I some times do and some won't give me a listening hears, while the ones that did give me their numbers usually turn me down and I will become a status viewer, haha, sounds funny but it hurts me some times I wonder if something is wrong with me that I don't know or someone is just chasing them away from me.
I think I will just let it all go for now and focus more on my goals, I know is not going to be easy to just let it go for now, but I will just give one more try and see if I will be able to talk to the new crush I took her last Sunday, if it doesn't work out as expected, I will just let it go for now and give my full attention to my career, I might be tempted sometimes when I come across some post on social media and it will make me feel something is wrong with me, but I shall conquer, haha, I know it's not a fight, but I just have to be prepared for anything can just happen and I might end up battling love in a fistfight
Thanks for my articles today and I will be needing your advice in the comment section and tell me your thoughts on it.
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18/01/2022
I talked to my crush and faced my fear.
Good day dear readers and I hope your wasn't that stressed, I feel tired right now, and sleep is already knocking at my door, today, I will be talking about my yesterday Sunday and I hope you won't laugh at me, haha, let's get right in.
After coming back from church I head straight to the studio before going to look for a store to buy snacks, the woman at our complex doesn't have a chilled drink and the sun was very hot, I can't be drinking hot drinks because it usually tests like ago (native medicine) in my mouth, haha, especially Pepsi and Coca-cola, though Fanta and 7up are manageable, nothing like a cold drink, hehe. I walk to the junction and luckily there was another open store.
I went there asked, she said the drink is cold but they don't have Pepsi or Coke, I told her to give me Fanta, then I sat there and just eat while eating I was on Instagram burning my data for videos, haha, I know I'm supposed to be on reading but the noise was too much is hard to concentrate, I have been crushing on the girl for a long time now and I haven't talked to her, that day she was at the shop alone and her mother wasn't back from church yet, I was just watching videos and thinking on how to interact with her, there was this funny video that got her attention on my phone and we chatted a bit, she now asked if I have movie on my phone, luckily for me, I have two (The Matrix 4 and Free Guy), haha, it's like I was preparing for this day, lol.
She gave me her to send it, when sending the video her mother came from church was branched the shop, the chair I was seating was already hurting my Ass, haha, I was just holding the pain so her mother can leave before I leave, I held it for about an hour and my eyes were red, It was like I was glued to the chair, haha, I was just watching different videos, my data was burning and it was hurting me, when her mother left.
I decided to go and she told me that the movie I sent for her is really interesting (Free Guy) I told my self that this is a green light, so I asked her for her number, she gave me generously, wow, I never expected it, but girls that usually give their numbers easily are hard to get, haha, though I saw a picture of her and a guy in her phone, but who cares? Maybe they can be just friends, even he's her boyfriend, I'm ready to fight for love, haha, just joking, but I have to first know instead of me just saying he's her boyfriend after I left there I went to charge my phone at a barbing in our complex before going to my brother's house that was close by.
Okay here is the funny part, don't laugh, what if I tell you that I'm among the 95% of people that don't know how to swim or ride a bicycle? I know you are already laughing at me right and you will want to ask what did I do with my childhood and why didn't I learn it back then, the truth is that I am also confused and I had friends that own a bicycle back then, I was just too shy to learn then and now I washed I have learnt it years back, haha, but here I am ready to learn it now even if I will be mocked by people, I won't even give them listening ear, haha, I went to big bro house to take the bicycle I kept there, I took it to a near by school that has a large space but not that large though.
I was practicing and people was just looking at me there, haha, I acted like I didn't see any of them so I won't be distracted, I have to face my fear of being mocked by others, I practiced it for some hours before I left because it was already getting dark, I went to the barber shop to charge my phone because it was low and I don't want to put my hope on power distribution company, after charging to 50%, I went home and just as I predicted, there's no power supply because our transformer has issues, I just hate and use the percent of my battery till runs down before I slept off.
Right now I'm still at the studio writing this article, my boss just doesn't want to go home yet, because he has to be through with the client's projects.
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17/01/2022
Was she desperate?
Blessed Sunday to you dear readers, I hope you have a wonderful Sunday, yesterday I couldn't write an article because I was at the studio working on freestyle, there was no power supply, so I have to wait for hours before turning on the generator, I told myself that I will write an article when I get home that evening, but unfortunately, there was no power supply at home too and my battery was down, I just slept after eating because I was just confused, haha, I forgot that our power supply company are not to be trusted.
This morning after returning from church, I saw a post on Instagram, it was about a Nigerian lady in Cairo, Egypt, she was crying for help, and according to the person that wrote it.
The Lady met a man on Facebook and the man promised her a better life in Cairo that she will make millions there because there's a lot of job opportunity, the lady blindly accept the invite and the man bought ticket and process her visa for her, the lady went and she landed in Sudan instead of Egypt, she met the man and the man told her that the plane that will take her to Sudan will come in two weeks time, she followed the man home and the man turned her into a sex doll for about two months, when she discovered she was pregnant, she confronted the man if the plane aren't here yet, the man said the plane has landed and he took her to the park instead of the airport, he told her that there's no plane that she will have to use land to travel to Egypt, she entered and the people on the way raped her countless times and when they discovered she was bleeding, they left her, when she finally got to Egypt, she was staying with another man that also turn her to a sex doll and she was working there, she was earning 350$, the man will take 300$ and will be giving her 50$ because they said she owes them for carrying her to Egypt from Nigeria.
When I read the story, I just don't know what to say, because these things are usually what was being said to Nigeria ladies about traveling abroad when you know there's no job secured for you there, then later they will force them into prostitution and some will be crying that this is not the kind of life they were promised before leaving Nigeria that if they had known, they won't have left Nigeria.
Though few of them might be lucky enough to see someone that would help them to pay the money they are owing to the person that brought them abroad and later live a good life there, is it worth the risk? In the case of this lady, I'm sure if she didn't let her family or close friends about her movement, seen it like a golden opportunity she kept it to herself till when she gets there, she will now tell them that she's outside, to me that is an act of foolishness, if she had to tell someone about it they would have known that it is a scam.
Another post I came across on Instagram was about a guy that was arrested in school because her girlfriend died in his house, according to the news, the girl wasn't feeling well, they are both university students, the girl came to visit the guy in his hostel and slept over, the next morning she didn't wake up.
The person that posted it said that the family didn't even bother to conduct the cause of her death before arresting the guy because the girl must have died in her sleep.
I have headed an incident like this, a year back, it took the grace of God before that guy was released from the police net, in this case, I believe that conducting a test will tell what happens if the guy is Innocent or not, the person that posted it also advise guys to always drop their girl at home when she's sick so they won't carry these (trouble) for what they know nothing about, it's always good to let her family know so they will what they will have to do about it, for what has been happening these days in my country, it won't be easy proving his innocence, some might say he used her to do ritual or so on. Only God knows what caused the death of the girl.
Thanks for having this ride with me again, I hope you have a stress-free day, and remember to leave an upvote for more.
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16/01/2022
Don't be carried away by happiness
TGIF (Thank God Its Friday) and tomorrow are Saturday, it is like the month is moving x10 slower than is supposed to move, I mean by this kind of time last year we were already in August, haha, just joking, how did your Friday went, many people say January is the longest month that has 62 days, haha, only few can relate to this.
Before I head straight to my topic of the day, let me first use this opportunity to wish @Princessbusayo a happy birthday, please don't forget to waybill everything you shared for me, I have been standing at the central park waiting for the dispatch rider patiently.
Now to the topic, a lot of things have been happening lately and we don't know where life is heading, like Wiseman once said, trust the process, well I'm trusting the process now.
Today, as I was checking my Instagram, feeds for the latest update on how the economy is going, I came across a post about a man that was poisoned on the same day he got promoted at work, according to the writer, he got promoted at work and the colleagues told him that this cause for a celebration, they went out to celebrate his promotion and I am sure he was carried away by the happiness, not knowing that some of his colleagues are not happy with his promotion, so one of them poisoned his drink and he drank it and died.
The heart of humans are desperately wicked, sometimes I wonder how some people will just be happy for you and still be carrying evil thoughts towards you, they are just waiting for you to make a slight mistake so they can take it as their advantage to carry out their evil plans.
There was a post I came across on Facebook a long time ago and it goes like this "before you plan to kill someone because of jealousy, think about the people looking up to him"
The man might not be married yet but that doesn't mean he doesn't have people he's taking care of, now that the evil ones have succeeded in killing him, the family will be in deep pain, poisoning friends and colleagues are kind of common now in my country and the worst part is that the people that usually carry the act are the ones that will congratulate you the most, so you will feel comfortable around them.
Evil thoughts are not written in the forehead of people, let's not get carried away by the moment and forget ourselves, jealousy is becoming the order of the day, people have been poisoned for being successful, that's just their only crime, I don't know why we kill ourselves over things we won't carry along with us in the afterlife, I don't have bad intension against anyone, that doesn't mean some people don't have against me, all I want to do is to be free as a bird, but I can't even live free because of what is happening, I pray to God to not fall victim to another's man mistake or evil plan because all I truly know is myself and nobody else, I can't read your thoughts but the only thing I can say is that I believe my God won't let my joy be cut short.
Sometimes when I think about how some people will just struggle through the hard times, plan about their future, rise above rejections and criticism just to make their dreams come through, just to make their parents proud, to lift the family from poverty, then a friend that barely knows the person for less than 5 years will just be carrying hatred towards the person because they are getting better and their dreams are coming to pass, it's not fair.
Why do bad things always happen to the good people, because they have good intentions, they believe everyone is like them, and if everyone is not like them, they want to be the reason everyone will become good if only good people have an extra life, that when they got killed for being good, they will resurrect like Lazarus and take lawful revenge against the person that first killed them.
To you my readers.
I pray God separates every unfriendly friend from us, may our expectations and joy not be cut short, may we live to eat the fruit of our labor, and most importantly, may we not be carried away to the extent that we forget ourselves.
Thanks for having this ride with me. Please leave an upvote if you enjoy reading this article.
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14/01/2022
There's no generational curse
***There are no generational curses in your family. But there are generational bad habits. Your grandfather got money and married a second wife. Your father got cash and bought a second car. You hammered and bought a second iPhone. Your lineage buys liabilities instead of assets! Change your bad lineage habits. The biggest reason why most families experience generational poverty in their lineage is that from generation to generation, their lineage focuses on how to MAKE MONEY. Read the Parable of The Talents. Christ taught us that Wealth only comes by MULTIPLYING MONEY***. - Reno Omokri
What are your thoughts on it? Do you agree with him, I will like to know your opinion in the comment section.
There's an Africa proverb that goes like this "**pikin weh never go outside, go think say na him papa juju strong pass**" (We are limited by our environment and we usually think another environment isn't better than ours).
In Africa, we believe in generational curse too much and we think every misfortune that comes our way are a consequence of our forefather's actions in the past, so we will start moving from alter to alter seeking a way to clean the land, this is one of the reasons Africans are so religious and we still have low development, imagine a whole country waiting on God to save them by going to church to pray like a week or months for a better leader when we all can just get our PVC (Permanent Voters Card) to vote for the person of our choice.
A lot of people believe in generational curses and what they don't know is that generation curse can be an illusion sometimes created by your head to see what is not there, though some people have generation curse or should I covenant that their forefathers made in their time, that might be affecting them, but I believe that some people don't have generation curse, they will make the same mistake their parents and grandparents did and they will just believe that is a curse in the family forgetting that there's a saying that goes like this "those that don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it" how does someone repeating the same mistake their fathers did in the past a generation curse, just as Reno Omokri said it.
