Is Love enough to Forgive a Person you Loved?

Have you ever fall in love in a person? What do you feel? Happy? contentment? Butterfly in stomach? Have you ever wonder that you can't live in this world without the person you loved the most? We can say that love is such a great thing, it is a mutual feeling to same or opposite sex when there's a moment that everything around you freeze then she or he's the only person you see or your heart beats so fast everytime you the person you admire. That's what they called love, some people are lucky to find a person who truly loved them. They found a person who care for them, treat them nicely and give the attention they need.

It's nice to encounter those rare type of people since there are cases which people aren't loyal to their partners. The feeling that they have are only at beginning but as the relationship goes on the problems and true colors are shown. There are cases that couple manage to overcome those struggles in relationship and it made them a better couple but some aren't lucky to encounter the true color of their partner. Like what people say, humans are the greatest pretender, you can't read a person's mind what he or she's thinking. You won't know the true color of person when it's your first time to meet him or her.

The importance of knowing each other stage is required in relationship, it's better to know the person first before said yes into proposal the will change your life forever. In a relationship not all the time there are pure happiness, sometimes there would be struggles like misunderstanding, third party issue, personal issues that affects relationship, lack of time to each other and many more. Those struggles that broke the relationship if isn't solve. We all know that humans are full of pride and ego, they don't want to commit their mistake and tends not to deal in situation to stand their pride, I was amazed to those people who's willing to swallow their pride and go down to earth to solve the misunderstanding even if it's not their fault.

Anyway, the reason why I wrote this topic is to share the experience of my friend, I will not mention her name but her story had similarities to the stories we had. The question Is love enough to forgive a person you love will be answer as you further read this article. I have this friend that is so beautiful as in she's beautiful, she had already a son since she got impregnant at a young age. She's with her boyfriend, the father of her son and they last for years. They lived in since they already have newborn baby but the problem start to show up.

Her boyfriend is a member of fraternity and an addict, she experienced to physically hurt but she endure all of it cause she loves the guy and she's afraid that her boyfriend might left her. We all know that here on Philippines if you got impregnant at young age, people around you will judge you, they will treat you as nothing since you let yourself engage on situation that you'll suffer. She's afraid that once her boyfriend left them, she can't handle to raise the child since she's not graduated yet. But her mind was awaken and finally leave her boyfriend, she's already tired of those suffering and physical abuse came from her ex boyfriend.

Now she have a boyfriend but there's an issue again, we are friends but she doesn't tell me those things. Her boyfriend had also the same attitude as her ex boyfriend. She's not required to hangout with friends without her boyfriend consent, her account is also handled by his boyfriend, she was betrayed many times but she forgive her boyfriend since she love him so much. She saw chats of his boyfriend and his ex but she doesn't mind it at all due to trust that she have. She's tired right now and doesn't know what to do, when she shared all this to me, I feel so much pity for her. I know she just want to be love but her decisions is so immature.

I didn't judge her nor mad at her, in fact I gave her an advise to talk with her boyfriend and end the relationship if she's already tired. She's the only making the relationship works, it's already toxic at any part, her boyfriend is suspiciously attached to his ex and its already a red flag. She was blinded by love to the point that she's already hurt, she confess that she's tired but she loves the guy. I know that all of us had the same situation as her, we've been in situation which we fel, inlove to the person and we are afraid to let him or her go since we are already attached, we are afraid that years of relationship will end in an instant, we are afraid that all the efforts and sacrifice will gone in an instant.