If there’s not a chance for you and the person you like to be a couple up to the end well maybe it’s the time for you to move on. Remember that the world doesn't just revolve around him/her, and for sure you can find someone better. The world is big, and I’m sure among all the people that living here on earth there is someone that just waiting for you to come into their life. I just wanna make things clear that this I article I created was not related to myself, but it is about my friend. My friend is still not getting over on her ex-boyfriend and I want her to move on, but her heart was still attached on her past.

I am advising her everytime but still it is hard for her to move on. I know it’s hard to move on but if you still trapping yourself on the memories of the person that you once loved, you can never move on your life. There’s a saying that you can find the one for you if you stop chasing the person that was not meant for you.

Moving on? I once experienced that and just like the other people say, it is easier to say than done. It’s just like dieting, it is easy to say to other people that you can diet but it is hard to do so, and sometimes it is even hard to begin it. All things in this world were either hard or easy but you can accomplish things like moving on if you give your full attention on it. You are just afraid to face it and even don’t want to start it.

There’s a lot of way on how an individual can move on in his/her lovelife, well I am able to make this article because of you “MANGGE” I know you’re not here, but this were the things that I already told to you and I know this article may help others as well. Here are some ways for you to move on:

1. YOU CAN HAVE AMNESIA

One of the things that happened only in drama, if you happen to watch Meteor Garden 2 you know that Dao Ming Su had an amnesia and forget about the love of her life San Chai, but don’t ever try to do this this is just a joke of mine unless you wanna hit your head on the wall really hard to forget about him/her. Your heart was already in pain, don’t ever include your head on this hehe. One more thing hurting yourself was not the answer in moving on, we all know that a lot of people try to hurt themselves that it comes to a point that they will end their own life but it’s a no! no! don’t ever do that it's fun to live and enjoy it to the fullest. Be kind to yourself and have a self-love.

2. TRAVEL DIFFERENT PLACES AND DO SOUL SEARCHING

I know this kind of thing was not applicable for now because we all know that we were facing pandemic and there’s a lot of travel ban but this is one of the answers before that help an individual move on their heart breaks. This way of moving on was expensive but this process was very effective. Sometimes it will be easier for the scars on your heart to recover if your attention will divert on other things. Go the places you’ve never been to before. Explore the world, you’ll never know the places that you will visit will you find your future partner. When you are travelling seek for yourself first before finding someone, try to find the things that you lost, I know this kind of activity will be the key of our self-realization that you could go back to the time that you are happy and positive even you don’t have special someone in your life.

3. FIND SOMEONE BETTER

When someone leaves, there is someone better, one of the most effective things in moving on but one of the hardest things to do. Keep in mind that when I say “FIND” you shouldn’t take it literally finding an individual one for you, what I want to imply on saying find someone better was to be open and socialized with other people. Go out with your friends and have fun. Go out with the people that love you, they were better than the one who hurted your feelings. There’s a bigger possibility for you to truly find someone better instead of shutting yourself on the four corners of your house, and the better now I am talking on was that special someone that will pick up the broken pieces of your heart and the one who might bring back the colors into your life.

Moving on is truly hard but I know you can overcome this, and you will be better than before. This were just some ways for an individual to move on, I know I am not a best adviser but hopefully it helps the individual that experiencing this kind of thing right now especially my friend. Hope you like my article, thank you for your time reading!