I use to believe in the generational curse and I was praying and banning it every night back then, though it wasn't every night sha, haha, I was praying against it, we went for prayers and fasting as a family to ban the generational curse, my father doesn't build a house, I and my siblings we build mansions, my father couldn't buy the car back then, I and my siblings will have cars and the good things of life, it was a prayer point for me and my siblings, all Africa home must have prayed this same prayer, lol, because is kind of common here.
When I started following Reno Omokri, I started thinking outside the box, then I thought about the reason my father don't build, is not because he doesn't have the money back then, according to stories that I heard from the family, I wasn't born then, they said my father worked at a well-known oil company, not as one of the main workers there though, but he's salary was huge back then, he started carrying one woman then, while my mother and was still home with my two elder siblings, he had the opportunity to make us wealthy back then but he useless it on a woman who also gave him two daughters, that has been my motive ever since not to pass the same path that he took when I have the opportunity, even if the path looks updated, I still don't want to pass it, Mom always pray this prayer for us.
My uncle (my Mother brother) ones had a big contract from a white man that visited the state, he landed a huge amount of money that was suppose to make him wealthy and never to suffer again, he spent the money on so many things that I don't know and he also bought two cars, without even thinking of investing the money into any business, even if is small business, the wife is a strong woman that is ready to hustle, he didn't open business for her, he went to buy two cars in the same month, he don't know how to drive that's what is paining me now, when the contract stop coming, things was now getting bad for him, the cars he bought developed fault and the worst part is that he didn't even buy the car to give him money by giving someone to ride and the person will balance him, he bought the car and parked it in his rented apartment, he didn't buy land to start building his house, because he thought the contract will always come and there will be enough money to build house and open a business in the future, things aren't funny for him now, he sold the cars in lesser amount because it was faulty, like how won't it be faulty when he just parked it there without even learning how to drive in the first place, car his gone and he's facing challenges now, all because he didn't plan well, someone might think is generational curse also for him not to be able to build house, when it was clearly him that did what he did by not investing his money to a business or build a house.
How is both stories a generation curse when they don't spend with caution, they just believed that the money won't stop coming, even in the Bible when Pharaoh had a dream about the little cows swallowing the big cows, he became curious to know the meaning, does that mean he hasn't been having other dreams in the past, of course, he has been having other dreams but this one became a big burden to him that's why he made sure to know the meaning if he had sleep on it and called it just a normal nightmare do you know they would have also starved with other nations that came to buy food from them. A lot of people had hit a huge amount of money that they thought it will never be finished, but now they are back at the trench because they couldn't spend wisely and invested the money.
My on of my CL on WhatsApp posted something that got my attention and it goes like this
Peter bought a car and his friends started to congratulate him and told him that he should bless boys, Peter spent 3k$ that day
Paul bought a car and his friends was congratulating him, they told him to send his account details that they want to connect to his grace, Paul got a total amount of 3k$ from them.
In both stories I wrote, it all tells the same thing at the end of it all "know the kind of friends you move with" some are there to run you dry, both my Dad and my uncle must have had a friend that was motivating them that more money will come from where this one came from, haha.
Thanks for reading today with me. Please upvote me, my earning are no longer encouraging these days.
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13/01/2022
How did he make his money?
**How did he make his money**
A TV presenter asked the leader of Tinubu campaign group how does Tinubu makes his money and the man didn't have a straight answer, he was just talking off point and started saying trash that doesn't even relate to the question he was being asked.
Link to the interview https://www.instagram.com/p/CYoHpCvLA6w/?utm_medium=copy_link
2023 is close by, though today is the 12th day of January, we have to prepare for the election before the time comes, so what happened in October 2020 won't repeat itself, parties are getting their candidate ready for the election, we youth have to be ready too instead of catching cruise online and laughing at every issue that comes our way.
Normally, I don't usually write about politics because they say is dirty and I don't want to get my hands dirty, but the more we stay clear from it, the more the people in power use it for their advantage and we are the ones that get affected by it always when we were young those days, they taught us that we are going to the leaders of tomorrow and make the nation great, we believed it that one day we are going to lead and our leaders at then will be called heroes while they retired, but those people that were leading us then are the ones in power and they don't even know much about tech, I bet the only thing they know is to banned Twitter because they just want to silence us.
Now they also want to contest for the 2023 presidential election, Tinubu is one of the many corrupt leaders, Tinubu popularly known as Jagaban of Lagos state, Nigeria has been the godfather to so many politicians, makes a lot of money from politics by choosing the next governor of Lagos and the worst part is that, no matter the vote of the state, the person he chooses will still become the governor, that makes him a strong rigger in elections.
Today while I was checking my feed on Instagram, I came across the video when the Tv journalist was asking one of his campaign leaders where did Tinubu make his money because they saw a picture of him a bullion van leaving his house in the last election, like how can a man get a bullion van in his house, is his house a bank that stores peoples money?
When he was asked the question, the man started to talk about other things that he has done and he was just diverting the attention from the question and talking about the things he has done, done nii, done with the money he looted from the government house and the one his godsons are still looting from him, how can that man be the next president of Nigeria, what if he continued from where PMB stopped because that’s what he said a few days back, that he will continue from there the present president will stop and no one can stop him.
The way he was boasting about it, I know that he has kept a lot of money for the election to buy votes from people, most youths will still fall for the crap of selling their votes for 20$ or less and later all these same people will still be complaining about the government and how bad the country is after they have finished eating their share of it without even knowing it.
They usually have this mindset that the country is already corrupt and we should just corrupt it all together, even if the money is just for a pot of soup that won’t even last a week, we know that the county is bad our country is failing to the dollar but does that mean we should join the evil perpetrators in devouring the country, these politicians don’t even care about how the country goes, they just go there and loot money that they are going to use in the future, they already know the outcome with naira that’s why they are saving their money in dollars so they will they come back and change it to settle things in Nigeria.
People that wait on salaries are the ones that suffer it the most, they might think they are gaining it when their boss adds a little increase in their salary, but if they calculate it well they will realize that they have lost a lot in it, with a quick calculation I will explain, in 2015 the price of 1$ was 199 naira and a man was earning 50k naira per month, which was about 25$ then, now that the price of 1$ is 400 naira, the 50k naira will be about 100$, the boss of the man might add 10k to the man salary which will make it 60k naira and the man will be happy because he thought he's growing but he never knew that he has a lot huge a lot of money from then till now, correct me if I'm wrong, I'm not that good in maths, haha.
What I'm trying to say is that we Nigerians should not make the same mistake we made in electing PMB, PMB promised us to change and he wasn't specific with the kind of change he promised us if it's a good change for the betterment of the country or the one we are currently facing now, he kept his promise in changing the country but not the one that we are facing in today society.
Now Tinubu that is supposed to be in a golf club playing golf there before he kicks the bucket is saying he wants to campaign for the presidential election and he also said that he will continue from where PMB stops, haha, that means he wants to finish the country kpatakpata, aside from his corrupt politics that he has been made him successful over the years, he's still too old for the position as a president.
If only the youth of our dear Nigeria has PVC (Permanent Voters Card) so we can tackle these people out of politics and bring them to justice for all the lives they have taken over the years.
Conclusion
The only way for the country to be productive is if the youth decide to step up in choosing a well able leader and not some old man, people should not sell their votes for just a meal that won't even last the weak, change start with me and you.
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12/01/2022
Everyone can't handle the truth
Today being Tuesday felt like a stressful day from the beginning, I woke up at 2 am in the night after falling asleep when I was waiting for my phone to charge when I woke up, I realize I haven't eaten, so I went to the kitchen that night to dish out food to eat, though it was already cold, I didn't mind, after eating I went opened my YouTube and started watching some videos till my phone ran down, the time was already 5:23 am, I wanted to take my bath so I can prepare for work, but I sleep was calling me, I don't know why I picked up, haha, I slept and woke up 9 am, I was already running late for work, I quickly dressed and went off.
Now to the topic, have you ever learned the truth about something and you regret knowing it, I think we all must have that feeling in one way or the other, telling the truth to someone is like giving them a heavy burden to carry and not everyone is strong enough to carry that burden, some just want to live their lives and be happy, you telling them the truth will cut their happiness short.
Most of us are familiar with "The Matrix" movie when I learned that they were about to drop part four of it, I told my friend to buy parts one to three, I have watched it in the past, like 10 years ago, he hasn't watched it all after he bought it, I quickly copied it to the PC so I can rewatch it again, before I download the part four that was released last year December 2021.
The movie is about humans that were under the control of machines, they don't know about it because they were living in a fiction world called "matrix" only a few people has escaped the matrix to the real world and the real world isn't a place to be because humans were always hiding from the machines.
In humans that escape the matrix can do extraordinary things in the matrix that an ordinary human can't do, they were being hunted by the agents in the matrix so they won't free many people from it when the humans want to free a human from the matrix, they will be given two pills, a red and a blue, the blue pill is the lie pill that will make the person continue his or her life without knowing the truth about the world they live in, while the red pill will open the person eyes to the truth and see that all their lives have been nothing but a lie.
Only a few people was ready to come out and they took the red without knowing what was truly out there, I bet they never saw what was coming, somewhere regretting it which lead to a betrayer in part one.
He went to one of the agents that were pursuing them and he strike a deal with him, if he betrays his team, he will be given the blue pill and return to his normal life without learning how the world truly is, he agreed and went back to his team, all wanted was to return to the way things use to be before he took the red pill, even if it means burning the world down, he won't hesitate, he did betray the team and unplugged some of his team members from the machine while they were still in the matrix, but he wasn't fully successful about it, which lead to his death in the real world.
Closing thoughts
The truth is a hard pill to swallow and one needs to be sure about the person he or she tells, you can't tell a talkative friend about your truth and expect the person to keep calm when you tell them the truth, though some might be able to handle it while other won't hold it for long before they spell it out, that's why its good for you to test them before entrusting something like this to them so they won't betray you, though some might pass the test and still do betrayers, it's better to play your card right and be ready for anything that might happen.
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11/01/2022
Will you allow your male child to become a crossdresser?
Today being Monday sounds stressful already, I woke up not that early and I am still grateful, it's good to be counted among the living, some many are gone but we are still alive and kicking strong.
Today I will be talking about crossdressers and how infective they might be, there are two popular crossdressers in my country and they are always on bloggers feed, I would like to ask if you find out or your male child told you he wants to be a crossdresser, how will you feel about it? Will you be happy or will you disown him, well you can drop your thought in the comment section?
Some parents don't like the idea of their child becoming a crossdresser, because they see it as a tarnish to their image in society, I don't support it either, but if the child wants to be a crossdresser, will you disown him or accept him.
There are two well known cross dressers in my country and they bobrisky and James brown, Bobrisky has been in the business for years now and she, oh i meant he's a well-known influencer, a lot of company has been reaching him for promotion, you can tell that she makes a lot of money as a influencer, bobrisky has been trying to turn himself into a complete female, but it hasn't been successful for him, he's a lot of celebrity knows him and he has been getting gifts from many of them, she has help so many people in need of financial assistance and she has also be dragged by some who said she promised them a trip to Dubai but didn't fulfil the promises, most of them said he used them to do chores in his house and so many things, he shuns everyone that calls him a he instead of a she, on her father's birthday last year, he bought him a car, and he dressed like as a man to the father's house, though he tried to hide his face by wearing cap and hoping no one notice him, but a gold fish can't hide in the water, he dressed a man to the birthday and I guess his father don't support him or maybe he just decided to dress like that to the birthday.
