Do Not Degrade Yourself

This article is dedicated to a friend that experiencing a problem right now. Im not gonna tag you but if you read this article then this is for you. Hoping that this article can help you to accept yourself and admire all the things you've got. I hope this article can make you realize that despite of things that you don't have, you still manage to become true to all people's surrounds you. Without further a do, let's start this article and I hope it will encourage you.

Do you believe that God created us all beautiful? If we talk about physical attributes, we can say that there are people who blessed with good looks, it'd because of the genes they acquired from their parents. We can't do anything about it because they have good looks flow in their blood. We can't neglect the fact that handsome guys and beautiful girls had lots of perks, it sounds unfair but it is the reality that moving in society. In different aspects, those good looking people are the priorities. Number one standards for modeling is good looks, we can't do nothing about it because it is the tradition that modeling needs to follow in order to have a good image to the public. Second in Jobs, there are companies who are hiring employee with good looks rather than skills, I think they just want to flex their company to others by presenting their handsome and beautiful employees. But I'm not saying that all companies doi g that because there are still companies who relying on skills and abilities of employee no matter what physical attributes they have. Third in Lovelife, we can't avoid the fact that handsome guys and beautiful girls are so lucky in love, let's put it on real life scenario. For an instance, there is a beautiful girl with perfect body and perfect smile, lots of boys are courting and love her and it's normal. Just like beautiful girls says " Hindi nila kasalanan kung ipinanganak silang maganda". That was true because it was a gift given to them not a gift but genes inherited by them from their parents.

There are also handsome boys that lots of women have crush on them. Actually beauty and handsome face can be used as a investment. Some beautiful and handsome people are using their faces to make their dreams come true. They are trying to audition to become an artist and if they are lucky enough, there is a possibility that someone in entertainment industry will accept them. Just like on Pinoy Big Brother or PBB, did anyone of you watch a vlog of Mimiyuh about how PBB accepting people to enter in house of Kuya? According to Mimiyuh, those people that have good face and foreign blood can easily enter on PBB House even though they have lack of talent while if you are not good looking, you can only enter on PBB house if you are funny and can bring happiness. Honestly, I also realized it, it is a form of entertainment or just wanna show that PBB can produce artist with good looking faces? I made a lot of realization as I go deeper, I can conclude that good-looking people had lots of benefits in this world. Does not good-looking people have also perks received by the society? This is where my message start for my friend, It is true that we are unfortunate enough for society to gave us attention. I include myself because I'm not a good-looking person. In spite of acceptance, we are receiving judgments by lot of people. Those judgments that can tear us and make us down. Based on my experience, I've seen a lot of people judging me by their stare and words but you know what? I don't care at all. Everytime I was judge, I'm letting them speak and I was there listening to them without any interest, I didn't dare to fight them back by words until they stopped after they finished I can sense the anger in their eyes. You know, it's a nature of human that once you argue about his or judgements it will increase its ego to say more to you and if you ignore them to speak what they want, they will realize what they do. It's also embarrassing on their side, specially if there are people watching him or her judge.

For all the judgements I got, I ignored them all. I practiced myself not to fight back or argue on them because it's just a waste of time. I also believe that silence doesn't mean your weak but the truth is, it is a form of having higher intelligence than animals lower than you. If your experiencing judgements from other people, always act like they are just pest buzzing on your ears and just ignore them. I have this thinking, " bakit kita papatulan, may bayad ba kapag nakipagsagutan ako sayo, mahal ang bawat salita na lumalabas sa bibig ko beach "🤣. I just think it not saying to people who judge me. And for my friend who degrading himself due to his physical attributes, all I can say is you are so handsome. You have the physical attributes that others don't have. Always remember that if you are not enough blessed with good looks, then you must compensate by showing kindness and good attitude towards others because in the end attitude is still most important thing in this world. And bro, at young age you've already saving huge amount of money and sustaining yourself. It is your biggest advantage to those guys that have good-looks but no money.

Author's Message:

Hoping that it will help you to ease your overthinking, you are handsome and you must believe that. You've accumulated a lot of money at young age and that is so awesome, don't mind people who judging you. If they will judge you again, then slap them with money.

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