Have you ever been friends with someone that you trusted and spent a lot of time with and shared secrets and thoughts with, but this person turns out to be not as good as you expected him to be? We sometimes trust people blindly without actually knowing them perfectly and this can hurt us in many ways such as a back stab.

Friends are nice

I know, friends are nice for sure but not every person that you meet and become friends with is actually good for you because the world is full of bad people and knowing the person and his behaviour around you or behind your back can tell you a lot of his personality and his behaviour towards you, personally. Sometimes we trust the wrong people and think that they are our friends that we love and care about but they turn out to be the opposite, which in return might ruin our background and reputation in society.

Wrong friends

Trusting the wrong people can eventually hurt us in many ways such as getting backstabbed by them or hurt from them physically or mostly mentally by maybe getting bullied or made fun of including our disabilities if we have any, and they sometimes tend to even talk about us in a bad way to ruin our reputation around people outside which will hurt us and give us a bad background, wrong friends are called fake friends as well for looking good around you but actually being fake in reality, speaking bad about us in society with other friends or family members while saying lies about us and our things will probably hurt us in a bad way and will probably give more drama around us and more people will start to hate us and not trust us because people tend to believe everything they hear most of the time. Know your friends before it's too late and stay away from fake ones.

Work in silence

If you are working on a project or a topic that you eventually want to do in the future then work in silence and this also applies for your education because people don't actually care unless they see the progress, well unless they are your family members of course or significant others, or maybe best friends, and working in silence will eventually give you more power to focus and less stress and drama from other people, including fake friends if you have any, because fake friends might try to ruin your work that you are trying to accomplish because they might get jealous of you or hate you for no reason whatsoever because they might be bad people so work in silence and let your achievements talk for you. Success is better achieved in silence and away from any other people's tongues and talks.

Trust issues

If we somehow get backstabbed from a close person be it our friend or a family member in a really bad way we might start having trust issues and this includes some behaviour from our significant other as well. Trust issues are basically when you don't trust anyone around you anymore and you sometimes need some type of proof to believe what you hear. Having trust issues is very bad but also very self conscious and a smart way to live your life, but it can be stressful and depressing, and from our past experience with other people's behaviour we start thinking everyone is the same, well this is not the case and try having no trust issues but at the same time don't take any risk and always try doing the correct thing and trusting the correct people after some research about who they really are and their personalities before trusting them.

Quality is better than quantity

Having quality friends that you trust and know since a long time is better than having millions of friends all around you which some of them can be fake friends and might backstab us or damage our reputation in some way, and having a lot of friends means more responsibilities, which will also add for a more dramatic lifestyle and a harder lifestyle to manage, so keep your friends limited and keep the ones you trust and be aware of having multiple friends which you don't need that might hurt you in a way or another, and always keep the friends that you love and care about and of course trust, and that you share memories together or a lot of hobbies together because a real friend is hard to find.

Stay strong and stay safe and always be happy.

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