James brown on the other hand is new to the industry, though she has been hustling to be recognized until his breakthrough came when he was arrested among other guys, the police said according to the information they got, the boys was holding a gay party, when they bursted them, they find out there was no girl in the party, James brown stood her ground and said that he's a dancer and they invited her to dance in the party, after that scenario, bobrisky and other celebrities reach out to help him and she become an influencer too, something happened between them and they split, James brown is getting more recognition than her aunty bobrisky, on James brown father birthday, she took her father to a photoshoot and he dressed like a woman in the photo, the picture went viral and a lot of people was dragging her father that he supports his son for being a cross dresser, James brown aka the Africa princess is not moved by criticism, she always give room to haters because he know that they are the ones making her famous.
Just last week here, a man hosted bobrisky in Benin city, the state I live, bobrisky started a video and was saying that they were here to disturb Benin, he forward said that the Oba (king) of Benin should come and marry her, after saying that, the people of Benin drove her out, because is a big disrespect to the King, James brown the Africa princess started mocking him that she doesn't know how to talk because he's not supposed to talk about a transitional ruler like that, bobrisky started to apologize, which was not accepted by the people, both crossdressers are still battling now.
Conclusion
These crossdressers are making a lot of money online and they have created names for themselves, their way might not be right, but at least they don't defraud people for their hard-earned money, they just used their gift from God to do what they know how to do best.
10/01/2022
Hard times prove true friends.
**The true ones will come through for you**
Have you ever been in your lowest and some people that you think will raise you just walk away like they didn't notice your fall, though you were always there for them in their lowest and you come through for them, you sacrifice your happiness for them, they call you the backbone that keeps them going and strong, you felt these people really love you and they will always do the same if you were in their shoes, but not all of them usually came through for you when you needed them the most, some come up with invalid excuses when some don’t even pick your call.
A few days ago @George_Dee talked about an animated movie “**Encanto**” that he watched and I decided to check it out, it has a lot of lessons to learn which I am about to write a few things that I learned from it.
A woman was given a magical candle after she lost her husband who was trying to save the entire village from being enslaved, the woman had just given birth to triplets when the incident happened, the magic candle build a house for her that does chores, everything in the house is magical when the kids were about 5 to 10 years of age, they will be given a door, which they will open and have magical power, the triplets were two female and a male, the male child has the gift of seeing the faith of people and things, one of the females has the power to heal people with her food, while the other female can control the weather.
They used the magical power to serve the community for 50 years and people love them as the family grew, the daughters got married and had three children each, while the son has to leave because the people believe that his gift was not helping the community and all he sees his bad things which usually happens after telling them.
The grandchildren were also using their gifts to serve the community and there was one grandchild that didn't get a gift, she was hiding her tears behind the mask of being okay and everything be alright, the grandmother wasn't okay with it and she always tell her to not get involve in helping the community because she has no gifts at all.
The family served the community for 50 years because things started falling little by little, their magic started to fail away, the magical house that can't be broken begin to crack, the girl without gift was the first to notice it, she tried to alert her grandmother but the grandmother insists that everything is fine because she doesn't want the community to lose hope in them, she wants to maintain the balance in the community so people will still believe that they got everything under control.
There were six grandchildren and five got the gift, the girl without gift took it on herself to find out what was happening to the magic, she went to the uncle room to seek for answers because her uncle can see the future outcome, when she got there she saw one of her uncle vision that was broken and she was the one in the vision while the house was broken, then she got to realize that the faith of the family and the entire community is in her own hands, she either let it fall or build it up, which was still confusing for her because she doesn’t know what exactly to do.
The girl got into a serious argument with the grandmother and she started to say how uncomfortable she made them feel, always doing things in her way and telling them what to do, she deprive some of them of knowing their true self because she wants the family to serve the community with their all, even if it means for them not to be their true self, the house began to break down and the magic was failing away, the mountains that were guiding the village against intruders divided, the tried to save the candle but it all went off and they all lost their magic.
The grandmother thought all was lost and without the magic, the village people won't respect them again, the girl made her see that the true miracle is oneself and not the gift that was given to them, the son came back after a long time of hiding in walls of the same house, so they were planning on how to rebuild their house after the clash and start over as a normal family, to their greatest surprise, the villagers came through for them with tools to rebuild the house, the grandmother saw the love and was very happy in the heart after they were done with the building, they gave the girl the key to open the house, as she opened it, the house became magical ones again.
Closing thought
The grandmother spent 50years giving to the community and she wanted the legacy to pass down to the generation, she thought that the moment she stop giving to them, they will throw her out, but she never knew that it was all in her imagination, the community came through for them when they were at their lowest because they remember the good being given to them for 50 years, that's called true followers, it's not all about taking always, it's also about giving to show the appreciation that you care for them as much as they care for you too.
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09/01/2022
Does age matter ?
Good day readers, hope you are doing fine today, I am doing okay too, still on the search for a girlfriend, haha, today I will be talking about age and relationship, but before I start, I would like to ask the men in the house first, can you marry a woman that is older than with about 10years or more and to the women, can you marry a man that is 10 years younger than you, I would like to hear your answer in the comment section.
In Africa, we don't normally tell people our age because they will start to look at us differently after knowing our age, so we add it to our private list, haha, I don't know about other countries though, but here in Africa, our age is one of our biggest valuables, we keep it secret so people won't know about it unless we decide to open it to them, men don't usually have an issue in saying their age, but the women see it as a big deal and they hate it when you ask about their age on the first, they usually reply with "don't you know it's rude to ask a Lady her age" I still don't get it, why keep it secret when you are still going to grow old anyway and I bet you won't be able to hide your grey hair, haha.
I remember when ma'am @Theblackdoll made mention of her age when she posted an article about her birthday, I was surprised to see it, because it's not common for women to mention their age, unless if it is needed on their birthday jotter.
A few months back, there was a group of music arts that came to the studio for an album project, most of them are married with kids, except for the youngest among them, who's a lady in her 20s, she has a very wonderful voice and I admire her, after coming to the studio, two to three times, I decided to gather mind and talk to her, when I got the opportunity I was looking for, I approach her and I asked for her contact, my phone was inside the studio and we were outside, so she collected my number instead and say she will message me, I was happy that the mission has began,haha, days past and I didn't receive any message from her, their studio session has expired, I was wondering I am going to see her, then one day, while I was going to church, I saw her at the other side of the road, I ran to her ask why she didn't message me, she said her phone has issues and she has been busy, I now collected her number and message her myself, we were chatting and she was calling me Sir, which was very uncomfortable for me, she first told me that I shouldn't talk to her about anything relationship and all, I said okay, since that wasn't my intention from the start, don't get me wrong, she's beautiful though, but her voice made me to approach her, because i believe I might need her help in the future.
Normally the way I chat, I usually call ladies dear, while the ones that are way older than me, I call them ma'am, when we were chatting, I was be calling her dear, I wanted to ask her age because from the face you can tell she's not that young, one day she cautioned me for calling her dear that she doesn't like it, I said okay, then she ask me my age, I told her, her reply was a total turn off for me, she said she's x3 of my age and I was shocked, I did some calculation with my age and multiply it with three, which was 66years, so you are 66 years old, I told her, she said she has my age mate at home, now I was angry, what made you say that, because you are 25 and I am 22, does that mean you should be saying words that anger me, she just told me to stop calling her dear, the feelings I was growing for her weeded away.
I don't know why some people still think that soulmate comes with age, that you can't be with some they are older than, they see it as a sin, that mentality should change, take a look at the president of France, he is the youngest in his family, his wife is older than him and his stepsons are also older than him, Shakira is 10years older than pique and they are happily married with kids, so many couples, sometimes we just have to look beyond age and see how much happiness and encourage the person to bring to our lives
I saw a Nigerian couple online and people have been talking about them, the man isn't ashamed to show the wife and the wife too.
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Though the husband looks like the son to the wife, they look beyond that, they know what bonds them is love and not age, age is just a number and everyone will grow someday, except if you are a vampire, you won't age a day, haha.
Conclusion
Things I have observed, the major thing that usually level age in Africa is money, not all Africa women though, but some of them are ready to settle with someone younger than them because of money and not love, money can't hold it forever, because forever last forever if only your forever sees you as his or her, if they don't see you as their forever, then be ready to let loose at any moment.
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08/01/2022
Catch them young
Yesterday at evening, as of the time I was writing this article, I, big sis and kid sis was outside the house, receiving the organic fresh air, because there was no power supply, I was on my phone as usual and both of them was discussing, not much of a discussion though, kid sis was telling her that we should give her phone, I didn't say anything, but I was hearing everything, haha, that's how I usually do, I will just act as if I am hearing what they are discussing, big sis was telling kid sis that she waited till she was through with secondary school (senior high school) before she started using and kid sis reply made me laugh out loud, I just couldn't hold it to myself, she said "you can't compare then to now" things are different now, the world is going digital and people that don't move with it will be living in the analog world.
A lot of things has truly changed in 10 years, more people are coming into the digital world and some of them is sad for not coming to know it earlier, in Africa where we live, so many people (especially the elderly ones) believes that when you give a child a smartphone, the kid will go astray like they will start using it to learn bad/adult things (watching 18+ videos and getting exposed to what they are not supposed to learn) this must have been their reasons, which usually happen.
So in other to stop their kids from learning these habits, they believe is not good to buy a smartphone, but rather send them to church to be religious kids, trust me, I am not against anyone sending their kids to church, but I think this is one of the problems we have in Africa, in Benin city where I live, two things are trending, is either you become a gospel minister or you become a fraudster, those are the major two.
Young kids at the age of 14 are already into fraud while on the gospel side, you will see a young guy of 22 years old being called Daddy because they are ministers, I know grace doesn't come by age, but let look at it from my perspective, there are already a lot of churches in Africa and we have the highest churches in the world, still Africa is how it is.
Most Asia countries like China are teaching their kids programing and tech, Africa is recruiting kids to church/fraud, a 17 years old boy in Russia can hack a satellite, while in Africa a 17 years old is out the street preaching the coming of Jesus, now tell me, why won't the younger ones coming up start watching adult firm, most churches are usually the problem for Africa being as it is, they will threatening the members with Bible verse, while they enjoy the opposite of it, they select verse from the Bible to preach to the members, telling people all kinds of things and threatening them that if they don't obey, the wrath of God will be upon them according to the old testament, but I thought Christ has changed all that already, well, as I said, they look for the verse that supports their words and preach it. Haha, you didn't hear it from me though.
There is a woman currently trending in Africa, we call her **mama G.O**, meaning female pastor or pastor wife, she has been dropping some messages on what will take people to hellfire, some of the things she mentioned are
**Football**' which she describes as a direct ticket to hellfire, she said that both those that play football and the ones that watch it, because football is the game of Satan
**Comedian**' she said told her congregation that if anyone them has a dream to become a comedian, they should renounce Jesus before they become a comedian because all comedians are destined for hell
**Breakdancer**' she said breakdance was invented by Michael Jackson and he learned it from skeletons, skeletons means dead people, so if you are dancing breakdance, you are telling God you are dead. She said a lot of things though.
Conclusion
I believe that if we start teaching the kids about the digital world and find the field they fit it, either blogging or programming, I know things will start to develop for Africa and Africa will leave some mentality behind, especially the ones that still enslave us mentally if the fraudsters can recruit young boys as of the age of 15 to learn fraud, why can't we recruit them too and teach them about tech and programming, the world isn't as before and we shouldn't have the mentality of God will work everything out, if God wanted to work it out himself, he won't have given us free will to think and act, maybe all of us would have been a robot that follows others. Africa won't move if the people still have the same mentality, that's why you will see some Africans in Europe will become less religious because their mind has changed after they left Africa. Catch them young, what you don't teach your kids now, someone else will teach them the wrong way and you will be blamed for it.
