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They are facing a Hard Time:Family
February 02, 2022 Happy Tuesday my read. cash family wishes you all an inspiring start to this brand new month of love filled with unlimited possibilities! Every day when we wake up and the first thing that should be in our mind are a list of task that allows achieving our future goal. Let's keep reminding ourselves every day we have goals that we should focus on things that will help us in the long run. But most of the time I wake up with an empty feeling, it takes time for me to realize that I have so many obligations from my parents and my family. Since I was young I never depended on my parents and that is one thing im thankful to God that he gave me this kind of mindset that I must work hard and never depend on someone else. We are 8siblings but no one of us become successful in life we all get married at a young age without thinking of what might happen in the future. Now I have this problem and I know that this will arise if we do not think of what will be tomorrow brings us. All my siblings have a mindset of not caring for their future all they think is only for today's happening and now that pandemic and typhoon hit them and they don't have a job that's the time they act as if they do something to prepare if calamities occur. They are having a hard time at this point but what can I do? Yes, I have a job but I can't promise to help you all financially as I have also my own family. My parents are now in their 60s, and thanks to God that he gave them good health, though I help them financially but still not enough especially one of my sisters and her husband was also there and not do something to find another source of income. May they think now that I am lucky because I have a job but they do not think about how I sacrificed my 2 daughters that they growing up without a mother to their side. Furthermore, it's not my fault anymore, but why do I have a guilty feeling about what they're facing right now? Ugh, I hate this feeling for they have still good health where they can find a way to look for food. Yesterday as my sister texted me that my father always thought that he can't stand that he depends on me as I have already family to feed that he wants to find a job so that soon I can go home it feels my heart pain knowing that if only I have financial freedom I promise that my parents will not worried too. In conclusion, Everybody's life has its up and down but not all are aware that they can do something themselves to turn things around. That's all for me today to all who dropped by a million thanks to all of you May God bless us all. My sponsors thank you so much! Thank you for reading! Cheers!
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I also wake up feeling empty so many times, I feel demotivated and sometimes don't wanna do anything. In those cases I simply force myself up by thinking of the things I have at stake and the amount of success that awaits me.
We can't escape this feeling of emptiness but we only make sure that after a few minutes we are again going back on our track which to establish our goals, thanks to you my friend for the unending support.
You don't need to feel guilty sis. It's not your mistake. It's not your fault. You have your own life, meron ka din ginagastusan. Tumulong ka parin sa makakaya mo sis. Taga saan pala family mo sis kasi naapektuhan din ng bagyo. Yung sa amin naapektuhan din kasi sis. Sobrang hirap din dun sis.
Cebu, ang family ko sis nasa Mandaue. Sobrang naapektuhan yung mga kapatid ko kasi yung work nila ay by contractual ngayon parang walang orders kasi nga dahilan nung isang buwan walang kuryente kaya wala din silang work hanggang ngayon and ang worse is yung taong inaasahan na magbibigay sa kanila ay hindi nagpapakita.
Oo malakas din sa Cebu sis. Grabe din pinsala ni typhoon Odette doon. Ganun ba sis. Hanggang ngayon ba sis wala pa ring kuryente?
Meron na sis pero yung trabaho nila parang wala pang order by order kasi ang work nila lamination tapos parang export kapag walang order wala din trabaho sis.
Ah ganun ba sis. Sana maging okay na sis para mabalik na sa dati.
Not a little bit dear. Don't feel guilty. Perhaps you are a front warrior. Proud of you & may the Almighty bless you more.
Likewise, my friend God Bless and keep up always with a good heart.
Dear Cleophia, you are a devoted and hard-working mother and daughter. God bless you. As much as you help your parents, rest assured that God will always take care of your two sweet daughters. I hope you return to your family as soon as possible... 💗
Thank you, my friend, for your kind and heartwarming message.
I feel you jud dae,ing ana ko sauna kadtong naa pakoy work oy,pero kadtong nag menyo nako,magool ko magusmusta kay kung naay problema,wa koy ikatabang ,maka guilty bitaw.
Mao nag libog nalang akong brain dae kay wala pa intawon nahuman akong payag niya kaulion nako nya wala may money hays nalang jud maong agwanta sa kamingaw sa duha ka bata.
Bitaw dae no,lisod raba kayu mobalibad og igsoon jud
Ayan talaga Yong mahirap sis ,naranasan ko yan dati ,hanggang sa kalaunan naging dahilan na din ng Di naman pag kakasundo mag asawa ,kasi nga kinikeri ko ang lahat ,noon pa yon mga unang taon ng pag abroad ko,pero ngayon hindi na kasi nga dapat ko unahing ang family ko,mag nibigay ako kung meron pero kung wala pasensiya muna
Oo sis sa magulang nalang ako nagbibigay.
Don't to much overthink sis. You should mind your health first. Don't feel guilty ,I know you can able to help sa mkakaya mo.
Don't stress Sis , you need to take care of yourself first Sis. You're really a kind hearted mother , daughter and sister. I wish your singling may understand your situation and you achieve all those things which you want.
Don't feel guilty ateee. Di mo naman kasalanan kong wala trabaho mga siblings mo. Chocie nila yun, lalo nat kaya naman nilang mag trabaho eh. Di mo naman pwedeng kargahin lahat, may pamikya ka din. Supporting your parents is fine, per kong pati na kapatid mong may pamilya? Nako ibanh usapan na yan.
This is heart touching... But they can still move around and do something, maybe they haven't been talked too. You could talk to them and maybe the message will sink in their head. It's not easy providing for an extended family with your own immediate family
I feel you, as much as we want to help hindi rin naman kaya sis😬
Oo sis kung sana lang marami tayung pera para ipamigay.
For me, uunahin ko ang sarili ko, kasi kung hindi ko uunahin ang sarili ko, hindi ko matutulungan ang ibang tao. Maganda maging generous sa iba, pero let us also not forget our self. :)
Sana nga sis , ako kasi nakalimutan ko na sarili ko ni sa sahud ko walang natira pero okay lang laban pa rin.
Ginoo ko dae kini nga sitwasyon ang lisod timbangon ba. Pero cge ra ana mn jud Ang kinabuhe dae mao laban lng jud. Ang sakit pa jud dae kanang kulang pa gani ato nahtag nya murag way value ang tanan. Niagi ko ana dae kanang cge ta pdla nya di ma appreciate gni. Di bya lalim mg ofw.
As in dili jud nila ma appreciate dae labi nang atung ihatag kulang pa ibayad sa ilang utang pero okay lang laban pa rin hanggang sa dulo.
Mao na ang pinakasakit dae nga mski daginuton ra ang sapi pero ge apod apod lgi twn para way dghn storya mao rmn diay jpon hahaha. Hahay paita aning pobre rta dae.
***I feel you dae. Karon bitaw bisan naa ko pamilya ma-guilty ko kung di ko kayang sa ako family sa Cebu pero Saon man nga di man sad mi dako ug kita Tawn. Nindot iyahang pero among kita kay iho ra pud Tawn sa amo konsumo, hays paeta bitaw ingon ani nga sitwasyon oi***
Mao gyud dae, kay og naa nata atoang own family dili na jud ta kahatag nila Permanente kung naa nalang masobra.
***Ana jud dae labi na nga naa na ta mga anak. Daghan na ug gastuhan Mao Dili sa tanang panahon makahatag ta***