***The main reason I used religion as the major problem instead of the government, is because Africa their religious leaders more than the government, for the government maintain power and keep Africa mentality as they are, they will talk to top religious leaders to talk to their people and the people will obey. Believe it or not, I have said my own***
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07/01/2021
They both got served
**They both got served**
Good afternoon/evening readers, hope you are having a wonderful new year, mine isn't bad at well, I resume work yesterday and I didn't get to work early yesterday, today I came a bit early, I changed the oil in the generator today, I wanted to do it yesterday but a client was around and I don't want to delay him, after changing the oil, we already know what happens to our hands, I had to wash it and turn on the generator since we don't have power supply now.
Yesterday when I was viewing status on Whatsapp, I came across a video of a man and the lady who got burnt badly by fire, hospitals have rejected both of them, I had to ask what happen to them, according to the person that posted it.
***The man was dating the lady for years now, the man then broke up with her and propose to another lady, on the day of the introduction, the lady called the man that she wanted to see him, so the man went, maybe he thought the lady wanted to wish him well on his marriage when the man got to the last house, she poured fuel on the man and set him on fire, the man quickly rush and grabbed the lady so they both can get burned together before neighbors came to the aid to quench the fire.***
What kind of heart is that? Setting someone on fire because of a breakup, that's pure wickedness, I might not know what causes the breakup or how many abortions the lady must have done for the man before the man left him.
Break up is becoming common these days especially the one caused by friends, not every friend is happy with your relationship with your partner, some might just be acting happy in your present and wish you the best the world can offer, but their heart will be saying otherwise, there was this story a lady narrated on Twitter on how her cousin lost her fiancee on their wedding day, no one has been able to tell what really happened to him.
***According to her, the cousin sister stole her best friend boyfriend, they have been dating for six years and the best friend was always there to show support, but the lady never knew that the best friend was just waiting for the moment when the moment came, she stole the man and their 10 years + friendship ended, some of the family members wasn't happy with her, including me, but they started to see us as the enemy, they dated for 3 months, the months and the man proposed, on the day of their wedding, the man slept and didn't wake up, that was how she lost it all. Both of them didn't get the man.***
Conclusion
A lot of things has been happening lately, I didn’t want to watch the video the second time when I saw it, the lady just sat on the chair, I know a lot must have been running through her mind, like why didn’t she just move on with her life, instead of planning a revenge that also hurt her, who’s going to marry her now that her skin is burnt badly, she must have been filled with so much regrets,well, she can’t rewind the hand of time to amend her ways and stop herself for even thinking about how to set the man on fire, what baffles me the most is that, what if she succeeded in burning only the man, will she just run away to a far place and continue her life there as if nothing happened ? Sometimes revenge is not the answer we might be looking, not everything is worth revenging for, especially when it comes to beak up and all, I believe that no one can steal someone love for you, if the person truly love you, he or she won’t let you go, unless if they use Voodoo (black magic) on them of course, some might not even work too, depends on the person though.
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06/01/2022
She's not your responsibility to handle
Good morning dear read cashers or should I say, readsters, I hope you had a wonderful night, I have been awake for hours now, maybe its because I have been sleeping earlier since the beginning of the year and I have exhausted my sleeping bundles, haha, I hope to get a refill soon though, so I can start sleeping at my normal time of sleeping, which was usually 3hours at night, 4 am to 7 am, I kind of use to it and I can't imagine myself stopping it soon.
Yesterday while I was busy minding my business, a notification entered my phone and it was from a telegram channel I sometimes visit, the guy posted this picture and asked for advice on it.
This was what was written on it
***I am in a relationship with this mechanic and we have a son together, he paid for my varsity fees and currently I work as an accountant, don't get me wrong, I love my man but I think the level has to change. I thank him for paying for my education but things have changed, he's always dirty and smelling of oil or petrol, I tried to ignore it but can't anymore, a few weeks ago met a lawyer guy and we exchanged contacts, we met three times after that and he makes me happy, his fashion sense, education, intellectual capacity all match mine, we are compatible, the thought of leaving the dirty mechanic has been playing my mind since I met the lawyer, am I a bad person?***
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Then a dropped a short comment on my perspective
To cut the answer short.
***Training a girl you want to marry in school is like playing arsenal to carry champions league. Thank you***
There's a saying that goes like this, train a man you have trained a leader, train a woman, you have trained a nation, this saying only applies to the parents of the girl, not you as her boyfriend, sponsoring a girl you love in school is a very risky investment, there's no guarantee of returns and you can end up regretting it, I know there's this urge in you that tells you is for the betterment of both of you, if she’s through with school, she can live her dream life when both of you can later get married and that’s where you get it all wrong.
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University is a whole different life and it changes people from how they used to be, you can know her as an open-minded person that usually tells you everything but suddenly she began to change and started making calls and laughing over the phone with another guy while talking about class, maybe you might pay deaf ears to it because you trust her that she won't cheat on you, which might be good but precautions are always better than cure, why to put yourself in such situations for a girl that you haven't gotten married to if she tells you that she wants to be through with school before she gets married, fine, but don't sponsor her in school, that's why she has parents, she's not your responsibility, not until you get married to her.
Even if she fornicates with you, that doesn't give her the right to the money you worked for, she's just a friend like any other friend and you shouldn't take such a risky investment, it will only be a rug pull when she finds someone better, a few days ago a popular blogger/entertainer as he likes to be called “**Tunde Ednut**” narrated a story of a guy that opened a shop for his girlfriend and a customer came to marry her and took her to Canada, the story sound funny right, but it was real, I remember last month when a female friend of mine was talking about all guys want is to fornicate and take you to the club, why can't they open business for you to earning money and also support him, I was like wow wow, she got a point there and I even called it a sure investment, haha, the only sure investment is the one you invested in yourself, the rest can get a rug pull at any time any moment.
Conclusion
I said what I said and life is a movie that the girl will lift the guy after school and start talking good about how he trained her in school or open a business for her and blah blah blah, this is the real world and people see it as a giveaway when you train their daughter in school without marrying her first, it usually ends in tears and it is not always about the money spent on her education, but also the memories you both shared and the opportunity you let slide for her to get a good education, only for it to just slide away like a slippery floor, I read stories on how some men commit suicide afterward and it's not an easy memory to live with at all. There's the lady that ran mad sometime last year, though we don't know the full story behind it, some people said she was trained in the varsity by a gig and after she graduated, she told the guy that she's no longer interested in the relationship, so the guy went a witch doctor and make her mad, I not sure if it was what happened though, but if it is, then the parents have hand in it too, how can you allow someone else son to train your daughter when he's not married to her, even if he wants to do it for free, be sure of his intentions towards her.
Thanks for reading this article of mine, sorry I have to end it there, so I won't start writing off point, haha.
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05/01/2021
What if everything you believe in is a lie?
Today looks like Tuesday to me, oh it is Tuesday, how can I forget is Tuesday, it is that I am losing track of the date and everyday seem to be the same because I am still on holiday from work, haha, its been good though but not too good for my financial health, local man is broke and I am looking up to God to fix me.
How's your holiday over there, my apologies if I haven't checked on you for a long time, I find things difficult to do these days, I can't even remember the last time I take myself for a flex, I really miss the happy and jovial me, I am stilling to reconnect with him, but I don't see us reconnecting anytime soon, because he's someone I used to be when I wasn't too exposed, but now that I am exposed, I don't think we can be in the same page again, some call it maturity, that there's age will you get two, you won't be impressed by so many things that use to give you goosebumps, you will now see them as nothing.
Sometimes I wish I didn't know something I know now, I just wished I took the blue pill and continue my jovial life instead of taking the red pill that opened my eyes, I see now, I see the truth all in front of me but if only I knew the truth will turn me into a saddest, I would have just continue living in lies and living my life.
Some things use to give me motivation and I was using it to hold myself through the rough things and keep telling myself I will get through it, but what if I am just the one putting myself in the rough times, maybe to prove that every struggle has a happy ending. what if the button of success is just in front of me and instead of me just pressing it, I concluded that it is too simple and I should look for clues that will take away my time.
What if everything we believe in is just a lie, I don't say there's no heaven or hell, but what if God doesn't have religion and the name of His only begotten son is not Jesus? How do we clean it off our minds before the next generation takes it from us, how do we even teach the next generation that fraud is a sin when all the fraudsters are living the life of a king and building mansions, they are being recognized in the clubs, social gatherings and even in churches as big names?
They contribute the highest amount of money to church buildings, the pastor will start calling them son/daughter, giving them a seat at the front as someone after their heart, why won't the younger ones in the church go into fraud too, maybe a youth at the church has been trying to get his pastor to call him son, he became diligent in church duties, but someone that just donated millions to the church automatically become a son of the pastor, even if is just his first time of entering the church, how do you think the youth will feel, something he has been working hard for years now, another person just get it without stress but just with a transfer, doesn't feel right to me.
But what is right? Do we know what is the right thing to do? How do you define right from your perspective? Maybe you will say "live a Godly life, do good to people, never hurt anyone, get married, have kids, grow old and be merry" though the bible said that go into the world and multiply and replenish the earth, is that what we came to life to do? To multiply and fill the whole earth with more people, yeah, I know is instruction but some of us don't like taking commands, I am here to live a life that I will be happy about and not to go with instruction on how to live my life, I don't believe that there's anything like wrong or right decisions, I believe in faith and fate, a lot of people has left and the worldly things and became Christians, they start saying that worldly life is demonic and they are happy they left, while someone left the church to the worldly life and they say that church life has deprived them for so many good things in the world.
I'm tired of convincing people not to do what displease God according to the bible, not that I don't believe in God, but I have come to realize that salvation is personal and God blessings the ones God want to bless and God does not look at your religious beliefs, because God doesn't have religious, so when they do want they want to do, I observe and learn, carrying the bible doesn't make you a true child of God, you can be carrying the bible and still be committing the worst sin on earth.
Being true to yourself is a choice, trust me, you have so many options out there and you still choose to be true to your dreams, you been broken so many times by things that would have made you change, but you still decide to stay true, I have so many people I look up to as mentors, but I have limits on how I look at them, so I won't copy the influence that displeased me, I know I am not much of Christian because of so many things that I have seen and heard, but one thing I know is that I have a believer of God and that is one thing I need to know.
Doesn't matter how everyone labels me for me what I have done and what I am going to do, I know they won't call me a Christian, but does it matter, humans only sees the body and tell what is good, but remember is only God that knows Good.
A random article from my broken mind again, I hope it is not that broken anyway. Haha
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04/01/2022
False accusers deserve a jail sentence
**False accusers deserve a jail sentence**
Monday being Monday and everyone can relate to it, we haven't resumed work here and I'm still trying to package myself before my boss call for resumption, students are already preparing their bags so they can return to school anytime soon because their holidays are short due to the past semester taken by the pandemic, they are trying to cover everything up, I wish them the best because I know that is not easy to be a student, especially in Nigeria my country, students that attend federal university are suffering in the hands of the government for not paying ASUU (Academic Staff Union of University) the money they are holding them, most of these federal university students would have through with school now but due to the strike, they got delayed by it. Is not easy for them out here you know.
Have you ever been falsefully accused that you did something you didn't do, it is not an easy pill to swallow at all, you will be thinking up and down on how to clear your name and prove to everyone that you are innocent, it never gets easy at the way because a lot of people will believe that you are guilty of the crime and they might even add lies to it that they were aware of your behavior towards it.
Last year or two years back, I can't really tell which of the year, a guy was accused of rape by another lady on Twitter, Twitter users that don't think if they act started dragging the young man and calling him all sort of names, they didn't even bother to ask his side of the story, they just believe that ones someone is called out one rape issue, the person is guilty, they made the guy living a living hell, some were threatening him in is DM while others were trending his photo as a rapist and should be arrested, the guy couldn't take the pressure anymore, he wrote a suicide note and posted it online before he took his life.
After his death, the lady now tell the truth that the guy didn't rape him and she did it because she wanted to get back at the guy for not wanting anything to do with her, Twitter couldn't say anything about it because they are looked stupid at that moment, for hearing the one-sided story and jumping into conclusions, the lady continues her life without being arrested, no one said anything about it, the young man is gone for false accusation and the lady wasn't arrested for false accusations.
Why did I remember this now? A few days ago, a lady came out with a baby and was claiming portable is the father of the child, for some of us that don't know portable, portable is a music artist and he came into fame a few months ago, his song is trending in the street and making wave everywhere.
According to the video posted by instablog9ja, she said she met portable years back when she was into prostitution, portable took her to a motel and they fornicated, he paid her and she left, the lady said that she kept the pregnancy because it is a taboo to do abortion in their family, haha, that's why she kept it to herself for long but now that portable is rich, she decided to let him know that she's carrying his baby, the lady tagged some bloggers to share the video, which instablog9ja reposted without even confirming if it was true.
Conclusion
How did she know he's the one responsible for the pregnancy, did she calculate it and see it in the dreams, or maybe she’s just chasing clout with the baby, which might not even be his baby anyway, this is not the first time someone like this has happened, how can I prostitute know the exact person that gets her pregnant? I thought they don’t use it to get pregnant before, we never can tell though, but I believe that she’s just using the news to chase clout, they usually do this, to be famous and later come back to say it was a prank.
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03/01/2022
Family planning can reduce the rate of poverty
Happy Sunday beautiful people of read, how are you feeling this Sunday, I just came back from church now and I am very tired, it's just the second day of the year and I am feeling tiring already, haha, I didn't sleep early on new year morning and I know that must be the reason, ones again Happy New Year and I hope we achieve what we set our mind to achieve this year, even if we don't tell it to people, now to my topic of the day.
I never wanted to go to church this morning, oh confession, lol, but is true though, I have my reasons but it wasn't strong enough, so I had to go to church, on my way, when we were about to enter keke nape (tricycle), a man and his family wanted to enter too and it was remaining two seats to move, the driver said that he won't carry them, because they are to many to carry just two seats, the man, his wife, and four children, the eldest among the children should be around 12 to 14years old when the driver told them that he won't carry them, I wanted to interfere at least to know his reasons, which he later said that it will damage his keke and so on, though his reasons are invalid and I believe that he just doesn't want to carry them because they are too many to be in just two seats, instead of three-seats at least.
Something flashed into my mind and I remember what Reno Omokri like to say on his page, for most people who don't know Reno, I have mentioned him more than twice in my articles, he's my favorite author, Reno always addresses his readers and tell them that before you start a family, have a source of income (a business) that can go along way for you and your partner and before you decide to bring children into this world, make sure you have the resources to take good care of them, don't say children are blessings for God and God will bring money that you will use to take care of the children needs, that is a poor mindset that people needs to change, that's why there is family planning, to know how many children couples can take care of, even if children are blessings from God, which they are, does that mean one can just have 30 children without having the resources to take care of them?
I don't know anything about the man though, but one thing I know is that he shouldn't give birth to four if he doesn't have many resources to look after them if he has a personal car that would have been a different case, because he won't start looking on how to pack his family in two seats in a keke nape or commercial bus, most rich people with the resources usually give birth to children they know they can take care of, academics and their needs.
The rate of poverty is rising every day because of people who just bring babies into the world without having the resources to take care of them and send them to good schools, at Ring road in benin city where I live, you will see a lot of kids in the street, mostly the Fulanis children, holding strangers in clothes and following them to give them anything they have, be it money or food, and a lot of them are still planning to born this year again without looking at for the ones that are already here.
Conclusion
I believe that if every couple starts family planning before they engage in bringing children to the world, the rate of poverty will reduce, the earth is already populated, people should bite what they can chew, carry what they can eat, and also bring in what they can care for.
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02/1/2022
Crossover night
**Crossover night**
Happy new year to all our Filipinos on read, I got classified information that they are already in 2022.
How's the new year over there? We are about to crossover to the new year in Nigeria, 2021 wasn't an easy year for us, but I'm glad we are counted among the living today, is all by the grace of God.
We celebrate crossover night every year in Nigeria because we believe that is good to start the new year in God's presence, is like a tradition and a lot of people will be present in the church today, the Christians and the non-Christians, though most people are in the club and bar right now, drinking and dancing for reaching the end of another, but ones the time is 11:50 pm, most of them will run into the church to shout happy new year, haha, funny but true, then after shouting happy new year, they will return to continue their celebrations at the bar or the club.
**Candles will be burnt this night** after shouting happy new year when the time is 00:00 am, there will be lightning of candles, the pastor will be the first to light his candle and after lighting it, the congregation will come to light from the pastor own and spread it to everyone present, sounds fun right?
***I remember years back after we came back from the crossover night, we light the remaining candles at the entry of our house, my siblings went out with their friends that night and I was the only one at home, the candle was burning and I don't know how the fire was able to catch our cotton, I was fast asleep, thank God that big sis came home to take something when she saw the fire, she ran to the house and woke me up, we started to pour water at the fire before it could quench, if not, maybe I would not have been here telling the story today, haha, To God be the Glory.***
Only @Kushyzee can relate to this because we stay in the same city, every November to December has always been a cult clash, when two cult groups start to kill each other before the new year, especially in the environment where I stay (upper sakponba) they usually walk at night and in a group while wearing all black, times like this, the police usually give them space cause it was a tradition for both cult groups, they know themselves and they kill themselves, for that reason, I stop wearing all black since the beginning of December, precaution is better than cure, I don't want anyone to mistake me for someone else, lol. This year 2021 is the first year for 25years that there was no cult clash, I don't know the reason though, but I hope it continues like this.
A few minutes to 2022 and I have a lot of goals to achieve this year, I don't know how the year is going to be but I am sure I know myself and I know things I can do, one of my main focuses in 2022 is to get a girlfriend, yeah, I will set a quest to my find a girlfriend because I'm tired of being single and being a virgin, haha, I don't know how long I'm going to be staying in this country, but I have decided to give Nigeria girls a second try and I am ready for anything that I might encounter in their hands, I have bought armor proof against breakfast, we move. Haha.
Happy crossover night readers, I'm in the church right now.
Happy new year to you.
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31/12/2021
My broken mind
Writing because I don't know what exactly to write today, my mind is like the mirror verse in Spiderman no way home, things are not what they seem, I don't what the name of what I'm feeling right now, but I know that I am slowly losing interest on people, I just want to live in a Batcave with cool gadgets so I can keep myself company with it, I will also have the one that can prepare all kinds of food, so I won't have any reason to step outside, the only time I would step outside is at night so I won't get burnt by the sun, not that I am a vampire though, I just don't want to be seen.
I know everyone needs someone, someone to lean on, someone that understands, someone that listens, well, I am tired of talking anyway, I will just be a caveman that relies on only himself.
Do superman feel pain, I know he's an alien and his body is made of steel, only kryptonite can penetrate the skin, bullets, bombs, and dagger is useless against him, what if I become superman, we will still feel the pain that I feeling now, of course, the answer is yes, superman skin might be made up of steel, but his emotions aren't made of steel, Superman cries his love one is in pain, Superman is heartbroken most of the time but being a public figure that everyone looks up to, he tries not to show weakness and he always gives hope to people, every superhero needs someone to lean on, someone that understands their silent, someone that can tell you the real you and will notice when there's a slight change in you.
Lois lane was that person that knows when Superman isn't himself, Lois knows Superman more than Superman knows his self, when Superman is angry, Lois calms in down, when Superman was about crossing a line that he's not suppose to cross, Lois draws him back because she don't want to lose him, one of observations from Smallville (Smallville is a series that tells the story of Superman journey on earth as a teen before he start wearing the costume) no matter where life take us or how it treat us, what we will be ours will definitely be ours as long as we stand true and fight for it, Lois lane wasn't Superman first choice lady, Lana lang was his first choice, they started dating from high school, in as much as both of them wanted it to work out, there will always be someone to separate them from each other, both of them tried their best, still it didn't work out, they just have to let go, this tells us that sometimes we just have to let go of some certain things, even if we want them to work, the earlier we let it go, the earlier we get a better one that God has set out for us.
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Superman and Lois were working in the same office and they were partners, Superman didn't tell Lois he is Superman because he knows that Lois has a loudmouth, haha, and she might spin it out to people by mistake, Lois has her suspicious though, she tried her best to let Superman know that he can trust her, but how are you going to trust the famous Lois Lane with your secret and still be safe? Superman started giving her anonymous calls, which almost got her killed several times because she always want to do more than what she was told to do, something happened at the end of season 9 and blue kryptonite was on Superman's chest, Lois saw it and went to remove it, she quickly ran and hide so Superman won't know that she saved him, in the season 10, Superman decided to tell Lois his secret, they were already dating and he promises not to hide anything from her, unknowingly to him that she already knew and she didn't tell anyone about it, haha, this tells us that we should not judge a book by the cover, she might seem like the talkative type but she keeps secrets more than secret keepers, haha.
Lois became part of the team though she only stays at the watchtower, monitoring what is happening, Lois was the ex-girlfriend of Olivier Queen, aka Green arrow, they didn't date up to six months, Green arrow was also part of the team and the right-hand man to Superman, all of them were cool hanging out together, this tells us that your exes are not your enemy, you can break up with them and still don't say bad words about them, even if you don't want them as a friend anymore.
In Injustice, when Superman lost Lois Lane and his unborn baby to the joker, he became rogue and no one could stop him, some of the heroes joined him, but Batman didn't, Superman killed the joker and decided to take over the government so he can stop crime by killing those involved in it, Batman knew that he and the rest of the heroes that didn't join Superman wasn't a match for him alone, so he traveled to another universe to bring their Superman, the fight between both Supermen was tough and the other one was holding back because he hasn't been broken like this one. That tells us that is good to have someone that can calm us down, Lois used to be the one that calmed Superman until she was murdered and Superman had no reason to be calm anymore. https://www.thenetnaija.co/videos/movies/14837-injustice-2021
Thanks for reading, it's a random story I am trying to put my broken mind together by writing what pops up. Haha.
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30/12/2021
My friend taught m a lesson today
Today was a stressful day for me and it ought not to be so if it wasn't for my Friend that did me something I won't forget, haha, so I have been telling him about one of my phones that was faulty, he's a phone engineer and he has been doing it for years, he told me the price to buy the parts that I need for the phone, without including the workmanship fee, God did it and I got the money, I sent him the money and today he called me to come to give him the phone, I left the office without informing my boss because I believe that I won't stay long, I will just give him the phone at the junction and come back to the office, unknowing to me that he has a different plan, he called me and told me that I will be going with him to get the parts, I had no choice but to follow him, I tried calling my colleague to inform her that I will be staying longer than expected but her phone wasn't going through and I don't want to call my boss, because it might seem like a disrespect to him like I left the office without telling him and now I am calling him on the phone to tell him, I decided to just leave the explanation for later.
There's a popular computer village in benin city that we call abuma, it's not a place for nice people because a lot of people working there will outsmart you if you don't know what you are looking for, I remember when big sis went to buy the phone there a few months ago, they sold a fake product to her and when she got home, I told her it was a fake product, she went there again, the people there were trying to outsmart her but she stood her ground, after much talking and shouting, they gave her the UK use the phone, at least it was better than the one they gave her before and she's enjoying it now.
When we got there, I was following him at back like a personal bodyguard, because he's familiar with the place and a lot of people know him there, we went to the shop he wanted to buy the packs, he asked the owner of the shop and he said that the packs is available, he decided to take me to another place and we walk 10 minutes there, he was going to return a phone his friend bought from a phone shop, unfortunately the shop is on Christmas holiday, he went back to the abuma and he order the packs and he started fixing the phone there, after fixing the phone, wasn’t fully done though, he gave me the phone and told me to use it for two days before he can seal it up, we went to another shop at the complex to buy a cover for the phone but the cover wasn’t available at the moment, so he told me another day, we spent more than two hours at the place before going back to the office, when we were inside the bus we started talking about how simple life can be when there’s a lot of money at hand (like in our bank) there are things that seem impossible to us now but with money it can happen with a snap of a finger, we talked about purchasing a game and having free time for ourselves or become a gamer as a career, and we also talk about the disadvantages too, haha, especially in my country that doesn't have a stable power supply, we will just end up abandoning the game if we rely on power supply company, they can be frustrating sometimes, lol.
When I got to my junction, he handled the bill for my transport and I went to the office with the phone half done, my boss wasn’t happy with me, like who would have anyway? I know I was wrong for not informing him, after work I went to my friend shop to cut my hair and we also had some serious discussions, I waited for him to close before we both went home, I went back to the office to carry my bag because I left it there before going home, this evening as I was chatting with another friend and I told him what the other one did to me, he laughed and said that he has done it to him in the past that when his phone was faulty too, he also followed him like a bodyguard to fix it and he won’t ask for workmanship, I learned my lesson today and I will definitely do it to someone else very soon.
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29/12/2021
I don't need a man
Hello readers, I hope you are having a good in where ever you are now, a few days to the new year, I can't hold the joy inside of me, I hope things get better in 2022 though.
Today I will be talking about females, I mean the ones I have come across in my country, it's not about me asking them on a date though, haha, just a few observations I have come to realize about most ladies in Nigeria.
A few months back, a lady on my WhatsApp contact list wrote something on her status which I just remembered now because another lady wrote something similar to it, the first lady wrote "The more I make my own money, the more I see no reason to have a man in my life" it sounds funny to me and a lot of things was running through my mind, so she meant that she's only claiming to love a guy because of his money and nothing more, Haha, now I see the reason @Kushyzee don't believe in true love.
Most ladies in my country sees men as MMM (Money Making Machines) and that's the reason they even agree on a date with them, it's kind of hard to see a rich lady in a relationship these days because they think that as long as they have their own MMM without a man in it, they don't want a man in their life, I'm not condemning any financially able lady though, I am just trying to clear my thoughts.
That's why we usually see none educated women living a happy married life, while the ones that are educated and rich are living their lives, most of them though, are few rich women I have read their story on how they got married, one of them is Linda Ikeja, Linda is a blogger and one of the biggest bloggers in Africa, you can tell that she's very rich, according to the story that I heard, I haven't confirmed that is true though, but its the marriage is true, they said that she sent her mother money to look for a husband for her, she married the husband with her own money and they are both living happily now, she has changed the man's life, and many other rich women has married a man with their money and guess what? They didn't die, they are living happily in their home.
Some actresses in Nollywood are looking for a sperm donor because they have their own money, they see no reason why they need a man in their life, they just believe that the only obligation of a man is to handle the bills and nothing more, they just want to a man to donate his sperm and get paid for it, so they can raise the child alone in their terms without a father, they don't know that no matter the love you give to the child, the child will always feel that something is missing and as the child grows, the child will be asking of the father, they might try to avoid the question when it pops up, but not for long though.
If a single-gender could generate a baby themselves, that would have been a disaster, you know God sees the end from the beginning, that's why God placed it in both genders that one can't produce a baby without the other one, we thank God for God.
I believe that is good for a lady to have her own money and be well educated with purpose, but that shouldn't make her feel like a man, you can be a woman and still be strong, I use to believe that women that make a better President in my country but for the looks on the women in my country, I doubt it, I hope they prove me wrong though, but if a woman becomes the President, she might starve all men, especially if she's single, haha, and I'm not ready to go into starvation.
Conclusion
Someone needs to teach these young females that they can be financially able and still be loving wife, most of these ladies idolized rich and single female celebrities, it won't take long before their influence get to them, the worst part of it all, they call it female power or female taking over, what the F? Who's fighting who here? Aren't supposed to live as one, that's why we see a lot of divorces these days, a week marriage is already filing a divorce because of one thing or the other and most of the reasons is because the lady sees the man as the same level with her because she earns figures that are bigger than the man's own, if only they can learn from other countrywomen and enjoy what true love taste like, some of my countrymen prefers to marry a foreign Lady because of these reasons and I am considering joining the train too, soon I hope, I don't think I have the strength to be telling a Nigeria lady the same thing all the time and she will still be claiming the victim to it, though they are still genuine Nigeria ladies out there that are true, that doesn't mean I should go look for them, haha, I can't, I don't have the time for that now, I have met 99 ladies and all said the words in different ways.
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29/12/2021
My vacation to Dubai
Good morning readers, I hope you had a wonderful night, mine wasn't bad, just a few days to the new year and I am still hoping for a last-minute miracle, that's what we usually call it in Nigeria, is a miracle before the end of the year, usually happen for some people, what they desired the most will just come through for them, though I have so many desires and if I was given a sheet of paper to list them, I might ask for more papers because one sheet won't be enough, haha, but I what I needed now is a new laptop because I'm still with my friend laptop and the laptop doesn't have a low processor, that means it's not giving the juice I need, I need the one with the high processor to carry the software I use in working (that's the juice I'm looking for) if I don't get it this year, I still put it at the top on my list next year, till I get it.
I need a vacation to Dubai so I can see how life looks like from another perspective, my head is full now and it needs to relax on a soft pillow with a soft bed that can warm my heart, while I enjoy the coolness of the air condition because I have been getting the heat of the sun ever since, turn on the TV and start watching a movie while I sip my juice with joy, haha.
I turn off my phone for and just enjoy the flow of life, the morning I will go to the gym with food, haha, I don't want to faint in the gym, or I think I will just reconsider it, because I'm already slim and I don't want to lose any more pounds, lol, from the gym I will go to a massage shop, they should bring their best to massager and she should be Lady, a VIP massager from her to strengthen my bones, after giving me a nice memorable massage, I will go straight to the boutique and buy some clothes, a fancy shoe and a nice perfume that can attract beautiful ladies to me, haha, then I will go and see a movie in the nearest cinema, as a single guy, I will have to seat alone and focused on the movie, instead of looking at two lovers by my side kissing, I know I can handle the pressure, after the movies, I will have this feeling of hooking up with a lady and a lady will just come and compliment me that I smell nice, she will asked to take me for a drink and I won't refuse her proposal because she's not only beautiful, she also has curves, while having a drink, we will be getting familiar with each other, then she will just be looking at my eyes, while I was talking, I will try to not let her distract me, she will show me something at my left and after I checked it out I will want to return my head to her when she will just locked her lips against mine, a moment, I want to push her away, but I aren't doing that, from the bar, we went straight to my hotel, what a coincidence we lounge at the same hotel and our rooms are just opposite, she would want to drag me to hers but I don't know what is in there, lol, we will use mine to fornicate the whole night.
The next morning we will just act like nothing happened last night, she was high, I was high, the highness was at work, I will go swimming in the hotel, though I don't know how to swim, I will just seat at their chair sipping coconut juice while I watch beautiful ladies swimming, I will just put on my glass as a cute guy with good intentions, some ladies will want to hook up with me but I don't think I will accept because they are just after my money, unlike the one I met last night that paid all the bills in the bar, she kind of generous and I forgot to even get her contacts, well she left the hotel already, I will just hookup with another lady at the pool side and then to my hotel room, after fornicating she will will want to ask what are we now, wait, what kind of question is that, I will ask her because the question is confusing to me and I hope she's not going to say she love me, because I don't want to give love another chance, the one I gave its enough and it didn't use good use of it, I just want to flow with life and lesser the worries in my life.
***I will go to the club and a lot of places that I won't mention yet, haha. I hope I get the vacation soon.***
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28/12/2021
Movie that made me cry
Good evening and Good morning to people around the world, boxing day was awesome, my stomach is full now, haha, yesterday Christmas I message big bro and asked him if he prepared food so I can come and eat, he said no, I now ask if his girlfriend didn't bring food for him, he told me that she won't come on Christmas, but on boxing day, which happens to be today, I told him to tell her that she should cook the food many so I will come to eat in his place, he gave her number that I should tell her myself, lol, I wanted to resist and not tell her, but the other part of me said I should tell her, I messaged her and told her, she said okay, after church today I went straight to his house with an empty stomach, ones again I have entrusted another lady with the whole of my stomach.
I got to his house at 11:30 am after church and he went me a few errands, after I was done with it, I asked if his girlfriend and when she's coming, he said he don't know and the time was already 12:16 pm, I plugged my phone and decided to relax a little, I slept off and when I woke up, I saw a female bag at the chair, I knew she has come, so I just decided to act as if I was still asleep until he woke me up let's eat, I smiled inside of me and the time was already 2:36 pm while eating, we were watching a Bollywood movie, though I have already watched the movie because is an old movie titled "Flying Jatt" it's a very interesting movie, though they speak India most of the time and the substitute was also written in with India language.
*The movie is about a young boy with abilities in a small village, or perhaps a small city, people love him because he fight crime, though he kept his identity, that's why he always wear mask, a billionaire in the city hated him because flying jatt has been spoiling his illegal business, the man decided to call someone who also has ability and he promised the man a huge amount of cash if he can kill flying jatt, the man agreed and he went to the town and caused chaos, people were running before flying jatt came, they fought and fought but he was match for flying jatt, he went back to the billionaire and told him he wanted armor to cover some parts of his body, the billionaire gave him the armor and he went back again, flying jatt was at the market when he saw his crush, the girl is his friend but she didn't know he is flying jatt, though she was suspecting him, while they were at the market, the man attack again, this time he has an upgrade and he was sure he's going to win, they fought and started destroying the market with their super punch, they fought in the sky, land and water, flying jatt defeated him again, though he broke half of his mask, the crush ran to him and gave him the corn he bought, flying jatt covers his eye with this hand and flew off, he began to suspect that the girl was suspecting him, then he talked to his brother to dress on his costume, since they kind of look alike, flying jatt was at the park with the girl when a the brother showed up wearing the costume, she was kind of disappointed, it was Valentine when the city decided to award their favourite hero, flying jatt took roses to the girl house so they can watch the news together, while another guy also came to her house too, his brother wore the costume to help him receive the award, while they were giving him the award, a lady approached him and asked him to marry her, the said yes, and flying jatt was so disappointed, the crush was crying, flying jatt took his brother to a popular tree in the town and wanted to hang him, the girl saw them and follow them, she hide behind the tree and heard the whole truth about the true identity of flying jatt, the bad man went to the Billionaire again and was very angry, he took the fight between him and flying jatt personal, the billionaire was smoking when he inhaled the smoke, he started getting energy from it, the billionaire took him to a place where they was a a lot of smoke and he and he inhaled a lot of it, he went back to fight flying jatt and flying jatt was no match for him this night, he broke part of his body and let him go, flying jatt was down for more than a month while the man was causing chaos and polluting the waters, the man went to the news and call for flying jatt to come out so he can end him and if he didn't come out, he will destroy the city, flying jatt was still down and recovery, his brother wore the costume and went out without telling anyone, he sacrificed his self to save the city and buy flying jatt time to recover, tears was rolling down my eyes because the scene felt real to me, he died a hero.*
Closing thoughts
The brother knew what he had to do and he did it, though not everyone loved him the way they loved flying jatt in the city, he didn't let that change his mind towards them because he believe that one life can save a million lives in the city that's why he went, the movie ended when flying just decided to accept his root and the gods were with him before he defeated the man in space, Good always finds a way to win evil.
***Was writing this article yesterday when I slept off because of a stressful day.***
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27/12/2021
Depends on who's asking
Christmas has come and it was indeed a good day, I left home as early as I told you guys and it was a mistake that I will not make again, the girl didn't come through, she broke the trust my stomach had for her, thank God I had a backup plan, which was the plastic Fanta I had in my bag, if not I would have fainted at the office today, lol, well at least the day wasn't a waste, lesson learned, the female gender is not to be trusted, especially with your stomach, haha.
I'm not the calling type, I'm not the visiting type, I'm not the posting type, these are words people usually use as no excuse for not doing what you told them, I don't know much about people from other countries but I will just write on few things that I have to observe in my country and some silly excuses people give.
These excuses are common and they are mostly used by ladies in my country, all guys in my country must have fallen victim to these excuses in one way or the other, a girl can tell you that she don't have airtime to call you or she didn't like to receive night calls because of her parents and blah blah blah, you as a guy will understand because you feel like is late too and most parents don't like that, that same girl will be calling someone at midnight, the same time she told you she don't use to answer call, or you tell a girl to come visit you so you both can go clubbing and she will say she's not the visiting type because her parents don't allow her to go out, she's always indoor, you decided to go clubbing alone with your boys and you will see her at the club, wait, Anita, I thought you don't use to go out, how come you are here, she will just bypass the question with silly talk and so on, some girls will say "before you decide to date me, just know that I won't post you, even if you go missing" haha.
I know of a guy that has been dating this girl, the girl told him that she can't be posting him as her boyfriend because she's afraid that her relative might report to her parents, the guy agreed and their relationship was kind of secret, on the girl birthday, this guy messaged me and told me that tomorrow is his girlfriend birthday and he sent me some of her pictures to repost for her, which I did, this guy sang a song for her and did a shout out video with the song for her, the girl reposted half of the video in a way that you will know she didn't wanted to repost it before, I was watching (I have both numbers on WhatsApp) when it got to the guy birthday, she just posted his picture and wrote happy birthday dear, this girl gave him a lot of excuses and the guy will be complaining to me, I will try to see reasons with the girl and she will convince me, well, to cut the story short, they are no longer together and everything the girl told him she can't do for him, she's doing it for another guy now, same goes with guys too, a lady will be complaining that he's not caring and so on, but after breakup, all the ladies complained that the guy wasn't doing for her, he will start doing it for his new girlfriend.
I remember when I told a friend to dance to twerk on my song so I can repost it, she rebuked me I was kind of a demon, she was very angry at me for telling her to twerk on my song, like don't I know she goes to church and what if her church members sees, they will start using her to preach, I apologize to her because I thought she's right and I won't have told her to twerk on it, months later when Naira Marley dropped Coming, this girl posted a video of her twerking to the song, she posted it on WhatsApp, posted it on Instagram and was tagging Naira Marley to repost the video, I just smiled and pass, "na me never blow"
Conclusion
There's nothing like a stupid question or request, they just don't want to do it for you because you are not important to them as you thought you are, people can cross their limit and do what they say they can't do and we don't have to feel sad about it, the only thing we can do is to move on and not hold grudges against them, is better to rely on yourself than others, just like today now, I thought at least this girl will come through, but I thought wrong, lol, maybe she went to her boyfriend side though, but she sees me as an important friend she won't have disappointed me as she did.
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25/12/2021
Merry Christmas to you
Woke up with a Christmas spirit, I can hear the rhythm playing in my head
Long time ago in Bethlehem
So the Holy Bible says
Mary boy child, Jesus Christ
Was born on Christmas day
I knew it was Christmas and I have been waiting for this day, though it is not my birthday, lol, but I know is special, as I said in my recent article that I will be escaping from the house as early as I can so Mom won't start sending me errands, she's won't even if I am the president, as long as I am at her reach, she will tell a whole president to blend pepper, lol, due to some reasons I will be spending the time alone at the studio and try to make good use of it, so I wouldn't start having the crazy thoughts of calling some toxic people, I just want to make use my time instead of staying at home all day.
A lot even usually going to happen and people will spend a lot money today, plazas and shopping malls will be filled up by people that wants purchased and the ones that want to have fun too, I remember years back, I and my Big bro always travel to the province for Christmas, Grandma was always happy to see us, two of his favourite grandsons, lol, we always enjoy our times there and we sometimes go to the river near by to take our bath, then after the Christmas and new year celebration, we will start following her to farm and that's the hard part, lol, though the farming was for our good because after harvesting the cassava from the farm, we will convert it to garri, Grandma will sell some and use the money to transport us back to the city, she will also buy us clothes and give us pocket money, we usually go to the farm as early as 6am and be back home by 7pm most of times, depending on how big the work at the farm is, sometimes when we finish up early, she will take us to another farm again to also work there, she's a workaholic, the last time she visited us in the city, about few months back, she was disturbing her children that she wants to go back to the village, she just can't stay without working, she will just be working around the compound looking for weeds, lol, all her children are also doing well in the aspect of working though.
Back in the days during Christmas, we usually go from house to house paying visits to family, we usually get plate or rice as a thanks for coming, he will eat and never were we fed up, some of them will also give us money, our Moms will promise to hold it for us till we need it and we will believe her, by the time ask her about the money we gave her, she will say she used the money to buy us a new school bag or sandals, the worst part is that we keep falling for her trick every year, if not Mom use to carry my money from me back then, I would have become a billionaire by now, haha
I use to call those big uncles and aunties that didn't give me money back in the days "wicked" well, now that I am an adult "lord forgive my sins for I was just a child then" I pray the law of karma won't come for me now, so kids won't call me wicked uncle because I don't give them money, I swear this economy is something else and I never adulthood is like this, the only reason I wanted to become an adult is to be eating two slices of meat and also taking food from the pot myself, I never knew responsibilities was just waiting at the kitchen for me to come in, haha.
We still have to be grateful for life though, even if you don't celebrate Christmas, trust me when I say there's a reason to celebrate because we have been through a lot, we deserve to celebrate this season, Merry Christmas to you. Readers
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25/12/2021
Give them a rose while they are still alive
**Give them a rose while they are still alive**
**A few hours to Christmas and everywhere is busy, one can tell that the celebration is going to be massive this year, though we faced a lot throughout the years and a lot of loved ones was lost in one way the other, may their souls rest in peace.**
**I was planning to spend my Christmas at the studio all day till evening I guess, not because I have a lot of projects at hand though, but because I don't want to do chores at home, lol, Mom won't even care how old I am, she will still want to send me on an errand, I just want to escape it this year and spend the time relaxing at the studio and maybe later go home to eat the food I didn't prepare, haha, I told some female friends of mine to bring food for me at the studio though, I hope they won't disappoint me, because if they disappoint me, I will cut them off, I can’t be having fake friends in 2022, lol, just one responded as she will bring it, I am trusting her with the whole of my stomach, I hope she won’t let my stomach down.**
**Let's get right to the topic of the day, why is it easy for humans to help in the morning for burial than to help the person when he was sick? I am not excluding myself from it because it seems like a normal thing for us humans and it's not good, people always have good and nice things to talk about you but they are just waiting to say it at the funeral when you attend the funeral and you decide to listen to a lot of side talks from people about the deceased, they will talk about how they met and their journey together went and how nice the person was to them.**
**What came about this topic? Yesterday a well known Nollywood actor was announced dead and people started posting his pictures on all social media to show their condolences, according to news to have been said by a close colleague of his, he said that the man has been down with illness for a long time and he has been battling with his life until he gave up the ghost, I don't think the colleagues told the public about his illness, if they had I would have come across it on social media but I don't think they shared it, the man is gone and the family is mourning now, sending love and light to them, I hope they get through this hard days because is never easy losing a loved especially parents, the family will definitely feel his absence in their lives.**
**I hope the colleagues come through for the family especially the children well being, I don't know why is hard for a colleague to help the other in times of need, most celebrities (especially movie actors and actresses) are suffering behind, some have been forgotten just like that, I remember a few weeks back, another popular actor back in the days, he acted so many movies and people loved his acting, a few weeks ago, a church gave him money for surgery, because he has been sick but no money to do the surgery, he was crying emotionally when he got the money from the pastor, he thought his life was over, no one heard from him for years, I know he might have reach out to some of his colleagues but they would have snub him, thank God for the pastor that knows that prayers can’t help every time, sometimes we have to support the financially and also pray that the surgery becomes a success, they are a lot of Nollywood actors that are suffering now and a lot of them have died because there was no support in their treatment, people forgets them easily like they never existed.**
**Closing thoughts**
**I don’t think the movie industry was paying them well back in the days, that’s why some of them don’t have investments that would have sustained them during the dry season when you see someone as your idol and you look up to them, it’s better to give them a flower while they are still alive than wait for their funeral, those words you are keeping for their funeral before you say it, why not say it now so they will have the joy of fulfillment in their heart.**
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24/12/2021
Will he return to his sinful ways?
Just a few days to Christmas and another year of me not having detty December again, lol, what to do, I can't come and kill myself, we shall try again next year, Hello readers forgive my manners, I was just too carried about be the way things are over here, how are you? How are plans going for the Christmas celebration, hope you are all prepared because this year's own is going to be different from the previous ones, without taking much of your time let me proceed to the topic of the day.
***Before I start, this is in no way a judgemental article, I'm just writing my thoughts towards, no one is perfect and I'm not God to judge anyone from their past sins, let's begin***
Do you think is possible for Lucifer to become an Angel again, lol, I know what you might be thinking, but I'm not talking about our dear @Lucifer01 , I mean Lucifer the devil in the bible, do you think his sins can be forgiven and he will be given an office among the angels, well, as the bible said, our God is merciful and he can forgive Lucifer, but still someone will pick up from where Lucifer left and continue the balanced, and we know that evil never ends, cause some people believed that without evil there won't be good and for that reason, the world won't be balanced, what brought Lucifer to my topic today?
A few days ago a well known political terrorist (for some reason, I won't mention his name) he's known for sending terrorists to rig elections and cause chaos at the electoral ground, he's not a graduate but he has been in this line of business for a very long time and politicians have been making use of his service for years, maybe that's the reason police are not even after him because they know that he has so many backups at the government office, people he has run one or more electoral rigging for in the past, this man is one of the richest in my state, he has a lot of investments like hotel and so many other investments, I don't think his generation to come will ever be poor in life again, I heard the governor of my state recently demolished one of his hotels and he took it to the Court of law, which he won and the court order the governor to rebuild his hotel for him, that will tell that even the government can't even do anything to him. A few days ago when I was checking my feed on Instagram, I became across a video when the pastor called for people that want to give their life to Christ, I was shocked when I saw this man walking out to join the people that want to give their life to Christ, as he was coming out, his bodyguard was with him making sure that nothing happens to him and he was also looking out as if he suspected someone is about to snipe him down, lol, truly theirs no peace for the wicked, the pastor prayed for him and the rest people that also came out, the pastor told him that as he has decided to give his life to Christ, he will see wonders from God.
The news was shocking to the internet and a lot of bloggers took it to their page, someone in the comment section said that "He will take his life back, when its time for election" that got me laughing, because it sounds funny though like I said this is not a judgemental article, do you think he has fully given his life to Christ? Or maybe he was just doing it to get a headline, but at the same time his isn't the internet type of guy, can all his sins be forgiven just like that? After causing so many families to mourn their loved ones, what are your thoughts towards the sudden repentance? For me, I think he will still pay his sins though, look at the story of Saul who become Paul in the bible, he was persecuting the disciples of Christ before Christ converted him, still, he had to face the sins he committed when he was still going after the disciples, I don't think total repentance is just one bypassing the wrath of his or her old sins, they will surely come for the person, if the person isn't strong enough in Christ he will surely return to the sins, at least he might think he's safer there.
If you had watched the movie titled **Shang chi**, it tells a similar story to it, the father had caused chaos generations because of the power of the ten rings he posses that made him immortal, he was been money and he was looking for more powers when he met the love of his wife in a village he planned to conquer, he repented but the villagers didn't allow him to stay because of his past sins, so the woman left with him, they both decide to let go of their past and set a new life, which didn't last for long because some of the people the man has caused trouble to in the past came looking for him, he wasn't around and they said that someone had to pay for his sins, the woman decided to take do it and they killed her, when the man returned home, he saw that his home has been destroyed and his wife is lying dead, he couldn't hold it anymore, he went to carry his rings from where he kept it and he returned to his old lifestyle.
What are your thoughts on it?
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23/13/2021
Random Thoughts
**Can't explain what I feel**
Have been finding a lot of things hard these days, I can't even explain what I'm feeling now, maybe there's no name for it because is kind of mixed feelings, I have been feeling too weak lately, I can't even tell anyone about what I'm going through because I don't even know what I'm going through myself, sometimes when I think about the things of smile I will be happy and sad at the same time, why is life so full with so much happiness and so much sadness at the same time.
Why can't there be true genuine happiness like the way it happens in the movies “living happily ever after” I just want someone to tell me that everything will be alright and things will be alright, life is like a gamble and we can lose it all with a little mistake or being at the wrong place, expectations being cut short, people smiling with pain in their heart and an empty stomach, some say life is a gift but why does it feel like a curse.
Being born with no rich parents, man has to find his way to have a better, the environment he stays is not giving him much encouragement because the people there expect him to own a car in his early 20s by any mist, fraud becomes the order of the day, anyone that is not into fraud will be called a clown, why the F are you not into it? Don't you want to be called “baba for the girls” and be spending money everywhere you go? Don't you want to be hype by the hype man or do you just decide to choose to suffer overall these sweet opportunities in front of you?
Even those people you look up to are into fraud on a low key, you will see them asking for ID.me, Cashapp tag, Venom, etc on their Whatsapp status, people holier than you are into fraud but you just choose to be there looking like you are lost, that's the reason you have never had a girlfriend in your life before, well, might be true though, but I just want to live a life that I will be able to enjoy and still sleep with two eyes close, without being the reason someone can't sleep at night, that might not guarantee me a successful life but at least I know what I did is right.
How can someone be hustling for money to feed and at the same time be praying not to die in the hustling field, there's actually no manual for a happy and successful life, because life is not a pattern that has just one code for everyone to use, just yesterday here I heard that a woman that was doing POS business in front of our office died months back, my boss asked the neighbor what caused the death because she wasn't looking like someone that is sick, though she's slim, the neighbor said that she was sick for a long time before giving up her ghost, only God knows what killed her, Bad things happen to the good people than the bad people, life is just somehow now.
***These are random thoughts in my head, I just can't think of one topic to write on, yesterday wasn't that stressful but I was just too weak to do anything, I didn't even know when I slept off, by the time I woke up, I thought it was already morning, I never knew I just slept for an hour, but still, I was just lying till I slept again, nothing interests me again, unless Rusty visit, lol, but just hope my hustle won't be cut short, I hope I achieve what I am working for and also enjoy the fruits of my labors. To God be the Glory.***
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22/12/2021
Who owns the song?
**Who owns the song?**
Tuesdays morning everyone and I hope your night was splendid, mine was good as well, though I slept while data was on and I just woke up as early as 4 am, looking at everything for more than an hour plus, I don’t know if it’s only me, but even every time I wake up from sleep, I always take my time to relax for hours let the time whine away, and then the next moment I will be in a hurry with everything to meet up with the time that whines away, lol.
Today topic I'm going to seek your opinion on something, though it didn't cause an argument, I will like to address the case, it might sound like it doesn't matter, but the truth is that it's actually a big deal in the music industry business, so without taking your time let’s begin.
A few weeks ago, I wrote an article on a song I and my colleagues (Paschal and Amahya) are working on, it's a good song and I haven't done with the song yet, I don't know why I like behaving like this sometimes, lol, some weeks back when we were at the studio, a female colleague asked who owns the song and Paschal said that it belongs to us, while Amahya said that the song belongs to Paschal, so Paschal was telling them that the song isn't his, but Amahya was saying it belongs to him because of how the song came about.
***On the day we made the song, Amahya and I was in the studio when Paschal came, Paschal has been telling me about a cover (a cover in music means he's not the original owner of the song) he wants to do and I have been postponing it for a long time, when he came I just can’t postpone it again so I decided to let him, Paschal is a better pianist than me because he has been practicing for years and I, on the other hand, it hasn't been up to two years since I started to go into music production, I asked him the song he wanted to do cover on, he told me the song and I created drums for it (the drums I created wasn’t the same drums as the original song he wanted to do cover on) after creating the drums, he played the chords progression (the piano) on the drums and it was sounding nice, already an instrumental, when it was time for him to record the cover, I told him that why not make it an original song instead of doing a cover, so we agreed and he wanted to make a love song, but I said that we should make it a motivational song because the instrumental is more like a motivational beat, I played the instrumental and he wasn't getting a hit on how to write the song because all his mind was just saying love song, I now gave him a hit, which he turned into the chorus of the song and we were set to go, Amahya wasn't inside the main studio with us when we were coming up with the chorus on how it should sound like, but he knows that Paschal played the piano line, the song became a gospel motivational song that anyone can vibe with, I did the arrangement of the song and Paschal told Amahya to join the song, that's how the song came about, both of them wrote their verse in the studio, it's easier for them because they are both singers, I, on the other hand, I prefer rapping and rapping needs a good Rhymes and also good lyrics, both of them recorded and something was missing in the song, a female vocal, songs like this needs a female vocal to breath life to it, we searched for one and Amahya chatted one people he knows and they came through. Just a few weeks back when we're at the studio, one of the girls ask who owns the song, Paschal said that it's a group song, Amahya said that is Paschal, they were talking and Paschal was trying to tell them that is not his song and is a group song, but they just focused some facts that because he played the piano line and wanted to do a cover, the song automatically belongs to him, I didn't say another word because I was just acting as I wasn't listening to them, just last Sunday here when I and Amahya was at the studio, he brought out the topic again and I had to tell him that the facts he didn't know about the song, I told him that I suggested we make it a song, I suggested that we make it a gospel motivation song everyone that can vibe to, I sang the chorus first before Paschal decides to use it and if we're to choose ownership of the song by the person who has the highest contribution to the song, then I will automatically be the owner of the song, but I just don't want to claim full ownership of the song, I want to make it as “I and Paschal feature Amahya” or I will call it a collaboration between the three of us because Amahya also contributed by bringing the girls to voice on it, while I will also add Paschal as my assistant producer in the song.***
It's not much of an issue though, but I will like to know your thoughts on it.
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21/12/2021
Busy Sunday
**Busy Sunday**
I started writing this article at 1:50 am Monday, because of a very busy Sunday, my eyes are kind of sleepy and they need rest, but I think I will deny them rest for now because some work needs to be done, lol.
I woke up at 5 am on Sunday so I can meet up with the church service before they begin, I knew that my activities for Sunday was going to be tight and I might go home because I and my friend was going to finish a song yesterday which is Sunday, we already schedule the video for yesterday Sunday too, after church I called him and asked of his location, we were going to shoot the video in his house and I have never been to his house before, I just waited for him at the junction before we both went to his house, when we got there, we decided to set up the room we was going yo use for the video, it took us more than one hour to set it up.
Have you ever snapped friend some beautiful pictures and when Is time for them to snap you back, they won't be able to snap you a beautiful picture, lol, that was what happened yesterday, he was the one that started the video and I’m behind the camera, I gave him some perfect video shot and he loved it, but when its time for him to be behind the camera and I will be at the scene, the shot he gave wasn’t that good at all and I started to imagine why didn’t I bring my tripod along, at least I would have stable the camera myself, I told him to do it again but it was still the same result and time was fast spent, I had to manage the shots he took, at least its a lesson for another day, I won't forget to carry my tripod next time around.
When we were done with the video shoot, we went to the studio, so I can begin with the mixing of the audio, I had two audio songs that I planned to finish yesterday so I can be able to give them to them before Christmas because they want to drop the song before the new year, I did the first song first and I was doing the magic and if only you could see the atmosphere filled with magical things, lol, after hours of mixing and listening, the song was sounding nice in my hears, I think my job is done, but yet done though, I will have to export the song in a high format so I will be able to master it and balance the song before I send it to them, but I wasn't going to master it that same moment because I won't get what I'm looking for, so I kept it and open the other project.
Before I began with the second project, I realized that I haven't eaten food since morning and all that was in my stomach is malt, so I and my friend went to the above (the man that runs a quick eatery spot, they usually sell bread egg and noodles) close by to run some bread and egg, my friend told the aboki that he should cut the bread in two and give him half and fry two egg on top, I asked if it will be enough? And he said yes that he doesn’t eat too much when he’s outside, I said okay, I told the aboki to give me one full bread and four eggs, I wanted to eat indomie but maybe next time, we went to look for a chilled coke to buy but unfortunately we didn't see chilled coke, all the stores we went was saying there’s no electricity, we just settled for the one that is a bit cold with hamartan, we went back to the studio and did justice to the egg and bread, I thought the egg and bread were going to be enough for me but I was wrong and there wasn't much cash on me, I had to feel my stomach with water for the night.
When I'm about to start mixing the song, we discovered some errors but we have already done the video, how are we going to do it now, we had to change the key of the instrumental and take the voicing again, the time was already 10 pm and the street was calm, it was the best time to for a smooth recording.
We did the voicing and it took us hours before we were done with the voice, that was already midnight, I had to begin the mixing immediately, I started mixing and putting things in other while adding some effects to it and so on, my friend had fallen asleep while I was still in front of the laptop doing the work, my eyes were on the screen for hours and I was feeling sleepy, the initial plan was to sleep by midnight and wake up 5 am to finish the projects, so I decided to turn off the laptop and the time was already 1:30 am, I realized that I didn't any daft article, so I decided to started writing this article, but the signal was getting stronger, we were lying in separate chairs and I don't want my phone to fall from my hand, I dropped my phone to drop phone relaxed my self that's how I fell asleep, I woke 5:40 am and woke my friend, we continued and was done with both projects, well, I won't call it done yet because I will listen to it and be sure that is done.
I told my colleague I will be at the office early so I can go home and take my bath, she came and I went home and fell asleep before I left she told me that my eyes are red, what do I expect? When I was up all night and didn’t have a good sleep, I just woke up from sleep now and I decided to finish the article so I can get dressed and go back to work because I left my charger lol.
*Thanks for reading guys, I think I need 24 hours sleep because I'm still planning on how to take my bath and walk back to work.*
*Thanks to* @Lucifer01 for renewing his sponsorship.
I sincerely apologize for not being active in your articles lately.
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20/12/2021
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